Lars And The Real Girl

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00:02:15 I'm inviting you to breakfast.
00:02:23 I can't, I have to go to the church.
00:02:30 Well, after the church then?
00:02:32 C'mon, we haven't seen
00:02:36 Take this, I don't want
00:02:41 It's so cold out.
00:02:47 - C'mon.
00:02:55 You'll come?
00:02:57 Oh yeah.
00:03:01 Great.
00:03:03 - Could you put that whole thing on...?
00:03:27 - You owe me 5 dollars.
00:03:33 Until I sit at the table, I don't owe you anything.
00:03:39 Something is going on with him.
00:03:42 You keep saying that, I think you're--
00:03:45 I think the other things may be kicking in.
00:03:55 In all the world...
00:03:57 there are books and books and books of Lords.
00:04:02 But in all this world there
00:04:07 We need never ask:
00:04:12 Because the Lord has told us
00:04:16 Love one another.
00:04:19 That my friends, is the one true Lord.
00:04:24 Love is God in action.
00:04:29 The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ,
00:04:32 The fellowship of the Holy Spirit
00:04:37 Amen.
00:04:46 - This is when you want some help.
00:04:51 It's my turn to drop them off at the hospital.
00:04:57 You know... you're a good looking fellow, Lars.
00:05:00 Where's your girlfriend?
00:05:02 I don't have one.
00:05:03 - Are you gay?
00:05:05 My grandson is gay,
00:05:08 I know, but I am not gay, so...
00:05:10 Well... don't leave it too long,
00:05:17 Here.
00:05:20 Give this to somebody nice, for a start.
00:05:27 Hello, Lars.
00:05:44 - I guess I'll see you at work tomorrow.
00:05:52 Karin, remember, he is 27 years old.
00:05:55 - That's not what he wants.
00:06:00 - How do you know that, exactly?
00:06:03 that's not how people are.
00:06:07 Ah, there he goes.
00:06:14 Lars, c'mon, you promised.
00:06:24 - Is that normal?
00:07:11 - Good morning.
00:07:14 Did you have a nice weekend?
00:07:17 That new girl is kinda cute, huh?
00:07:20 You and Margo? What do you think?
00:07:35 Lars, you gotta see this.
00:07:38 I am not in the mood for porn this morning.
00:07:40 It's not porn.
00:07:44 Okay... it is, but check it out, alright?
00:07:48 You like?
00:07:50 Man it's solid. Like if she'd weigh 125 pounds,
00:07:57 You can customize everything,
00:08:00 You can design your own woman.
00:08:04 - And Lars, Lars.
00:08:10 They're anatomically correct.
00:08:19 Not gonna buy one, aren't ya?
00:08:21 I wish...
00:08:23 Look how much they cost.
00:08:28 Morning.
00:08:31 - Morning.
00:08:34 Margo is here, everybody. Hooray.
00:08:41 Could you put the...?
00:08:50 Yeah, I was thinking. We're the only ones
00:08:57 Lars, it's your day for coffee, buddy.
00:08:59 Oh yeah.
00:09:05 You know what your problem is, Margo?
00:09:08 Just... chill-lax, ya know.
00:09:11 Shut up.
00:09:22 Wait, stop. Stop!
00:09:25 Karin, what? What?
00:09:30 We want you to come for dinner.
00:09:34 Will you come?
00:09:44 - You scared me.
00:09:48 Sweetheart, sorry.
00:09:51 Wait.
00:09:53 - I can't... I can't.
00:09:57 Why not?
00:10:04 I brought my work home,
00:10:09 No, you didn't.
00:10:10 Yeah? Did you hear that?
00:10:12 Come on, wait.
00:10:19 - Come on, please?
00:10:23 and I can't.
00:10:26 There is salmon, and cherry pie in there.
00:10:31 - Would you please let me go?
00:10:37 Okay.
00:10:54 - Is that all you can eat?
00:10:58 No no, you stay there.
00:11:02 You boys talk.
00:11:12 Okay. Karin's been worried about you.
00:11:17 because you spend so much time by yourself.
00:11:22 - I'm fine.
00:11:26 It's exactly what I said.
00:11:30 Dad was kinda like that too, so...
00:11:34 Yeah, but he didn't want anyone around him.
00:11:40 That's not true.
00:11:45 Okay, you know, yeah sure,
00:11:49 You didn't know them before that, so...
00:11:53 I mean nothing you could have.
00:12:10 Karin and I would really like it
00:12:15 - No, that's okay, thank you.
00:12:20 Yeah, I know. But I'm fine, thanks.
00:12:23 Just putting that there.
00:12:30 - Good night. Sleep tight.
00:12:34 Oh wait. Here are some leftovers for you.
00:12:36 Do you have my blanket?
00:12:39 - Oh yeah, it's on...
00:12:43 Be right back.
00:12:48 It's a beautiful blanket.
00:12:50 - Gus says your mother made it for you.
00:12:53 When she was pregnant.
00:12:58 Well she must've loved you very much,
00:13:01 like we do.
00:13:09 - Are you mad at me?
00:13:13 Here we go.
00:13:14 - Good night.
00:13:25 What?
00:13:53 Six weeks later...
00:14:09 - Hello?
00:14:12 They just delivered a huge box for you.
00:14:17 - Oh... Okay, thanks.
00:14:22 Thanks.
00:15:23 That's a nice sweater.
00:15:41 Hey.
00:15:48 That's okay. Can Karin
00:15:51 - Karin.
00:15:54 Honey, come here, it's Lars.
00:15:56 - Oh... Really?
00:16:00 She is just.... doing that several kinda...
00:16:05 It's pregnant women's yoga.
00:16:11 That's good good stuff.
00:16:13 - Hey.
00:16:14 What's up?
00:16:20 I have a visitor.
00:16:23 You have a...?
00:16:26 - Yeah.
00:16:30 That... it's great.
00:16:33 Yeah.
00:16:35 - And she's not from here.
00:16:41 Wow. What do you... what do you..
00:16:45 Where did you meet this person?
00:16:47 - On the Internet.
00:16:51 That's great.
00:16:54 She doesn't speak much English though.
00:16:58 It's okay. It's the same...
00:16:59 It's really the same with the guys at work.
00:17:02 Okay.
00:17:06 Yeah, well, ya know, she is in a wheelchair,
00:17:09 so I just don't want you to feel weird about it.
00:17:11 - No, no.
00:17:15 And I have to ask you really,
00:17:19 Yeah?
00:17:23 She's just really religious,
00:17:27 and single, it just doesn't feel right for
00:17:31 - Oh no, no... We'll put her in the pink room.
00:17:35 - In the pink room?
00:17:38 And there are new towels.
00:17:43 Just give us half an hour,
00:17:48 - Okey dokey.
00:17:51 Yes.
00:17:55 - Okay, let's get us get started.
00:17:59 That is...
00:18:03 You quiet ones...
00:18:08 It's great.
00:18:09 - See you in a little bit.
00:18:36 Bianca is a missionary.
00:18:39 Or was a missionary. Right, sorry.
00:18:42 Because she was raised by nuns.
00:18:43 But now she is on a sabbatical
00:18:45 Isn't that neat?
00:18:54 She's shy.
00:18:57 Well, you are.
00:19:00 Everything is so new...
00:19:02 for her, right?
00:19:10 - Are you hungry?
00:19:15 Gus, will you give me a hand
00:19:24 That was that.
00:19:37 - He is crazy, right? He's crazy, Karin.
00:19:42 - What are we gonna do?
00:19:49 My God...Karin.
00:19:53 Can't just put him in a hospital.
00:19:56 I can't believe this.
00:20:00 Put yourself together.
00:20:05 He's talking to a doll, baby.
00:20:08 We just gonna get through this somehow okay?
00:20:10 - I just don't know how am I gonna do that.
00:20:12 but you're gonna be calm, okay?
00:20:17 Okay.
00:20:20 - I am sorry.
00:20:27 Karin, Karin, she's not gonna eat.
00:20:58 So you're never gonna believe this...
00:21:01 Makes me mad.
00:21:04 Bianca's from the tropics...
00:21:06 She was-- She is Brazilian.
00:21:09 Half Brazilian, half Danish, that's right...
00:21:14 and...
00:21:16 somebody stole her luggage.
00:21:20 Yeah, and they stole her wheelchair.
00:21:27 That's terrible.
00:21:29 Yeah. Can you believe that, Gus?
00:21:33 - Yeah, I can believe it.
00:21:37 Well it... it makes me angry.
00:21:40 Anyway...
00:21:44 I wanted to ask you a favor.
00:21:46 She doesn't lie, I promise you.
00:21:49 Karin, you don't mind lending Bianca some clothes, do you?
00:22:05 Do you?
00:22:07 I'm not sure we are the same type, Lars.
00:22:09 That's okay, Karin, because...
00:22:12 Bianca doesn't really care about
00:22:24 - Sure.
00:22:28 See? I told you.
00:22:30 Thanks.
00:22:34 This used to be my mom's room.
00:22:38 So... if you need anything, Gus and Karin
00:22:43 I'm in the garage.
00:22:45 But you know that, so...
00:22:49 Your towels are brand new,
00:22:54 Lars, I... I think we should...
00:23:01 Just see you in one second.
00:23:03 I just wanted to say that I'm so glad
00:23:08 Lars, I...
00:23:12 Yeah, okay. Good night.
00:23:25 Wait, Gus had a good idea.
00:23:28 He's... he's concerned about Bianca's health.
00:23:33 You know just with the traveling, and...
00:23:37 What stress, you know?
00:23:40 I'll make an appointment with Dr. Birnman
00:23:44 - We'll all go.
00:23:51 - You think that's a good idea?
00:23:55 Yeah, that's a good idea, because I was gonna go
00:24:02 - So, good night.
00:24:04 I'll see you tomorrow.
00:25:16 'Real Doll'
00:25:18 Natasha escaped from Moscow,
00:25:20 where she was forced to strip
00:25:23 Now all she wants is an all American male to love.
00:25:27 Nadori left a high paying job in Tokyo
00:25:30 because she was unsatisfied as a woman.
00:25:33 Tammy dropped out the high school
00:25:37 Are you the right cowboy to tame this wild billy?
00:25:55 The doctor will tell us what to do.
00:25:59 But she is family practice.
00:26:02 No, she is.
00:26:08 She says you have to be, this far north.
00:26:16 What would people think?
00:26:20 We can't worry about that.
00:26:26 Right.
00:26:45 Right there is where my dad used to work.
00:26:49 Our dad.
00:26:52 That's the library. I have a card
00:26:56 Well, actually I'll have to take them out for you.
00:27:03 I don't know actually, Gus...
00:27:06 What was it that dad did?
00:27:08 Water and power.
00:27:21 My job is at the school department.
00:27:26 I miss everybody, but there's so much to do in the house.
00:27:30 I'll go back, just as soon as the baby's old enough
00:27:51 Yeah sure.'Readers Digest'.
00:27:56 Then there is 'Living' or 'Country'.
00:28:01 That's what I would say.
00:28:19 Her blood pressure is low.
00:28:25 - Is that serious?
00:28:34 It's fine.
00:28:46 I want you to bring her in every week
00:28:51 Can you do that?
00:28:57 Yeah, are you sure that that is necessary?
00:29:02 - Yes.
00:29:07 What do you think?
00:29:09 All that's what she says, I'm sure.
00:29:15 You can set that up with Jo-Anne,
00:29:20 I look forward to getting to know you, Bianca.
00:29:27 Karin, I'm telling you, he belongs in a hospital.
00:29:30 No.
00:29:32 No. My uncle Garth went to one of these places
00:29:35 But he needs more help than
00:29:37 I told you that something was wrong
00:29:39 If I may?
00:29:42 Has Lars been functional? Does he
00:29:47 So far.
00:29:50 - Has he had any violent episodes?
00:29:55 He's a sweetheart.
00:29:57 Okay.
00:29:59 We got to fix him, can you fix him?
00:30:01 I don't know, Gus.
00:30:04 I don't believe he's psychotic or schizophrenic.
00:30:08 I don't think this is caused by genes
00:30:12 So what the hell is goin' on then?
00:30:14 - He appears to have a delusion.
00:30:18 What the hell is he doing with a delusion,
00:30:21 That's what we have to find out.
00:30:24 Chances are, he's been decompensating for some time.
00:30:29 Guess we didn't realize.
00:30:34 Have there been any changes in the family
00:30:39 No, everything is pretty much exactly the same,
00:30:45 You know, this isn't necessarily a bad thing.
00:30:48 What we call mental illness
00:30:53 It can be a communication,
00:30:57 Fantastic. When will it be over?
00:31:00 When he doesn't need it anymore.
00:31:04 How can we help?
00:31:10 - Go along with it.
00:31:16 No no...
00:31:18 Pretend that she is real? I'm not gonna do that,
00:31:20 I mean, I can't. I'm just not gonna do it.
00:31:21 - She is real.
00:31:24 - She's right out there.
00:31:28 I'm just not gonna--
00:31:29 I'm not gonna do it, so...
00:31:31 You won't be able to change his mind anyway.
00:31:33 - Bianca's in town for a reason.
00:31:36 It's not really a choice.
00:31:43 Then we'll do it, whatever it takes.
00:31:46 Oh yeah, yeah, yup.
00:31:49 And you.
00:32:04 She loves kids.
00:32:12 - More coffee, Lars?
00:32:16 May I see your funny face?
00:32:21 Does Bianca want some?
00:32:24 Yeah.
00:32:27 - Here we go.
00:32:29 Gus, no? Okay.
00:32:32 Sure.
00:32:40 You're not gonna go to work today, Gus?
00:32:44 I don't feel good.
00:32:50 Bianca could help you,
00:32:53 No, she doesn't.
00:32:57 because she's not a person.
00:32:59 She's a big plastic thing.
00:33:03 That's amazing.
00:33:07 Did you hear that?
00:33:09 Bianca just said that that's why
00:33:22 You're gonna be late...
00:33:24 for work?
00:33:30 I am gonna be late.
00:33:32 Well, I have to go. Okay.
00:33:37 - I'm going to check in...
00:33:40 - And you have my number at work, right Karin?
00:33:50 I wanted to tell you that you
00:33:58 I hope that you'll feel better, Gus.
00:34:01 - Me too.
00:34:06 - Ok, gotta go. Bye.
00:34:13 Well, I had to try, you know.
00:34:17 What? What?
00:34:19 It's just...
00:34:25 It is true. We've been all wrapped up
00:34:29 This is not my fault though.
00:34:31 Not my fault.
00:34:39 Come on, Bianca.
00:34:58 Good morning, Cindy.
00:35:01 Thank you.
00:35:06 It's a while advanced,
00:35:08 you know how excited
00:35:18 - Alright, where are they? I know you took them.
00:35:20 - That's revenge.
00:35:23 For the fake... I put on your floor.
00:35:25 - Oh, that.
00:35:30 It's your turn to get coffee.
00:35:32 Okay, listen up Margo, those action figures
00:35:37 They worth a lot of money, and if I don't see
00:35:41 then you can tell your Teddy bear
00:35:55 I'll return them... one at a time.
00:36:03 You're going to Cindy's party?
00:36:06 Oh, no.
00:36:09 I was hoping you would,
00:36:15 Well, maybe.
00:36:17 That'd be great.
00:36:21 Do you think I can bring my girlfriend?
00:36:25 Yeah, yeah, I'm totally bringing somebody.
00:36:38 - I didn't know there were sex dolls.
00:36:43 - I saw a special in 'People'.
00:36:51 So she is really just one of the girls...
00:36:55 I am sorry.
00:36:57 [speaking Spanish (?)]
00:37:06 No way.
00:37:09 She has a sister?
00:37:13 I wish I had a woman that couldn't talk.
00:37:19 It's not that funny. It's not that funny.
00:37:21 We don't want anything to do with her.
00:37:26 - We all know what happened with that.
00:37:28 - They're just dating?
00:37:32 He is sick, alright. He's sick.
00:37:34 Yes. We were just hoping if we came to you,
00:37:38 You know, just pave the way a little.
00:37:40 If you could just try to understand it...
00:37:43 We can try.
00:37:47 This is all, for heaven's sake.
00:37:51 Sally, your cousin puts dresses on his cats.
00:37:56 Hazel, your nephew gave all his money
00:38:01 And Ernie, everybody knows your
00:38:03 - She wasn't.
00:38:07 Now that's enough.
00:38:09 These things happen.
00:38:13 Lars is a good boy.
00:38:18 You can depend on me.
00:38:21 Thanks Mrs. Gruner.
00:38:24 He's not bringing it to the church,
00:38:30 The question is, as always...
00:38:36 What would Jesus do?
00:39:05 I would like to take the opportunity
00:39:07 to welcome all of our new visitors
00:39:13 Bianca, it's good to see you.
00:39:18 - Thank you so much, Reverend.
00:39:27 These are for you, Bianca.
00:39:32 This is my friend, Mrs. Gruner.
00:39:35 She has a darling figure.
00:39:42 Those are nice, huh?
00:39:43 They are not real,
00:39:45 Isn't that neat?
00:39:53 Get back here.
00:40:31 Watch watch watch... there we go.
00:40:36 Are you comfortable?
00:40:39 I'll get the chair.
00:40:41 Oh can you... can you put a seat belt on her?
00:40:44 Bianca, Gus' gonna put on your seat belt.
00:40:48 Can you put that on her legs because
00:41:04 Thanks Gus.
00:41:07 Where are you guys...
00:41:13 Just one second.
00:41:16 She doesn't know. It's a secret,
00:41:20 It's just she's asking me lots of
00:41:22 She wants to know everything about me so...
00:41:24 I thought I would take her to the lake
00:41:27 where we used to play.
00:41:29 - Yeah.
00:41:31 Yeah.
00:41:33 It sounds... yeah, that sounds nice.
00:41:37 Yeah.
00:41:39 I'm coming.
00:42:05 Gus and his friends used to come here often.
00:42:07 In the summer they would go fishing,
00:42:10 and in the winter,
00:42:14 they would build cool forts, like,
00:42:18 snow hoards.
00:42:20 Watch your head.
00:42:29 Okay this is a treehouse, and a rope swing,
00:42:33 and a ladder.
00:42:40 (Mental illness delusion)
00:42:44 (Delusional Disorder)
00:43:47 You should watch me chop wood too.
00:43:50 I'm really good at it.
00:44:02 I am sorry.
00:44:05 I couldn't wait any longer, I wanted to
00:44:08 After the treatment she has to rest
00:44:15 Keep me company.
00:44:17 Lars,
00:44:19 keep me company.
00:44:31 Do you know how many sessions
00:44:37 No, I don't, it's a tricky illness, Lars.
00:44:42 But you know what I could use is
00:44:47 Oh, they died when she was a baby.
00:44:53 - That's not fair.
00:44:56 She doesn't feel sorry for herself or anything,
00:45:00 Have everyone treating her normal.
00:45:04 That's nice. I admire that.
00:45:07 Yeah, me too.
00:45:10 Yes, he died.
00:45:14 Oh no, I am sorry.
00:45:20 - You have kids?
00:45:27 You must feel really lonely.
00:45:29 Sometimes I get so lonely that I forget
00:45:40 How about you?
00:45:45 You are funny.
00:45:48 So what's the difference between a delusion
00:45:53 It's false perception versus false belief.
00:45:56 So if Mous thinks the FBI's after him...
00:45:58 - The DEA.
00:46:00 - IRS, ATF, AAA.
00:46:04 Now dude, they're all after us.
00:46:13 My dad told me that...
00:46:17 that wood warms you.
00:46:19 Three times:
00:46:21 First when you chop down your tree.
00:46:24 Then when you chop it up,
00:46:26 then when you burn it.
00:46:45 What are we doing?
00:46:47 Oh c'mon.
00:46:50 That's funny.
00:46:53 Is it?
00:46:57 I don't know.
00:47:06 So tell me about Karin.
00:47:10 I don't know her very well.
00:47:11 Oh, she is wonderful.
00:47:14 Gus and I are both very lucky with
00:47:20 But she--
00:47:26 We don't have to talk.
00:47:29 No, it's just...
00:47:32 -...between us.
00:47:38 I'm worried about her.
00:47:40 I think she has a little problem.
00:47:43 - Oh, maybe you shouldn't tell me.
00:47:51 I think it's because
00:47:54 she's just always trying to hug everybody.
00:47:56 You know, some people don't like that.
00:48:01 But she doesn't realize that.
00:48:04 And things...
00:48:11 I don't know what to do about that.
00:48:16 Do you?
00:48:17 But it's such a comfort sometimes
00:48:20 just to have somebody's arms
00:48:24 - No.
00:48:29 It does not feel good.
00:48:35 Like a cut or a bruise?
00:48:38 Like a burn.
00:48:41 your feet freeze and then you come back in
00:48:44 and they thaw out.
00:48:47 It's almost exactly like that.
00:48:50 Same with everybody?
00:48:55 I'm not really with Bianca.
00:49:00 But everyone else.
00:49:03 So you don't let people touch you.
00:49:05 Lars, isn't that hard to get away with?
00:49:09 I'm not really here, because
00:49:15 - And that helps.
00:49:18 We can't change Karin.
00:49:21 But...
00:49:24 I can help you.
00:49:33 That's fine.
00:49:40 - Pain?
00:49:53 You okay?
00:49:58 That's enough for today.
00:50:00 Yeah, thanks.
00:50:10 Yeah, okay.
00:50:24 It's scientifically proven that everyone's
00:50:30 if you just say their names a lot...
00:50:36 You can see that it's gonna make them happy.
00:51:13 Mr. Sunshine, and this must be Bianca.
00:51:28 I have my boots on,
00:51:31 Don't worry about it.
00:51:34 Lars, this is my husband.
00:51:39 Hi.
00:51:43 Bianca.
00:51:46 How are you?
00:51:48 Is that for me, Bianca?
00:51:54 Can Baxter get you two something to drink
00:52:08 Lars...?
00:52:13 Beer.
00:52:16 And for Bianca?
00:52:20 She doesn't drink.
00:52:22 She doesn't like it when I drink either
00:52:23 but I'm still gonna have one.
00:52:29 I can help you with the coats.
00:52:34 This is Margo, this is Bianca.
00:52:36 Hi.
00:52:38 Hi Bianca.
00:52:44 I'm glad you sent us that memo,
00:52:48 So bizarre.
00:52:50 - It's a disorder
00:52:54 Lars?
00:52:56 Look at them.
00:52:58 He's in love with that sluggy hunk of silicone.
00:53:01 - Her name is Bianca.
00:53:04 Hell yes, that's what she's for, yeah.
00:53:05 Eww, Eww.
00:53:08 So I hear you guys are getting married?
00:53:10 - Yes.
00:53:24 I would kill that hair like hers.
00:53:26 Or I'd cut it like to here long
00:53:31 Lars would never let her cut it.
00:53:37 I don't care.
00:53:39 I know how she likes it,
00:53:43 That's my kind of guy.
00:53:47 I need wine.
00:53:50 I'll get it.
00:53:53 - Anything else?
00:54:18 Lars, Bianca - a total babe.
00:54:22 Thanks.
00:54:23 Best thing is, man:
00:54:27 That's what you want in a woman.
00:54:29 They stay with you because they don't know
00:54:32 Know what I am saying?
00:54:35 Is she...flexible?
00:54:51 Yes.
00:56:12 Did you have fun?
00:56:28 I'm just happy, that's all.
00:56:40 'And so he solaced himself with pacing
00:56:44 'and writing and carving on the bark of the trees'
00:56:46 'and on the fine sand a multitude of verses.'
00:56:49 'All in harmony with his sadness,
00:57:14 'But what distressed him greatly was not having
00:57:46 Pain?
00:57:48 It's okay.
00:57:50 That's okay. I can take that.
00:57:55 You must be excited,
00:58:02 Don't you want to be an uncle?
00:58:14 - Do you ever wanna be a mom?
00:58:27 Yes.
00:58:33 But I'm not able to have children of my own.
00:58:39 That's too bad.
00:58:51 Bianca is like that actually.
00:59:00 Yeah, she can't have babies either.
00:59:03 That's a shame.
00:59:07 When she was a baby,
00:59:10 when she was being born.
00:59:13 Like yours.
00:59:16 You have a lot in common.
00:59:28 Lars, you know we...
00:59:31 Since then, I think your things are better.
00:59:34 - Yeah, but it could still happen, right?
00:59:38 It's... it's... rare.
00:59:42 Yes, but it'd still occur.
00:59:47 Lars.
00:59:49 Just take... take a breath.
00:59:56 It's okay.
01:00:00 I am sorry.
01:00:02 I am sorry. It's just so dangerous.
01:00:05 - It's so dangerous...
01:00:08 Put your head between your knees.
01:00:15 Just put your head between your knees.
01:00:18 Okay, okay.
01:00:24 - I'm sorry.
01:00:26 Take a breath.
01:00:38 I hope they have cell phones.
01:00:44 Then we can call each other
01:00:46 You know, you are doing all your things...
01:00:48 and I like you.
01:00:58 How about afternoons?
01:01:03 and then maybe all day Saturday?
01:01:12 Yeah, yeah. You're sure?
01:01:16 Bianca, is that okay with you?
01:01:19 Bianca wants to volunteer at
01:01:24 You do?
01:01:27 What about your blood pressure?
01:01:30 Think of all the bald children
01:01:35 That's true.
01:01:36 I'll just add a little bit of layering here,
01:01:38 kinda right there...
01:01:40 I don't remember what you guys think, but...
01:01:45 I like that.
01:01:49 You sure?
01:01:56 What's that sound?
01:02:00 I hear the telephone.
01:02:02 Ring ring ring.
01:02:39 - Hey.
01:02:49 He is not getting any better, is he?
01:02:55 No, probably not.
01:02:59 He's gonna love that thing...
01:03:03 his whole life and it's all my fault.
01:03:11 No, it's not, it's...
01:03:14 I don't know.
01:03:16 I mean, I left him as fast as I could.
01:03:25 I never thought about him.
01:03:29 moved back here all fat and happy.
01:03:31 And he moves into the goddamn garage
01:03:38 And I let him.
01:03:43 No wonder he goes and orders a fiancé in a box.
01:03:50 Come here.
01:04:51 Hello?
01:05:00 Bianca?
01:05:03 We are upstairs.
01:05:10 What's going on?
01:05:12 There's a hospital volunteer banquet.
01:05:14 - At the VFW.
01:05:16 Oh, she does. She looks beautiful.
01:05:25 We were supposed to play Scrabble.
01:05:28 Are you sure?
01:05:30 Yeah.
01:05:30 Her schedule's on the refrigerator.
01:05:35 No, I didn't.
01:05:42 Can I have a moment alone with her, please?
01:05:49 Thank you.
01:05:52 Thank you.
01:06:00 You are my girlfriend. I shouldn't have to
01:06:01 check your schedule to see you.
01:06:03 When you make a plan, you make a plan.
01:06:07 You have ten people around you all the time...
01:06:09 You can't have one of them to make a phone call
01:06:11 They never fight.
01:06:13 I thought we were going to play Scrabble,
01:06:15 I don't like his tone.
01:06:23 Now you listen to me.
01:06:27 No self-respecting woman is gonna be
01:06:30 - And the sooner you learn that the better.
01:06:32 You're away to job all day.
01:06:35 Wait for you?
01:06:38 Would she even ask you to?
01:06:40 She is out in the community, doing things for others
01:06:46 - And what about me?
01:06:50 you are just like my husband.
01:06:52 Should be home at eleven.
01:07:12 Call it girlfriend. I shouldn't have to check
01:07:20 You okay?
01:07:23 How would she feel if I just left her.
01:07:28 Abandon her.
01:07:30 Wait wait, she didn't abandon you,
01:07:34 How do I know that?
01:07:38 People do whatever they want.
01:07:42 - They don't care.
01:07:45 Lars, we do care.
01:07:49 No, you don't.
01:07:51 That is... that is just not true.
01:07:56 God!
01:07:57 Every person in this town bends all backwards
01:08:04 Why... why do you think she has
01:08:08 and so much to do, huh?
01:08:11 - I don't know.
01:08:14 Because all these people love you.
01:08:19 We push her wheelchair.
01:08:21 We drive her to work,
01:08:24 We wash her, we dress her.
01:08:27 We get her up, we put her to bed.
01:08:30 We carry her.
01:08:32 And she is not petite, Lars,
01:08:38 None of this is easy for any of us,
01:08:45 We do it for you!
01:08:50 So don't you dare tell me how we don't care.
01:09:09 - I think it's the person's job who is upset to say...
01:09:15 - Oh hey.
01:09:17 How was the game?
01:09:21 The cheese inspectors beat
01:09:24 Is everything alright?
01:09:28 Yeah, you know.
01:09:32 Tell him...
01:09:41 You don't have to do that anymore.
01:09:44 You sure? Because I don't...
01:09:48 Sorry.
01:09:50 - It's just been one of these days.
01:09:56 It's up to you, and...
01:10:00 - But I'll better leave you guys.
01:10:05 - What's that?
01:10:08 - I didn't do anything.
01:10:19 I'm tired.
01:10:28 - Did I miss something?
01:10:31 - Really?
01:10:55 - Lars, have you met Erik?
01:10:59 You're pretty famous around here.
01:11:02 Well...
01:11:04 Healthy grip too, pal.
01:11:37 Yes?
01:11:51 In my office.
01:11:55 I think I'm gonna stay.
01:11:57 She's feeling pretty lousy today.
01:12:02 We'll both stay.
01:12:12 I asked her to marry me last week.
01:12:20 Congratulations.
01:12:23 When's the happy day?
01:12:26 - She said no.
01:12:31 - Yeah, I know. I couldn't believe it.
01:12:36 - Yeah...
01:12:45 Stop it. You have no right to talk to me
01:12:50 No, you don't. I don't talk to you like that.
01:13:08 Could you stop yelling?
01:13:49 I was talking to Bianca, and...
01:13:52 she was saying that in her culture,
01:13:56 rituals and ceremonies, and...
01:13:59 this whole kind of things, you know,
01:14:01 or at least when you're done,
01:14:03 that you know you're an adult.
01:14:07 Doesn't that sound great?
01:14:09 It does.
01:14:12 How do you know?
01:14:14 How do I know what?
01:14:15 That you are a man?
01:14:19 Nah, I couldn't tell you.
01:14:26 Okay, was it sex?
01:14:36 Yeah, you know, yeah, yeah.
01:14:41 Well it's a kind of sex,
01:14:42 but it's not... it's not... umm, you know...
01:14:45 I... I don't know,
01:14:48 good... good question.
01:14:50 Yeah, but I have to know.
01:14:53 Hold that thought.
01:15:07 You know you should ask Dagmar.
01:15:09 I did ask Dagmar.
01:15:15 - You know I... I can only give you my opinion.
01:15:19 Well, it's not like you are
01:15:22 There's still a kid inside
01:15:24 when you decide to do right? Okay?
01:15:26 And not what's right for you,
01:15:29 Even when it hurts.
01:15:33 Okay...
01:15:38 Like...
01:15:40 You know, like: you don't jerk people around, you know
01:15:43 and... and you don't cheat on your woman
01:15:46 and you take care your family,
01:15:50 Or you try to anyways.
01:15:53 That's all I can think of, you know?
01:15:56 It sounds like it's easy,
01:15:58 I know. Because nothing is easy.
01:16:01 It's like the old man, he didn't have
01:16:04 He could have given us to an orphanage
01:16:08 But he loved us, and he
01:16:10 even though he didn't know how,
01:16:11 and even though he had a broken heart.
01:16:24 I shouldn't have left you alone with him.
01:16:27 He was too sad, it scared me...
01:16:29 And I just...
01:16:32 I just ran,
01:16:36 and that was selfish
01:16:40 and I'm sorry.
01:16:47 That's okay.
01:16:52 Okay.
01:16:59 You've crossed the line.
01:17:01 - Well you kept swiping my action figures.
01:17:05 Well, whatever, Margo, you're
01:17:09 - Take off the news.
01:17:11 - No.
01:17:12 Face it, Margo, the bear is dead, okay?
01:17:24 I warned her.
01:17:43 It's not just the bear.
01:17:46 I broke up with Erik.
01:17:56 I'm sorry to hear that.
01:18:00 Yeah, you know, I didn't even have a good reason.
01:18:03 At least one that's very interesting.
01:18:16 Why was he your boyfriend?
01:18:21 Because I was lonely.
01:18:26 Oh yeah?
01:18:46 Thank you.
01:18:49 Sure.
01:18:54 What are you doing on Friday night?
01:19:00 School board meeting.
01:19:04 Bianca got elected so...
01:19:06 - That's great.
01:19:16 Why?
01:19:19 I was just thinking that maybe
01:19:25 Never mind.
01:19:27 After I drop off Bianca,
01:19:30 But it's just me, so...
01:19:37 That would be great, Lars.
01:19:40 Thank you.
01:20:09 Nice shot.
01:20:36 - You've pretty too much spin on the ball.
01:20:46 - Sorry, we're full up.
01:20:49 No way, dude.
01:20:52 You know aint nothing.
01:20:55 Is that Lars?
01:20:59 - Hey, buddy.
01:21:02 No ploblema.
01:21:08 - Margo, kick your butt.
01:21:16 - Congratulations.
01:21:25 Hey baby you're bowling on my life.
01:22:36 This is exactly what I needed.
01:22:39 Things look so much better.
01:22:42 Hey, thanks for going bowling with me, Lars.
01:23:06 I don't wanna give you the wrong idea
01:23:10 about this.
01:23:16 I never could cheat on Bianca.
01:23:21 No. Oh my God, I hope you didn't think that, Lars.
01:23:26 I would never do that.
01:23:38 I would never do that.
01:23:44 Okay, good.
01:23:46 Yeah. Me neither.
01:23:48 'Cos a man doesn't cheat on his woman,
01:23:52 Absolutely...
01:23:55 Besides, I don't mean to steal anybody's boyfriend.
01:24:00 ONe day I'll find a man of my own and...
01:24:04 We'll be happy too.
01:24:09 Yeah, that's the way it works, I guess.
01:24:30 Thanks.
01:24:35 Snow.
01:24:43 I was hoping that winter was over.
01:24:46 No, that's just a thaw.
01:24:48 Winter isn't over till Easter.
01:24:58 Thanks again.
01:25:29 Good night, Lars.
01:25:50 I'm not sure how well these treatments are working.
01:25:53 No?
01:25:59 What do you think?
01:26:02 I don't know.
01:26:11 I'm sorry.
01:26:22 I don't know, it's hard.
01:26:28 I know that she loves me. But I ask
01:26:36 She says, I don't know.
01:26:41 Or she doesn't say anything.
01:26:48 Nothing?
01:26:58 When I was a child,
01:27:02 I understood as a child.
01:27:29 Does that feel good?
01:28:08 Wake up!
01:28:16 She won't wake up.
01:28:18 Bianca. I think she's unconscious, hey.
01:28:20 - Are you sure?
01:28:22 Hey, hey hey hey hey.
01:28:25 - Bianca is unconscious.
01:28:32 Wake up.
01:28:34 She looks alright, she looks alright.
01:28:37 - Call 911.
01:28:43 911?
01:28:45 Well, I don't know.
01:28:47 me to know what to do?
01:28:57 They are there, call Dr. Birnman.
01:29:02 # O is for the only one I see #
01:29:04 # V is very very extraordinary #
01:29:08 # E is even more than anyone
01:29:12 I'm sorry, you'll have to wait out here.
01:29:14 # Love is all that I can give to you...#
01:29:18 Doctor's on the way.
01:29:20 - Hello? Hello?
01:29:35 What?
01:29:39 What?
01:29:42 Bianca is very sick.
01:29:46 No, she's not, she's not.
01:29:49 She's not, Lars.
01:29:54 She's dying.
01:29:57 - But...?
01:29:59 We're gonna keep her here until
01:30:03 she wants to go home with Lars tonight.
01:30:06 - Can I see her?
01:30:32 What?
01:30:54 I'm sorry, but I...
01:30:57 I mean, what's that gonna do to him?
01:31:01 No, I'm not letting it happen, it's Lars.
01:31:07 He's making the decisions.
01:31:11 He's the one who said she's dying.
01:31:27 You okay back there?
01:31:29 They gave her something, so she's asleep.
01:31:34 Anything you want, Lars?
01:31:41 I want to stay together with her
01:33:31 Come down to the family room, Lars.
01:33:45 We sent Gus and Karin to the movies.
01:33:48 They didn't want to leave you too.
01:33:59 I'm glad they left.
01:34:00 I feel terrible with all this is happening
01:34:04 This how life is, Lars.
01:34:08 We brought casseroles.
01:34:11 Thank you.
01:34:21 Is there something I should
01:34:23 No, dear.
01:34:25 You eat.
01:34:27 We came over to sit.
01:34:30 That's what people do when tragedy strikes.
01:34:32 They come over and sit.
01:34:40 Don't you feel a little better?
01:35:02 I got spring fever. We're going to the lake.
01:35:05 You wanna come?
01:35:14 Hey Lars, why don't you come with us?
01:35:17 It'll do everybody good.
01:35:26 Bianca, don't you want to see
01:35:45 - Is there a storm coming?
01:35:52 It looks like a storm to me.
01:35:56 Well, I need to stretch my legs.
01:36:06 Lars.
01:36:11 I think we're gonna watch the water.
01:36:14 Well, we won't be far.
01:36:17 - Holler if you need us.
01:38:08 So you think it's not the right color?
01:38:10 I don't know. Does it match the curtains?
01:38:12 - I think so, here, just be careful.
01:38:28 No no, don't run.
01:38:33 Lars!
01:39:00 Lars asked us not to wear black today.
01:39:04 He did so to remind us that this
01:39:13 We are here to celebrate Bianca's
01:39:20 From her wheelchair, Bianca
01:39:26 in ways we could have never imagined.
01:39:31 She was a teacher.
01:39:36 She was a lesson in courage.
01:39:44 And Bianca loved us all.
01:39:48 Especially Lars.
01:39:53 Especially him.
01:40:42 - You okay?
01:40:46 I don't know... it's just...
01:40:59 - He's unbelievable.
01:41:08 I wanted to thank you for...
01:41:21 Gus.
01:41:30 - So shall we see you in the house?
01:41:34 Sure.
01:42:04 She asked me not to be sad
01:42:11 Yeah, me neither.
01:42:16 But it'll all get better with time.
01:42:21 That's what everyone keeps saying, so...
01:42:25 It's true, I think, in a way.
01:42:33 But there'll never be anybody like her.
01:42:59 I suppose we should...
01:43:02 catch up with everyone.
01:43:12 Would you want to take a walk?
01:43:16 Yes.