Next Of Kin

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00:00:54 -THIS IS A WASTE OF TIME.
00:00:56 I AM NOT GOING TO LISTEN
00:00:58 -PETER WILL HEAR US QUARRELLING,
00:01:01 -LET HIM HEAR US QUARREL.
00:01:04 TRYING TO INSTIL
00:01:06 GET THROUGH TO HIM ABOUT WHAT
00:01:09 -I SAY HE SHOULD BE HEARING ME.
00:01:11 I THINK IT'S TIME--
00:01:13 BUT I THINK HE'S HEARING
00:01:16 -MY GOD! WHAT A LIFE THIS IS.
00:01:18 WHY DO I HAVE
00:01:20 I HAVE TO GO TO WORK
00:01:23 ( Spanish guitar music)
00:02:24 -MY NAME IS PETER.
00:02:29 I'M 23 YEARS OLD,
00:02:31 AND I'VE LIVED AT HOME
00:02:34 WATCHING MY PARENTS
00:02:49 FOR A WHILE, I THOUGHT THAT WAS
00:02:52 BUT IN THE PAST YEAR OR SO,
00:02:55 IT'S ALL BEGUN
00:03:12 SO WHAT I'VE BEEN DOING INSTEAD
00:03:14 IS SPENDING A LOT
00:03:47 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
00:03:50 ( aII singing )
00:03:54 HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR PETER
00:03:58 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
00:04:16 Peter: I FIGURED OUT
00:04:18 THAT BEING ALONE WAS EASIER
00:04:23 ONE PART OF YOU WOULD ALWAYS
00:04:27 AND THE OTHER PART WOULD
00:04:30 KIND OF LIKE AN ACTOR.
00:04:54 -NOW BEFORE WE START, I'D LIKE
00:04:58 THEY'LL BE VIDEOTAPING
00:05:01 AFTER THIS MEETING, I'D LIKE
00:05:04 SOMETIME OVER THE NEXT WEEK.
00:05:06 NOW IT'S IMPORTANT
00:05:08 USE ONE OF OUR ROOMS
00:05:10 THEN, WHEN WE MEET AGAIN,
00:05:12 WE CAN TALK ABOUT YOUR REACTIONS
00:05:14 AND WHAT YOU THINK
00:05:17 OKAY? GOOD.
00:05:21 -IS THAT S YSTEM HOOKED UP TO A...
00:05:26 -YES. NOW... GOOD.
00:05:29 COULD SOMEONE TELL ME
00:05:33 -RIGHT NOW, OUR BIG PROBLEM
00:05:37 HE DOESN'T WANT TO DO
00:05:40 -IS THAT RIGHT, PETER?
00:05:42 -I GUESS, YEAH.
00:05:44 -WHAT DO YOU DO ALL DAY?
00:05:46 -HE PRETENDS.
00:05:48 -IS THAT RIGHT, PETER?
00:05:51 -SOMETIMES.
00:05:53 YOU ENJOY IT?
00:05:56 -I GUESS, YEAH.
00:05:58 -DO YOU HAVE MANY FRIENDS?
00:06:01 WHY NOT?
00:06:03 -I... I FIND IT DIFFICULT
00:06:07 -ARE YOU LONELY?
00:06:13 HOW OLD ARE YOU?
00:06:15 -I ASKED PETER.
00:06:18 IS THAT RIGHT? ARE YOU 23?
00:06:20 -YES.
00:06:22 -DOES YOUR MOTHER USUALLY
00:06:24 -SOMETIMES.
00:06:27 -A LOT OF THE TIME?
00:06:31 WHAT TIME DO YOU GET UP
00:06:34 -HE USUALLY SLEEPS IN.
00:06:36 -DO YOU STAY UP LATE?
00:06:39 THEN WHY DO YOU SLEEP SO MUCH?
00:06:43 MR. FOSTER, WHAT TIME
00:06:46 -OH, AT A QUARTER TO SIX,
00:06:48 -YOU GO TO WORK?
00:06:50 -IS IT A GOOD JOB?
00:06:52 -AND YOU WORK HARD AT IT?
00:06:54 -TAKE A CERTAIN PRIDE IN WHAT YOU DO?
00:06:58 -THEN HOW IS IT
00:07:00 THAT DOESN'T WANT TO WORK,
00:07:04 AND PRETENDS THAT HE'S
00:07:07 -I--
00:07:10 ABOUT ALL OF THIS?
00:07:12 TO REJECT YOUR VALUES.
00:07:15 YOU DON'T WANT TO BE
00:07:18 -OH, I HAVE NOTHING
00:07:20 -YOU LOVE THEM?
00:07:22 -HMM.
00:07:24 -VERY MUCH?
00:07:26 ( Hearing voices )
00:07:52 Peter: LOOKING BACK ON OUR
00:07:56 I'VE COME TO REALIZE SOMETHING:
00:07:59 I ENVY THERAPISTS.
00:08:02 I MEAN, WHAT CAN BE
00:08:06 THAN GETTING TO KNOW
00:08:08 TRYING TO SOLVE THEIR PROBLEMS?
00:08:12 WHAT CAN BE MORE
00:08:16 THAN GIVING DIRECTION
00:08:19 Father: I DON'T HAVE
00:08:21 I HAVE TO GO TO WORK
00:08:23 YES, YOU HAVE, GARY, IF WE WANT
00:08:26 AND THROUGH OUR SON.
00:08:31 -SO HOW'S YOUR FAMILY?
00:08:33 AND YOURS?
00:08:36 -HOW'S YOUR MOTHER COMING ALONG?
00:08:39 -AND YOUR WIFE?
00:08:41 -SHE TOLD ME SHE SPENT
00:08:44 -YOU'RE JOKING.
00:08:50 -HOW ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND?
00:08:52 VERY COOPERATIVE, VERY... OPEN
00:08:56 -WELL, THAT'S A START.
00:08:58 -I OWE TO SHOW YOU
00:09:01 -DO YOU HAVE MUCH TAPE OF THEM?
00:09:03 -COLOUR?
00:09:05 BUT I SHOT IT IN ROOM 304.
00:09:08 -OH, THE LIGHTING IS AS EVEN
00:09:11 -IT'S SO HARD TO GET
00:09:24 -CAN I HELP YOU?
00:09:27 -WHICH ONE?
00:09:30 -THERE YOU GO, DOCTOR.
00:09:34 -YOU'RE NEW HERE, AREN'T YOU?
00:09:36 -YES. I'M WORKING HERE
00:09:38 MISS MINUCHIN HAD
00:09:40 -NOTHING SERIOUS, I HOPE?
00:09:42 -SHE HAD TO GET HER TEETH FIXED.
00:09:45 AND WHAT'S YOUR NAME?
00:09:47 -LIZA...
00:09:48 MY NAME IS TED, BUT MOST PEOPLE
00:09:51 -WELL, I'M ONLY HERE THIS MORNING.
00:09:54 -OH, CALL ME TEDDY
00:09:58 -ROOM 153 IS FREE.
00:10:01 -YOU'RE WELCOME... TEDDY.
00:10:03 Mother: HE DOESN'T WANT
00:10:06 Therapist:
00:10:08 DO YOU HAVE MANY FRIENDS?
00:10:11 HOW OLD ARE YOU?
00:10:12 DOES YOUR MOTHER USUALLY
00:10:15 THEN HOW IS IT THAT
00:10:18 THAT DOESN'T WANT A JOB,
00:10:21 AND PRETENDS THAT
00:10:23 -IS IT NECESSARY TO BE
00:10:26 -MAYBE PETER IS TRYING
00:10:28 Peter: FOR 23 YEARS,
00:10:30 I'VE BEEN RAISED
00:10:34 THAT'S GOTTA CHANGE.
00:10:36 I WANT CONTROL NOW.
00:10:58 -HI, SARAH.
00:11:00 HOW ARE THINGS OUT THERE?
00:11:04 THIS IS A TAPE OF THE SESSION THAT
00:11:09 I'VE INCLUDED
00:11:11 WHICH WILL HELP TO GIVE YOU
00:11:14 AS YOU'LL SEE, THERE'S A GHOST
00:11:19 A SON WHO WAS GIVEN UP
00:11:22 THOUGH THE SHAPE
00:11:24 PLACED A STRESS
00:11:26 THIS SESSION PROVED
00:11:28 IN RELEASING THE TYRANNY
00:11:32 I HOPE YOU FIND IT HELPFUL.
00:11:44 WHY DO YOU THINK
00:11:46 -BECAUSE SHE DON'T RESPECT ME,
00:11:49 -WHY DO YOU THINK
00:11:52 -BECAUSE SHE ACT
00:11:54 -IN WHAT WAY?
00:11:56 -THE WAY SHE DRESSES.
00:11:59 LOOK AT HER.
00:12:01 -IS THAT ALL YOU'RE ANGRY ABOUT,
00:12:04 -SHE DRESS LIKE A...
00:12:09 -DO YOU THINK SHE'S A WHORE?
00:12:19 WHEN YOU TALK,
00:12:23 -YES.
00:12:25 -SHE DOESN'T THINK THAT YOU DO.
00:12:27 -SHE DON'T LISTEN TO ME!
00:12:28 -THEN WHY DO YOU TREAT HER
00:12:30 -BECAUSE SHE MAKE ME ANGRY.
00:12:32 -HOW?
00:12:34 -HUH... JUST... SHE JUST...
00:12:39 -ARE YOU SURE YOU'RE NOT ANGRY
00:12:42 ABOUT BEDROS?
00:12:44 ARE YOU SORRY THAT HE'S NOT HERE
00:12:47 TO FOLLOW IN YOUR FOOTSTEPS?
00:12:49 ARE YOU ANGRY WITH AZAH
00:12:51 YOU BELIEVE YOUR SON
00:12:57 YOU GAVE YOUR SON AWAY
00:13:00 -WE HAD NO MONEY.
00:13:04 A FEW YEARS LATER, YOU HAD
00:13:07 SHE'S IN THIS ROOM
00:13:10 DOES THAT UPSET YOU?
00:13:14 WHAT ARE YOU THINKING, SONYA?
00:13:16 -I WANT US TO BE HAPPY.
00:13:22 -ALL RIGHT. LET'S PLAY
00:13:25 I WANT US TO PRETEND
00:13:27 THAT I'M BEDROS.
00:13:29 LET'S SAY THAT I'VE JUST COME
00:13:35 HI, SONYA.
00:13:55 HI, GEORGE.
00:13:59 AREN'T YOU GONNA HUG ME?
00:14:03 ARE YOU AFRAID THAT I WON'T
00:14:06 DO YOU THINK THAT
00:14:08 THAT I'LL BE EMBARRASSED
00:14:11 WELL, I AM.
00:14:13 YOU'RE JUST A LOUS Y FOREIGNER,
00:14:17 NO WONDER PEOPLE DON'T
00:14:22 -GEORGE! GEORGE!
00:14:24 GO ON, HIT YOUR SON
00:14:31 Dr. Sarah: DID EVERYONE
00:14:33 TO LOOK AT THE TAPE
00:14:35 GOOD.
00:14:37 WELL, LET'S START
00:14:40 WHAT DID YOU THINK
00:14:43 -WELL, I THOUGHT YOU DID
00:14:46 -WHAT DO YOU MEAN?
00:14:48 -WELL, OF POINTING OUT
00:14:52 YOU DISPLAYED A GREAT
00:14:58 -AND WHAT DO YOU THINK
00:15:00 -OH, THAT'S OBVIOUS:
00:15:03 -NOW PETER, DON'T SAY THAT.
00:15:06 -DO YOU WANT TO CHANGE THINGS?
00:15:09 -SO WHAT DO YOU PLAN TO DO?
00:15:11 -WELL, I THOUGHT I'D, YOU KNOW,
00:15:17 FEEL LIKE I'M RESPONSIBLE.
00:15:21 -I THINK THAT'S A GREAT IDEA.
00:15:23 WOULD YOU BE WILLING
00:15:25 -WELL, NOW I DON'T KNOW...
00:15:28 -GOOD.
00:15:30 I'D LIKE YOU TO KEEP A DIARY
00:15:32 HAVE YOU EVER KEPT ONE BEFORE?
00:15:34 -IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE WRITTEN.
00:15:37 YOU CAN SPEAK IT
00:15:39 PRETEND YOU'RE TALKING
00:15:41 TELLING YOUR THOUGHTS
00:15:43 THEN, WHEN YOU RETURN,
00:15:47 AND DISCUSS IT. OKAY?
00:15:50 -HAVE YOU THOUGHT OF WHERE
00:15:59 -MY NAME IS PETER.
00:16:02 I'M 23 YEARS OLD
00:16:03 AND I'VE LIVED AT HOME
00:16:05 WATCHING MY PARENTS
00:16:09 FOR A WHILE, I THOUGHT THAT WAS
00:16:12 BUT IN THE PAST YEAR OR SO,
00:16:14 IT'S ALL BEGUN
00:16:17 SO WHAT I'VE BEEN DOING INSTEAD
00:16:19 IS SPENDING A LOT
00:16:22 JUST TO GET MY MIND OFF THINGS.
00:16:24 LATELY THOUGH, MY MOTHER HAS
00:16:29 I THINK IT REALLY BOTHERS HER.
00:16:32 SO ONE DAY, WE ALL WENT TO SEE
00:16:35 AND WITH HIS ENCOURAGEMENT,
00:16:44 SO HERE I AM.
00:16:48 LOOKING BACK ON OUR SESSIONS
00:16:51 I'VE COME TO REALIZE SOMETHING:
00:16:54 I ENVY THERAPISTS.
00:16:57 IT MUST BE REALLY EXCITING
00:16:59 GETTING INVOLVED
00:17:01 TRYING TO SOLVE THEIR PROBLEMS.
00:17:04 WHAT CAN BE MORE SATISFYING
00:17:06 THAN GIVING DIRECTION
00:17:09 IT MUST GIVE ONE
00:17:13 FOR 23 YEARS,
00:17:15 I'VE BEEN RAISED
00:17:22 BUT THAT'S GOTTA END.
00:17:25 I WANT CONTROL NOW.
00:18:04 HELLO... IS THIS
00:18:08 YES. UH...
00:18:10 THIS IS GOING TO COME AS
00:18:14 BUT... I'M YOUR SON...
00:18:16 NO, NO. NO, I'M NOT JOKING...
00:18:19 YES, YOUR SON...
00:18:21 BEDROS?
00:18:23 YES... WELL, I'D...
00:18:26 I'D LIKE TO MEET YOU.
00:18:58 -WE' WAITING SOMEONE.
00:19:01 -I KNOW.
00:19:05 -BEDROS!
00:19:07 BEDROS. BEDROS.
00:19:21 -YOUR HAIR USED TO BE DARKER.
00:19:25 -AS BLACK AS YOUR MOTHER.
00:19:27 -YOU'RE SO SKINNY.
00:19:31 SKINNY LIKE YOUR GRANDFATHER.
00:19:33 DON'T YOU THINK, GEORGE,
00:19:36 -MORE LIKE HIS UNCLE.
00:19:40 SO YOU KEEP YOUR NAME,
00:19:43 -YEP.
00:19:44 -YOU'RE PROUD OF IT.
00:19:47 -YEAH, BUT SOME CHANGE THEIR NAMES.
00:19:53 -BEDROS...
00:19:55 ARE YOU HAPPY TO SEE US?
00:19:59 ( praying )
00:20:06 WE THANK FOR THIS MEAL
00:20:08 AND THE RETURN OF OUR SON BEDROS.
00:20:11 GOD, HE GIVE HIS SON JESUS
00:20:18 AMEN.
00:20:20 -AMEN.
00:20:27 -SONYA, BEDROS...
00:20:33 BEDROS, WELCOME.
00:20:35 ( Armenian )
00:21:03 -IT USED TO BE YOUR FAVOURITE.
00:21:06 -I DIDN'T HAVE TEETH THEN,
00:21:08 -I MASH IT.
00:21:11 YOU ATE IT ALL UP.
00:21:14 YOU WERE SUCH A GOOD BABY.
00:21:16 WASN'T HE, GEORGE?
00:21:20 -YOU NEVER CRIED.
00:21:22 EVEN WHEN YOU'RE SCARED
00:21:27 -EVEN WHEN I HIT HIM,
00:21:36 -SO... DID YOU HAVE
00:21:43 -WE HAD A DAUGHTER.
00:21:47 -AND YOU GAVE HER UP, TOO?
00:21:49 -WE DON'T GIVE YOU UP.
00:21:51 WE HAVE NO CHOICE.
00:21:53 NO MONEY, NO DOCTOR...
00:21:56 NO FRIENDS, NO HOUSE.
00:22:00 WHAT YOU WANT US TO DO?
00:22:03 LET YOU STARVE?
00:22:06 -I'M SORRY.
00:22:08 I DIDN'T MEAN IT THAT WAY.
00:22:11 -IT WAS ONLY THING TO DO.
00:22:21 -SO... WHERE IS MY SISTER?
00:22:29 -SHE LEFT HOME.
00:22:32 -WHEN?
00:22:34 -TWO MONTHS AGO.
00:22:37 -DOES SHE KNOW I'M HERE?
00:22:43 WELL, I'D LIKE TO MEET HER.
00:22:46 -SHE WILL NEVER COME
00:22:58 ( Listening to himseIf )
00:23:01 BEING IN A STRANGE CITY
00:23:04 I WAS ALWAYS TOLD THAT VACATIONS
00:23:06 WERE SUPPOSED TO TAKE
00:23:09 THAT AT FIRST, YOU MIGHT
00:23:13 BUT I DON'T FEEL LONELY AT ALL.
00:23:17 NOT THAT IT WOULD
00:23:19 I MEAN, AS AN ONLY CHILD,
00:23:21 YOU'RE SORT OF BORN
00:23:24 AND I FIGURED OUT
00:23:26 THAT BEING ALONE WAS EASIER
00:23:30 ONE PART OF YOU WOULD ALWAYS BE
00:23:34 AND THE OTHER PART WOULD
00:23:37 KIND OF LIKE AN ACTOR.
00:23:39 SO THAT WAY, I COULD
00:23:43 BY WATCHING MYSELF PLAY
00:23:48 BUT YESTERDAY
00:23:51 BECAUSE FOR THE FIRST TIME,
00:23:54 WHICH SIDE OF ME
00:23:59 AND THAT WAS
00:24:04 BUT I'M BEGINNING TO LIKE IT.
00:24:15 -SOME OF THESE RUGS
00:24:21 -THEY'RE BEAUTIFUL.
00:24:24 YOU MUST BE PROUD TO SELL THEM.
00:24:28 MAYBE YOU BE PROUD
00:24:32 BEDROS, YOU WILL
00:24:36 FATHER AND SON.
00:24:40 -WELL, I'LL... I'LL HAVE
00:24:44 -SURE. SURE, YOU WANT TO THINK
00:24:53 BEDROS, LET ME
00:24:59 I INHERITED FROM MY FATHER...
00:25:01 I HAVE SO MUCH MONEY
00:25:19 -IT IS FOR MY MOTHER.
00:25:22 -I GO TO CALL THE POLICE.
00:25:24 AND YOU KNOW WHAT THEY DO?
00:25:27 -I WON'T DO IT AGAIN.
00:25:29 -THEY TORTURE YOU.
00:25:33 DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
00:25:35 -SURE?
00:25:37 -PROMISE ME YOU DON'T DO AGAIN?
00:25:39 YES.
00:25:45 IF YOU WANT THEM TO REMEMBER,
00:26:05 BEDROS, I WILL
00:26:11 I LOVE THIS COUNTRY.
00:26:14 YOU KNOW WHY?
00:26:18 AT HOME, I HAD TWO STORES. TWO.
00:26:22 I INHERIT FROM MY FATHER.
00:26:25 I HAD SO MUCH MONEY
00:26:29 YOU KNOW HOW I HAD THAT MONEY?
00:26:32 I BRIBE POLICE, I BRIBE JUDGE...
00:26:36 IT'S THE WHOLE NEW WAY
00:26:41 IT WAS LIKE A NIGHTMARE.
00:26:44 I WASN'T HAPPY.
00:26:47 ONE DAY, I WAKE UP AND I SAW
00:26:52 MY HOUSE, MY MONEY, MY STORES...
00:26:56 THE BASTARDS MAKE ME WAIT
00:26:59 TO GET OUT OF THAT HELL.
00:27:04 I COME HERE WITH NOTHING.
00:27:07 NO MONEY, NO HOUSE... NOTHING.
00:27:12 SO I WORK.
00:27:14 I WORK LIKE A DISHWASHER,
00:27:17 TAXI DRIVER... YOU NAME IT.
00:27:20 FINALLY, I MAKE SMALL MONEY
00:27:25 I KNOW, THIS IS A SMALL STORE
00:27:30 BUT YOU THINK I AM MISERABLE?
00:27:34 YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE
00:27:39 EVERYTHING YOU EARN
00:27:44 NO BRIBES. NO LIES. NO FEAR.
00:27:52 OH! BEDROS, WE ARE LATE,
00:28:17 SONYA, WE ARE HOME!
00:28:26 -HELLO.
00:28:28 -I'M YOUR SISTER.
00:28:32 I DIDN'T THINK YOU'D BE HERE.
00:28:36 -ARE YOU STAYING IN MY OLD ROOM?
00:28:38 -NO. NO... A HOTEL.
00:28:40 -IT'S BETTER THAT WAY.
00:28:42 -IT'S BETTER... IT'S BETTER...
00:28:45 WHAT IS BETTER?
00:28:49 I SPEAK WITH YOU!
00:28:51 WHY YOU DON'T ANSWER?
00:28:53 LOOK, LOOK HOW SHE RESPECT ME!
00:28:55 -THE DINNER IS ALMOST READY.
00:28:57 -WHY YOU DON'T ANSWER TO ME?!
00:29:00 WHY YOU DON'T ANSWER TO ME?!
00:29:04 -I DON'T WANT TO SLEEP.
00:29:06 -HE ALWAYS GETS LIKE THIS.
00:29:09 -LOOK AT ME, PA.
00:29:10 -I'M CALM, TOO. I'M CALM, TOO.
00:29:12 BEDROS, WHO IS CALM?
00:29:14 -IF YOU'D JUST LEARN
00:29:16 -I AM IN CONTROL.
00:29:19 -WHY SHOULD I LISTEN TO YOU?
00:29:22 ( Armenian )
00:29:23 -I AM YOUR FATHER!
00:29:27 -IT'S BEEN NICE MEETING YOU.
00:29:30 -WHY DON'T WE MEET TOMORROW?
00:29:35 -SONYA, PLEASE, NO.
00:29:38 SHE WANTED TO MEET HER BROTHER.
00:29:41 Peter:
00:29:43 I WAS INVITED TO HAVE DINNER
00:29:45 AT THE HOME OF A VERY NICE
00:29:48 WHO INTRODUCED ME
00:29:49 THEY'RE AN UNUSUAL FAMILY.
00:29:51 QUITE DIFFERENT
00:29:54 I'D LIKE TO SPEND
00:29:56 GET TO LEARN SOMETHING
00:29:58 WAY OF LIFE.
00:30:05 THE WAY I SEE IT,
00:30:08 THERE'S NOTHING WRONG
00:30:11 AS LONG AS YOU'RE AWARE
00:30:15 IT TAKES MORE EFFORT
00:30:18 THAN TO SAY, ''YES, DAD.''
00:30:24 WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?
00:30:28 -ALL WE'VE TALKED ABOUT SINCE
00:30:32 -SO?
00:30:34 -THERE ARE OTHER THINGS.
00:30:36 -LIKE WHAT?
00:30:39 -YOU AND YOUR PARENTS.
00:30:43 -WHAT DO YOU MEAN?
00:30:45 -WHAT WERE THEY LIKE?
00:30:48 -QUITE TYPICAL, I SUPPOSE.
00:30:51 UPPER MIDDLE CLASS.
00:30:53 NICE HOUSE.
00:30:56 THERE'S NOT THAT MUCH TO SAY
00:30:59 -WHAT DID THEY DO?
00:31:02 -THE USUAL.
00:31:06 -THE USUAL THINGS
00:31:12 WHAT'S SO FUNNY?
00:31:14 -YOU SEEM VERY PROUD OF THEM.
00:31:17 -WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO SAY?
00:31:23 -DO YOU LOVE THEM?
00:31:25 -I SUPPOSE.
00:31:26 -YOU SUPPOSE?
00:31:28 -I DID LOVE THEM.
00:31:31 -BUT THAT'S ALL IN THE PAST.
00:31:35 -WHAT DO YOU MEAN?
00:31:37 -YOU'VE CAST THEM ASIDE.
00:31:40 -I HAD TO.
00:31:44 -IT'S OBVIOUS.
00:31:46 -NOT REALLY.
00:31:48 I MEAN, IF I DISCOVERED
00:31:53 I WOULDN'T TRY
00:31:56 -YOU CAN'T SAY THAT.
00:31:58 -WELL...
00:32:01 IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO...
00:32:03 TO IMAGINE YOURSELF
00:32:07 IT JUST DOESN'T MAKE SENSE.
00:32:10 ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT
00:32:14 BECAUSE SOMETHING INSIDE ME
00:32:17 NEEDED TO. THAT'S IT.
00:32:23 -SO HERE YOU ARE.
00:32:26 -HAPPY?
00:32:28 -NOT REALLY.
00:32:30 -WHY NOT?
00:32:33 -IT UPSETS ME TO SEE YOU AND
00:32:38 -I'M AFRAID THERE ISN'T MUCH
00:32:42 -YES, THERE IS.
00:32:46 I'LL MAKE THINGS BETTER.
00:32:53 -NEVER?
00:32:55 -THEN I MAKE YOU SOME TONIGHT.
00:33:05 AND RABBIT. YOU LIKE RABBIT?
00:33:16 -OH... OH, IT'S OKAY.
00:33:23 WAS YOUR MOTHER A GOOD COOK?
00:33:26 -MY FOSTER MOTHER.
00:33:29 NOT AS GOOD AS YOU ARE.
00:33:31 -AH, YOU JUST SAY THIS.
00:33:33 -NO. I MEAN IT.
00:33:37 -WERE YOUR PARENTS MAD
00:33:42 -FIND OUT WHAT?
00:33:44 -FIND OUT THAT YOU
00:33:48 -NO.
00:33:50 THEY WEREN'T THAT... EMOTIONAL.
00:33:53 -THEY ARE NOT LIKE US.
00:33:56 -DEFINITELY NOT LIKE YOU.
00:34:03 -DOES IT BOTHER YOU
00:34:06 -A LITTLE.
00:34:08 HAVE AZAH AND HIM
00:34:12 -NO. THEY USED
00:34:14 THEY JOKE, AND GEORGE TAKE
00:34:18 BUT NOW...
00:34:21 I DON'T KNOW.
00:34:23 -THINGS WILL GET BETTER.
00:34:28 -DID YOU...
00:34:34 -NO.
00:34:35 BUT WE DIDN'T DO THAT MUCH ELSE.
00:34:38 -WERE YOU HAPPY?
00:34:42 -I'M MUCH HAPPIER HERE.
00:34:44 THEN WHY YOU DON'T STAY WITH US,
00:34:50 -I DON'T THINK IT WOULD BE
00:34:54 TOO DEPENDENT.
00:35:01 -THAT WILL BE $7, PLEASE.
00:35:04 -OKAY, I PAY.
00:35:06 -WHY?
00:35:08 AZAH SAID SHE'D BRING THE WINE,
00:35:19 ( singing )
00:35:47 -THIS WINE TASTE' LIKE SWEAT!
00:35:54 -I HAVE TO LEAVE.
00:35:56 -YOU HARDLY EAT SOMETHING.
00:35:59 -AZAH...
00:36:01 -I MAKE SOME SANDWICH FOR YOU.
00:36:03 -TO TAKE WITH YOU.
00:36:05 -AZAH...
00:36:09 -PLEASE, STAY.
00:36:11 -I'LL SEE YOU TOMORROW.
00:36:20 GOODBYE, PA.
00:36:25 -BEDROS, COME WATCH TV WITH ME.
00:36:55 -WHAT'S THE MATTER?
00:36:57 -I CAN'T STAND THIS ANYMORE.
00:37:00 IT IS LIKE SHE'S HIS ENEMY.
00:37:03 -HAVE YOU TRIED
00:37:07 -WHAT USE FOR?
00:37:11 -SOMETIMES, IT'S BETTER
00:37:28 IT WOULD BE BETTER
00:37:33 HE MISS YOU.
00:37:36 SOME NIGHT', HE'S NOT ABLE
00:37:39 BECAUSE HE'S THINKING OF YOU.
00:37:43 WHERE ARE YOU?
00:37:47 SOMETIMES EVEN,
00:37:50 HE'S THINKING THAT YOU ARE
00:37:57 HE WANTS SO MUCH
00:38:02 HE NEEDS SOMEBODY
00:38:09 -I'M HERE NOW.
00:38:14 -BEDROS, YOU KNOW
00:38:17 -WHAT?
00:38:21 -TO HOLD YOU LIKE A BABY.
00:38:25 -YOU STILL CAN.
00:38:27 -OH, YOU' JUST BREAK MY BONES.
00:38:30 -NO, I WON'T. HERE.
00:38:42 PUT YOUR ARMS AROUND ME.
00:39:01 ( she's humming a IuIIaby )
00:39:12 ( he hums aIong with her )
00:39:50 -WELL, THIS IS IT.
00:39:54 -I'M LOOKING FOR SOMEONE
00:39:58 IT'S QUITE CHEAP.
00:40:01 -BUT THERE IS NO HEATING.
00:40:04 -THINK ABOUT IT.
00:40:14 AND THIS IS MY ROOM.
00:40:17 -AND THESE ARE YOURS?
00:40:20 -THEY'RE GOOD.
00:40:32 DO YOU RECOGNIZE HIM?
00:40:36 IT'S ONE OF THE FEW THINGS
00:40:39 YOU WERE BEST FRIENDS.
00:40:41 -ALAS... POOR TEDDY.
00:40:44 -YOU KNEW HIM?
00:41:06 -THIS IS YOU.
00:41:10 -WOULD YOU SAY I'VE CHANGED?
00:41:14 -A BIT TALLER MAYBE?
00:41:17 OTHERWISE,
00:41:20 -IS THAT A COMPLIMENT?
00:41:31 WHEN'S THE LAST TIME
00:41:34 -IN COUNSELLING.
00:41:37 -IN WHAT?
00:41:39 -WE WENT TO SEE A COUNSELLOR.
00:41:44 -YOU'RE JOKING.
00:41:46 -HOW DID YOU GET GEORGE TO GO?
00:41:48 -MA CONVINCED HIM THAT
00:41:51 -HE BELIEVED HER?
00:41:53 -HE ALWAYS DOES.
00:41:58 -DID IT HELP?
00:42:00 -WHAT?
00:42:04 -WELL, OUR COUNSELLOR
00:42:08 ALTHOUGH THAT COULD BE HIS
00:42:12 -BY GEORGE?
00:42:15 -HOW DID YOU KNOW?
00:42:20 -I GUESSED.
00:42:22 HIS TEMPER.
00:42:34 I SUPPOSE IT ALL CULMINATED
00:42:36 WHEN HE CAME TO PICK ME UP
00:42:39 I WAS IN THE MIDDLE
00:42:41 WHEN HE JUST WALKED
00:42:43 IMAGINE THE SHOCK. I MEAN,
00:42:48 IN FRONT OF A NAKED MAN.
00:42:51 HE RIPPED UP
00:42:53 AND THEN THREATENED
00:42:57 IT WASN'T FUNNY THEN.
00:42:59 -WHAT HAPPENED?
00:43:00 -HE TOLD ME TO GO BACK WITH HIM.
00:43:02 I REFUSED.
00:43:09 -FEW MONTHS LATER, YES.
00:43:26 YOU'D STAY IN HERE.
00:43:29 -HAVE YOU CONSIDERED WHAT
00:43:32 -WE TALKED ABOUT A LOT
00:43:34 -ABOUT DAD AND YOU.
00:43:37 -WELL, I WAS WONDERING
00:43:40 -WHICH ONE?
00:43:42 -''THIS WINE TASTE LIKE SWEAT.''
00:43:45 I WAS WONDERING WHAT WOULD HAVE
00:43:49 -WHY WOULD I DO THAT?
00:43:52 -APPEASE HIM?
00:43:54 I WOULD HAVE FELT LIKE A LIAR.
00:43:56 -BUT YOU WOULDN'T NEED TO.
00:43:59 -COULDN'T YOU THINK
00:44:02 -WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?
00:44:05 -WELL...
00:44:09 A LIAR IS SOMEONE
00:44:12 AN ACTOR DOES,
00:44:15 -THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE.
00:44:18 WHEN YOU'RE ACTING,
00:44:21 YOU'RE PROVIDING THEM
00:44:25 -I WOULD STILL FEEL TERRIBLE.
00:44:28 -NOT IF YOU REALIZED WHY
00:44:31 -AND WHY WOULD THAT BE?
00:44:34 -TO SHOW YOU LOVE HIM.
00:45:43 GEORGE!
00:45:45 GEORGE!
00:45:47 GEORGE, LET'S GO!
00:46:04 GEORGE?
00:46:05 -HOW OFTEN DO YOU COME
00:46:07 -ONCE A WEEK.
00:46:09 -ALWAYS ON THURSDAY?
00:46:11 SOMETIMES ON TUESDAY.
00:46:16 -DO YOU FIND THEM...
00:46:19 AROUSING?
00:46:21 -DO THEY EXCITE YOU?
00:46:24 -THE DANCERS.
00:46:26 -BUT THEN, WHY DO YOU GO?
00:46:29 -BUT YOU DIDN'T SEEM RELAXED.
00:46:32 -THEN WHY DID YOU KEEP
00:46:37 -WHY DO YOU ASK THESE QUESTIONS?
00:46:41 -I DON'T KNOW IF
00:46:43 FOR YOU TO SEE A WOMAN
00:46:47 IT MUST AFFECT YOU SOMEHOW.
00:46:49 -BEDROS, WHAT I SEE ON
00:46:55 IT'S A WHORE.
00:46:57 YOUR MOTHER, IT'S A WOMAN.
00:46:59 -AND AZAH?
00:47:01 AZAH, SHE'S A LITTLE GIRL.
00:47:05 -BECAUSE SHE ACT
00:47:08 -SHE'S WORKING NOW,
00:47:10 MAKING A LIFE OF HER OWN.
00:47:12 -SO?
00:47:14 -WELL, WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU
00:47:18 AND SAW AZAH DANCING
00:47:21 -WHAT?
00:47:24 WHAT' YOU SAYING?
00:47:27 -SHE HAS THE FREEDOM
00:47:30 YOU CAN'T EXPECT
00:47:33 -SHE IS A WHORE?
00:47:35 THIS WHAT YOU WANTED TO SAY?
00:47:37 -DO YOU THINK SHE WOULD BE?
00:47:40 -WHY NOT?
00:47:43 -BECAUSE... BECAUSE
00:47:49 -THEN WHY DON'T YOU TRUST HER?
00:47:51 WHY DO YOU... KEEP...
00:47:54 ACTING LIKE SHE'S STILL
00:47:58 -BEDROS, SHE MAKES ME ANGRY.
00:48:01 -WHY?
00:48:05 LOOK, GEORGE.
00:48:08 -SURE YOU ARE MY SON.
00:48:10 -I'LL TRY AND FOLLOW
00:48:12 BUT IF I CAN'T FIT THEM
00:48:15 IF I DON'T FEEL THEY'RE RIGHT,
00:48:18 NOW THAT DOESN'T MEAN
00:48:20 MAYBE I'LL RESPECT YOU EVEN
00:48:24 IN A WORLD WHERE
00:48:27 -SHE LOVES ME. HEY, BEDROS?
00:48:30 -YES, GEORGE, SHE DOES.
00:48:42 I'M AFRAID I DIDN'T
00:48:44 TO RECORD MY THOUGHTS YESTERDAY.
00:48:46 BUT THINGS HAVE BEEN
00:48:49 I'VE COME TO KNOW
00:48:52 THERE SEEMS TO BE NO END
00:48:55 THEY'RE WILLING TO SHOWER ON ME.
00:48:58 I MUST FIND SOME WAY
00:49:02 IN THE TWO DAYS I HAVE LEFT.
00:49:10 I THINK ABOUT HOME SOMETIMES.
00:49:13 THOUGH I DON'T KNOW WHETHER
00:49:21 THINGS ARE MOVING
00:49:26 IT'S DIFFICULT TO KNOW
00:49:31 FOR THE MOST PART,
00:49:34 THOUGH WITH TIME,
00:49:36 SOMEWHAT... OVERWHELMING.
00:49:43 WHAT TIME DOES SHE
00:49:45 -FOUR. LET'S CHECK THOUGH.
00:49:54 SO WHY WON'T YOU
00:50:05 PLEASE.
00:51:38 -LOOK AT THE PICTURES.
00:51:48 ( Armenian )
00:52:00 -HEY! HEY!
00:52:02 HEY! HEY!
00:52:04 THIEF! THIEF! HEY!
00:52:35 JESUS CHRIST!
00:52:39 -HEY! GEORGIE BABY! JUST CAUGHT
00:52:43 THEY WOULDN'T HAPPEN
00:52:50 -GEORGE! GEORGE!
00:52:53 WHAT'S THE MATTER?
00:52:55 GEORGE!
00:52:56 OH, MY GOD, GEORGE!
00:53:02 GEORGE.
00:53:04 -AZAH. AZAH.
00:53:08 -GEORGE. GEORGE.
00:53:10 -WHERE IS... WHERE IS BEDROS?
00:53:13 -HE'S CALLING AN AMBULANCE.
00:53:15 -WHERE IS...
00:53:17 -SHE'S RIGHT BESIDE YOU.
00:53:19 -AH, SONYA. SONYA.
00:53:21 AZAH. AZAH...
00:53:24 -DO NOT CRY, MOTHER.
00:53:26 -OH, AZAH.. I LOVE YOU.
00:53:29 -SURE I DO.
00:53:32 -YOU WON'T DIE, PA.
00:53:34 AZAH, MAKE ME A PROMISE.
00:53:37 -DO NOT MAKE YOURSELF CHEAP.
00:53:40 EVEN YOU DON'T HAVE ONE CENT.
00:53:44 WORK LIKE A DISHWASHER,
00:53:47 DO ANYTHING YOU WANT,
00:53:53 PROMISE ME, AZAH, PROMISE.
00:53:55 -PROMISE, AZAH, PLEASE!
00:53:57 -THAT'S GOOD. THAT'S GOOD...
00:53:59 BEDROS, TAKE A PICTURE.
00:54:02 -YES, YES, PICTURE.
00:54:04 -TAKE A PICTURE NOW. DON'T ASK
00:54:06 BEDROS, TAKE A PICTURE.
00:54:08 TAKE... LOOK AT THAT.
00:54:10 TAKE IT NOW. TAKE IT. TAKE IT.
00:54:16 THAT'S GOOD.
00:54:27 -DR. THOMAS CRANE.
00:54:56 ( Armenian )
00:54:58 -LET'S GO. I'M OKAY.
00:55:02 -WHAT DID THE DOCTOR SAY?
00:55:04 -NOTHING WRONG.
00:55:10 IT'S ALL IN HERE.
00:55:21 HEY, WHY YOU DON'T HUG
00:55:43 APRIL FOOL TO YOU.
00:55:58 ( humming )
00:56:25 Peter:
00:56:27 EVERY BIT YOU EARN
00:56:31 IT IS YOURS.
00:56:34 NO BRIBES.
00:56:37 NO LIES.
00:56:39 NO FEAR.
00:56:55 -HELLO? HELLO!
00:56:57 -SURPRISE!!!
00:57:02 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
00:57:06 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
00:57:10 HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR BEDROS
00:57:14 HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
00:57:20 ( Singing in Armenian )
00:57:43 -YOU HAVE TO BLOW THEM
00:57:46 -BUT THERE AREN'T ANY CANDLES.
00:57:48 TAKE A CLOSER LOOK.
00:57:50 -WHERE?
00:58:08 -DERYAN! DERYAN & SON!
00:58:14 SMILE. SMILE. SMILE.
00:58:32 -SPEECH! SPEECH!
00:58:40 -WELL, FIRST OF ALL,
00:58:42 THAT THIS WAS A TOTAL SURPRISE.
00:58:48 I'D TOTALLY FORGOTTEN
00:58:51 I GUESS THAT JUST SHOWS
00:58:54 THIS WEEK HAS BEEN FOR ME.
00:58:57 I DON'T KNOW QUITE KNOW
00:58:59 BUT I'VE LEARNED SOMETHING
00:59:02 IN THE LAST FEW DAYS.
00:59:06 IN A WAY, IT'S A PITY THAT
00:59:13 IF YOU'RE RAISED WITH A GROUP,
00:59:15 YOU'RE OBLIGED TO LOVE THEM,
00:59:17 AND THAT REALLY DENIES YOU
00:59:21 OF GETTING TO KNOW THEM
00:59:26 NOW... IN A WAY,
00:59:28 THAT MEANS THAT YOU CAN NEVER
00:59:33 AND THAT'S BECAUSE
00:59:36 THAT'S REQUIRED TO MAKE
00:59:40 I GUESS WHAT YOU CALL
00:59:47 AND FINALLY, UH, I'D LIKE TO...
00:59:51 -HURRY UP!
00:59:53 -BRAVO. BRAVO.
00:59:55 -AND FINALLY,
00:59:58 I SUGGEST WE CHOOSE...
01:00:00 TO HAVE A GOOD TIME TONIGHT.
01:00:11 ( singing in Armenian )
01:01:21 -THAT WAS A GREAT SPEECH.
01:01:23 -GEORGE SEEMED TO LIKE IT.
01:01:27 WAS THE PART ABOUT
01:01:43 MMM, THAT'S MESS Y.
01:01:48 -YOU'RE DOING A GOOD JOB.
01:01:51 -PLAYING THE PERFECT DAUGHTER.
01:01:55 -IT'S NOT EAS Y.
01:01:57 UNCLE TOLD ME THAT MY THIGHS
01:02:05 -WELL, YOU'VE GOT THEM
01:02:08 -SO DO YOU.
01:02:11 -WHAT DO YOU MEAN?
01:02:13 -THAT YOU'RE THE PERFECT SON.
01:02:19 JUST CLOSE YOUR EYES.
01:02:22 -JUST CLOSE THEM.
01:02:24 -I DON'T WANT ANYMORE SURPRISES.
01:02:26 -ONE MORE. IT'S A GIFT.
01:02:28 -TADAM!
01:02:33 COME ON. HURRY UP.
01:02:40 HEY, HAVEN'T I
01:02:42 -DO YOU LIKE IT?
01:04:04 -GOOD MORNING.
01:04:06 GOOD MORNING, CHILDREN.
01:04:10 YOU HAVE HANGOVER?
01:04:14 -I FEEL LIKE I'VE BEEN
01:04:19 -DID YOU LIKE YOUR RELATIVES?
01:04:22 -THEY'RE GREAT.
01:04:23 -THEY THINK THAT
01:04:27 -I SURPRISED YOU,
01:04:29 WITH MY CAKE?
01:04:50 -LOOK. UH...
01:04:53 I HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL YOU.
01:04:56 -I HAVE TO LEAVE.
01:04:58 -WHY?
01:05:04 -MY PARENTS HAD AN ACCIDENT.
01:05:06 -WHEN?
01:05:08 -YESTERDAY.
01:05:10 -WHY YOU DIDN'T TELL US?
01:05:12 -I DIDN'T WANT
01:05:17 -WHEN YOU HAVE TO LEAVE US?
01:05:21 -AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
01:05:23 THERE'S A FLIGHT OUT
01:05:26 -DO YOU HAVE TO GO?
01:05:33 WHY?
01:05:38 -THEY'RE MY PARENTS.
01:05:40 -WAS IT FATAL?
01:05:46 THEN WHAT ARE YOU GOING BACK TO?
01:05:59 ( Listening to Peter's voice )
01:06:01 I CAN'T THINK
01:06:03 WHEN I'VE EVER BEEN AS HAPPY.
01:06:06 IT'S WITH THIS IN MIND THAT
01:06:10 I REALIZE THAT THIS IS GOING
01:06:14 BUT YOU MUST NEVER
01:06:17 BECAUSE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE
01:06:21 JUST LIKE I'LL ALWAYS
01:06:33 -NOW...
01:06:35 I'D LIKE US TO PLAY A GAME.
01:06:39 I'D LIKE YOU TO PRETEND
01:07:52 CAPTIONING BY CNST, MONTREAL