Tangshan dadizhen Aftershock

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00:02:33 "July 27, 1976 Tangshan"
00:03:05 Dad, fast. Look!
00:03:07 Dragonflies!
00:03:18 here are too many. I don't even
00:03:21 Dad, why are there so many dragonflies?
00:03:30 A storm must be approaching.
00:05:36 Dad, I want a popsicle
00:05:38 Let's get off
00:05:40 Go with your brother and take this fan home.
00:05:42 Tell mom I'm going to the factory.
00:05:46 I'll come back home later.
00:05:53 Are six pennies enough?
00:05:54 Enough.
00:05:57 Be careful.
00:05:59 Two milk popsicles, please.
00:06:10 Ying Tong, let's go.
00:06:14 Give it to me
00:06:15 Ying Tong's brother stole my popsicle!
00:06:22 Fang Da! Hurry, run.
00:06:23 - How dare you?
00:06:28 Run home. Don't let him catch you.
00:06:30 Hurry.
00:06:36 Fang Da, run faster.
00:06:47 Hurry. Come on.
00:06:55 Slow down.
00:06:59 What are you carrying
00:07:01 Dad bought a fan.
00:07:04 Blow it on me. Blow it on me.
00:07:06 Hold on.
00:07:07 I have to plug it in first.
00:07:10 Fang Da,
00:07:11 Don't get your hand caught in the fan.
00:07:13 Get down!
00:07:16 How's this?
00:07:20 Good.
00:07:22 First me.
00:07:24 No, first let it blow on mom.
00:07:26 Mom's all hot from cooking.
00:07:28 We can all cool off together.
00:07:31 Mom, feel better?
00:07:32 Yes, it's cooler.
00:07:36 You two cool off.
00:07:37 Don't put your hands inside.
00:07:39 Okay.
00:07:44 Nice and cool.
00:08:07 Don't move.
00:08:10 Dad has two watches now.
00:08:12 Dad,
00:08:13 What time do you want it to be?
00:08:16 Seven.
00:08:17 Okay
00:08:19 I bought two new book bags for you.
00:08:21 I want the Tiananmen Square one.
00:08:22 I want the Great Wall one.
00:08:24 Don't turn it off.
00:08:26 It's hot.
00:08:28 But you can't let it blow on you like that.
00:08:29 Come here.
00:08:31 Mom's got to put powder on you.
00:08:32 Mom, I want to eat a tomato.
00:08:33 I do too.
00:08:34 Just a minute.
00:08:36 My gosh, look.
00:08:39 Look at the new book bags Mom bought you.
00:08:41 They're a bit large for you.
00:08:43 These are for you to use
00:08:45 There's only one left.
00:08:46 Fang Deng, let your brother have it.
00:08:51 Mom, Fang Da ate it all.
00:08:53 I want some too.
00:08:53 It's all gone.
00:08:54 Mom will buy some for you tomorrow.
00:08:56 Liar.
00:08:57 I'm not lying.
00:08:59 You can count on Mom.
00:09:01 Okay?
00:09:37 Having twins is strange.
00:09:39 They both go potty at the same time.
00:09:43 If one snacks on sunflower seeds,
00:09:46 They're not imitating each another.
00:09:48 It's really interesting.
00:09:50 So fascinating.
00:09:53 They're still a bit lonely.
00:09:55 Other kids pick on them.
00:09:57 I really want one more.
00:09:59 You do?
00:10:00 Sure
00:10:02 We were scared to death when you had the twins.
00:10:05 You want to do it again.
00:10:06 Sure, why not.
00:10:07 Too bad I can't get pregnant.
00:10:10 I'm happy with one son and one daughter.
00:10:13 People can see us.
00:10:18 Go to the back
00:10:20 Hurry.
00:10:35 You bad boy
00:10:45 Come here
00:10:57 What are you laughing at?
00:11:00 It's so hot.
00:11:02 We're probably the only ones
00:11:06 Everyone must be hot,
00:11:07 So no one can fall asleep.
00:11:27 Just got off work?
00:11:28 Yes
00:11:30 See you tomorrow.
00:12:16 Why is the truck shaking?
00:12:18 Why's the sky purple?
00:12:27 What's going on?
00:12:52 Hurry and get off.
00:12:58 Earthquake. It's an earthquake!
00:13:00 My children.
00:13:02 Run.
00:13:05 Mom!
00:13:09 Dad!
00:13:10 Mom!
00:13:12 Fang Da, run. Run.
00:13:52 The crane is going to fall!
00:14:53 Come here!
00:15:00 Mom!
00:15:02 I'm coming!
00:15:05 Mom!
00:15:08 Mom!
00:15:21 Dad!
00:15:25 What are you doing?
00:15:48 Da Qiang.
00:17:45 Zhiguo!
00:17:49 Help! Can anyone help us?
00:17:54 Da Qiang, don't give up.
00:17:58 I'm here.
00:18:01 Yuan Ni is here.
00:18:04 Da Qiang.
00:18:06 Hold on.
00:18:09 Stay with me.
00:18:13 Da Qiang, hold on.
00:18:18 Da Qiang.
00:18:20 Here it comes again.
00:18:21 Da Qiang.
00:18:28 Da Qiang.
00:18:36 God.
00:18:38 You bastard.
00:18:58 Dad. Mom.
00:19:00 Sister.
00:19:02 Dad, save me.
00:19:04 Sister.
00:19:08 Mom.
00:19:23 Mom.
00:19:25 Save me.
00:19:26 Mom.
00:19:28 Save me.
00:19:51 Why did you push me away
00:19:54 Why'd you leave me by myself?
00:19:58 Da Qiang!
00:20:07 There are children here. Hurry, help.
00:20:08 Yuan Ni. It's Fang Da.
00:20:10 Fang Da!
00:20:14 - Where are you?
00:20:20 Fang Da.
00:20:22 Mom, I want out.
00:20:23 I don't want to stay here
00:20:26 Be good. Don't cry.
00:20:28 Mom's here.
00:20:29 We'll get you out soon.
00:20:32 My arm hurts. It's killing me.
00:20:34 Mom, I want to get out of here.
00:20:37 Don't cry. Mom's right here.
00:20:39 Where's your sister?
00:20:40 Is she next to you?
00:20:43 I can't see her.
00:20:44 I can hear her knocking on the stone.
00:20:47 Fang Da, hold on.
00:20:49 Hold on.
00:20:50 I can see Fang Deng.
00:20:53 A concrete slab is on top of them.
00:20:55 Where?
00:20:55 Underneath.
00:20:56 - Take a look.
00:20:58 Fang Deng!
00:21:02 Fang Deng, say something.
00:21:05 Fang Deng!
00:21:07 Mister.
00:21:09 I beg you all.
00:21:10 I beg you.
00:21:12 Their dad...
00:21:14 Their dad is already gone.
00:21:16 If my kids aren't saved, I can't go on living.
00:21:20 I beg you.
00:21:21 I'll do anything you want for the rest of my life.
00:21:24 I'll be your servant, okay?
00:21:27 Stop crying!
00:21:28 We'll find a solution.
00:21:31 First, we'll remove the slab.
00:21:32 Hurry and get a crowbar.
00:21:36 One, two, three.
00:21:38 One, two, three.
00:21:40 I'll go get a pole.
00:21:42 One, two, three.
00:21:56 Hurry up.
00:21:58 I can't hear them anymore.
00:22:00 You can only save one.
00:22:02 They both have to be saved.
00:22:05 You still don't understand?
00:22:06 A concrete slab is on top of them both.
00:22:09 One side's on your daughter.
00:22:10 If we lift up here, the slab will crush
00:22:13 If we lift up the other side, then the slab
00:22:14 Hurry and make up your mind.
00:22:16 You can only save one.
00:22:17 Both have to be saved.
00:22:19 They both have to be saved.
00:22:22 My gosh.
00:22:23 We can only lift up one side of the concrete slab.
00:22:26 I beg you. Save them both.
00:22:30 Hurry and make up your mind.
00:22:31 I beg you. Save them both.
00:22:40 Save them both.
00:22:42 I beg you.
00:22:45 Hurry up.
00:22:45 We can't hear them anymore.
00:22:47 Stop waiting. If you wait, both will be gone.
00:22:49 Save them both.
00:22:58 Yuan Ni, have you finally decided...
00:22:59 Which one?
00:23:08 Someone's alive here. Come, help!
00:23:10 We have to go rescue more people over there.
00:23:12 Mister...
00:23:15 Save my son.
00:23:16 Which one?
00:23:18 Save my son.
00:23:22 Save my son.
00:23:24 Hurry, save the son.
00:23:29 Mom...
00:23:35 Forgive mom.
00:23:41 Fang Deng,
00:23:45 Forgive mom.
00:23:47 Fang Da,
00:23:49 Say something.
00:23:51 Yuan Ni,
00:23:53 You should first save the one who is still alive.
00:23:54 We can't do anything about the dead.
00:23:56 Look, he's not saying anything.
00:23:58 He's not making a sound.
00:24:00 Hurry and take him to the Tangshan airport.
00:24:02 The People's Liberation Army's
00:24:05 Get going.
00:24:06 If you don't hurry it'll be too late.
00:24:08 Hurry up.
00:27:08 Hey kid, Where's your family?
00:27:10 Where are your parents?
00:27:11 Any family members left?
00:27:14 Don't worry.
00:27:15 I'll take you home.
00:28:25 That one.
00:28:26 The girl whose head is lowered.
00:28:32 She's not too old?
00:28:35 Five or six.
00:28:36 She remembers everything.
00:28:37 She's the prettiest.
00:28:38 She can be an actress when she grows up.
00:28:40 She's pretty.
00:28:44 I'm afraid she'll be hard to bring up.
00:28:46 I've asked her many times,
00:28:47 But she can't remember anything.
00:28:49 It shouldn't be hard to develop
00:28:52 It's just that...
00:28:53 These children have been through so much.
00:28:55 It will take some time.
00:29:01 Are you sure she's an orphan?
00:29:04 Her photo was posted in the
00:29:07 For such a long time.
00:29:08 No relative contacted her.
00:29:10 Without anyone having contacted her,
00:29:14 Of course one can't say for sure.
00:29:19 I don't want to end up losing her.
00:29:22 I understand.
00:29:23 You can think it over.
00:29:25 Whenever you have a chance,
00:29:30 Please hurry with the paperwork.
00:29:31 Fine.
00:29:32 Please do what you can.
00:29:33 You are doing a good thing.
00:29:37 She doesn't have any problems, does she?
00:29:38 We haven't found any problems.
00:29:40 But...
00:29:42 She doesn't like to speak.
00:29:44 I think she's just fine.
00:30:16 Salute!
00:30:17 Learn from the heroes of the earthquake rescue.
00:30:24 Honor the soldiers of the earthquake rescue.
00:30:35 Ya Ya,
00:30:36 What do you think?
00:30:38 Our army is like a large revolutionary family.
00:30:41 Everyone will become like family to you.
00:30:47 You're always carrying her. Let me carry her.
00:30:49 Don't worry. I'm not tired.
00:30:50 That's not it.
00:30:52 I want to carry her.
00:30:54 Ya Ya,
00:30:55 Go to mommy.
00:31:04 I'll take her.
00:31:06 I've got her.
00:31:13 Look...
00:31:14 We live in the apartment up there.
00:31:19 We're home.
00:31:34 Ya Ya,
00:31:36 This is where mom and dad live.
00:31:51 Don't be afraid.
00:31:53 We don't have earthquakes here.
00:31:59 Ya Ya,
00:32:01 Look...
00:32:01 This is your room.
00:32:04 We got this room ready just for you.
00:32:07 Do you like it?
00:32:13 Come here.
00:32:15 Later,
00:32:18 We'll take a shower,
00:32:19 Change into clean clothes.
00:32:28 She just got here. It's all new to her.
00:32:30 Don't worry.
00:32:32 The whole way here...
00:32:36 She didn't say a single word.
00:32:38 Could she be mute?
00:32:40 Don't make things up.
00:32:43 If a stray cat or dog
00:32:44 couldn't eat anything for two days...
00:32:46 What can you expect of a child who nearly died?
00:32:50 Look...
00:32:51 Isn't she listening to us?
00:33:34 Mom...
00:33:35 Sister...
00:33:36 Why'd you come here?
00:33:38 Mom.
00:33:41 Fang Da,
00:33:42 Say hi to your grandma and aunt.
00:33:48 Hi grandma. Hi aunt.
00:33:52 You were waiting a long time.
00:33:54 Hard to find.
00:33:56 No one knew where to find you.
00:33:59 Let's go inside.
00:34:12 Yuan Ni...
00:34:14 Let us take Fang Da back with us.
00:34:18 His last name is Fang. He's my grandson.
00:34:20 We should take care of him.
00:34:24 You're still young.
00:34:26 I've thought about it.
00:34:30 You can move on with your life.
00:34:34 Mom...
00:34:37 You can't just kick me
00:34:47 Fang Da is so pitiful.
00:34:51 With only one hand...
00:34:53 He can carry a book but not a pen.
00:34:56 Or a pen but not a book.
00:35:04 I can take good care of Fang Da.
00:35:08 The teacher said he can enroll in school.
00:35:12 He can go to school in Jinan.
00:35:15 It's better than going to school in Tangshan.
00:35:17 Look at it here. When will the new buildings
00:35:25 Yuan Ni...
00:35:27 How about this.
00:35:30 You...
00:35:31 and Fang Da...
00:35:33 Can both go to Jinan.
00:35:36 You can look for a job if you want.
00:35:39 If you don't want to work...
00:35:41 You can stay at home with your child.
00:35:44 Our family...
00:35:45 Won't let you two feel neglected.
00:35:52 I know you want to help me.
00:35:55 But I can't go anywhere.
00:35:59 Why are you so stubborn!
00:36:01 We're thinking about you.
00:36:04 Mom
00:36:06 Mom, don't worry.
00:36:11 Later when our lives are better,
00:36:14 I'll take him to spend the holidays with you.
00:36:16 I came all the way here...
00:36:17 To bring him back with me.
00:36:19 Fang Da is all I have left.
00:36:24 If he leaves me,
00:36:29 Then this family...
00:36:31 Will be all gone.
00:36:33 My son should have left the army
00:36:36 He stayed in Tangshan to be with you.
00:36:38 Mom...
00:36:40 What are you saying?
00:36:43 I should have died instead of my son.
00:36:48 I'm sorry.
00:36:50 He was so tall.
00:36:54 He was so smart and strong.
00:36:58 He's gone just like that.
00:37:07 Now my grandson is crippled.
00:37:09 Of course I am concerned.
00:37:13 I can't stop worrying about him.
00:37:15 How can I go on living now?
00:37:21 Sorry.
00:37:25 I feel so guilty.
00:37:28 I feel terrible for Da Qiang.
00:37:30 And I feel terrible for Fang Deng and Fang Da.
00:37:32 I'm the only one who's fine.
00:37:48 I agree.
00:37:53 Take him...
00:37:57 Just as long as he'll be better off.
00:38:08 Okay.
00:38:10 We're all one family...
00:38:12 We shouldn't act like strangers.
00:38:17 So many terrible things have happened.
00:38:19 So many people have died.
00:38:22 We have to come together...
00:38:25 And think of our future.
00:38:31 At home...
00:38:33 All your belongings are gone.
00:38:39 Last time you sent us photographs,
00:38:44 I brought one back for you.
00:39:25 Sit tight
00:39:26 Hold on
00:40:00 Fang Da...
00:40:02 Do what your grandma tells you.
00:40:06 Don't misbehave.
00:40:10 Don't forget.
00:40:13 Mom.
00:40:14 Yeah.
00:40:15 Mom
00:40:16 Be good.
00:40:18 Mom
00:40:20 Be good.
00:40:23 Mom.
00:40:37 Mom,
00:40:39 By taking Fang Da from her...
00:40:41 It is like stealing Yuan Ni's life away.
00:41:15 Mom!
00:41:17 Fang Da!
00:41:20 Mom!
00:42:03 Let's go.
00:42:08 Wang, This is your daughter?
00:42:10 Yes.
00:42:10 She's very pretty.
00:42:13 - Say hi.
00:42:14 Say hi.
00:42:17 Doctor Dong,
00:42:18 This is the girl who was brought
00:42:20 Yes.
00:42:23 Let me see your face.
00:42:24 Do you look like your dad or mom?
00:42:27 Come on, let's eat.
00:42:29 What are you doing...
00:42:30 Scaring the child?
00:42:33 What's her name?
00:42:36 Ya Ya.
00:42:38 Say hi to your "uncle."
00:42:41 Go on.
00:42:43 You're impolite.
00:42:44 Here, men are called "uncles,"
00:42:46 And women are called "aunts."
00:42:47 Don't embarrass her.
00:42:50 Ya Ya,
00:42:51 Is a bit shy around new people.
00:43:09 Is that pretty?
00:43:12 Ya Ya, are you ready?
00:43:14 We need to go now.
00:43:35 You are a pretty girl.
00:43:39 What's your name?
00:43:41 Wang Fan. "Fan" means "sail."
00:43:43 I'm Wang Deng.
00:43:51 Whatever she wants.
00:43:56 "Deng."
00:43:57 Was this your name before?
00:44:01 Later on...
00:44:03 When you think of things from the past...
00:44:05 You can tell mom and dad.
00:44:07 Dad can take you to Tangshan
00:44:10 Right?
00:44:12 I don't remember.
00:44:14 You'll remember.
00:44:16 Alright.
00:44:17 Everything's taken care of.
00:44:18 From this day on, you are the student Wang Deng.
00:44:26 Let's go home.
00:46:14 "Tangshan 1986"
00:46:30 Watch out.
00:46:37 Fang Da,
00:46:37 Hurry and eat breakfast.
00:46:39 Give me the towel.
00:46:40 Give it to me.
00:46:45 Go on in.
00:46:54 Hurry and eat.
00:46:56 When you finish, put your arm on.
00:46:59 I don't want to.
00:47:01 It hurts too much.
00:47:02 You still need to wear it.
00:47:03 Young men need to look decent.
00:47:05 Also...
00:47:07 It was very expensive.
00:47:10 If I knew you had borrowed money for it,
00:47:12 I wouldn't have wanted it.
00:47:13 Eat, don't talk.
00:47:26 Mom,
00:47:27 What are you doing?
00:47:29 Your teacher told me...
00:47:31 You need to have a good place to study.
00:47:33 The fridge is too noisy. I'm moving it to my room.
00:47:35 Even if you move it,
00:47:37 I don't want to take the test.
00:47:38 What are you saying?
00:47:46 If you don't go to college, then what?
00:47:48 Take my job?
00:47:50 You can't do the work at the factory.
00:47:53 You can't drive.
00:47:54 You can't cook.
00:47:56 I've thought of all types of jobs.
00:47:58 You have to go to college.
00:47:59 I can be a guard.
00:48:01 How about a bathroom attendant?
00:48:02 No way!
00:48:04 If you don't get into college,
00:48:06 Your grandmother will blame me.
00:48:08 You didn't go to Jinan,
00:48:09 All these years,
00:48:11 So she sent money and cakes.
00:48:15 If you get into college,
00:48:17 Then I'll have repaid the debt to her.
00:48:19 What is there to pay back?
00:48:21 She's my grandmother.
00:48:23 Why are you always thinking like that?
00:48:25 If I die...
00:48:27 What will you do?
00:48:29 If you don't have any skills,
00:48:31 What girl would want to marry you?
00:48:35 I want to help you raise a child.
00:48:37 Then the child can help you when you are old.
00:48:40 Mom...
00:48:41 Don't worry.
00:48:42 Later I promise I can find a girl
00:48:45 Get to school.
00:48:47 Go on.
00:48:49 Hold on.
00:48:57 Yuan Ni! Yuan Ni!
00:49:02 There's a call from Fang Da's school again.
00:49:17 The passengers are coming out of the station.
00:49:19 They are coming out.
00:49:24 Anyone need a hotel?
00:49:26 Need a hotel?
00:49:27 Need a hotel? We can give you a ride.
00:49:29 The room's clean and cheap.
00:49:30 Mister, need a hotel?
00:49:32 It's raining. We can give you a ride.
00:49:55 Come in.
00:50:01 Teacher Jiang.
00:50:07 The school has a policy...
00:50:09 Students are suspended after fifteen absences.
00:50:12 Fang Da has missed three days of school already.
00:50:15 Is he planning to take the college entrance exam?
00:50:17 Yes.
00:50:18 Yes.
00:50:29 Da Qiang.
00:50:31 Fang Deng.
00:50:34 Don't think I'm annoying.
00:50:37 Each year...
00:50:40 we talk to you both.
00:50:43 We moved.
00:50:47 If you want to come back,
00:50:50 Don't go the wrong way.
00:50:55 Our alleyway...
00:50:57 Is next to the railway's school.
00:51:00 At the first row of houses, turn left.
00:51:05 Our home is the first one.
00:51:08 Don't forget.
00:51:12 Where we used to live...
00:51:14 They're building a department store.
00:51:17 We can't move back.
00:51:20 Mom,
00:51:21 Dad and my sister died ten years ago.
00:51:24 How can they come back?
00:51:26 It's spooky when you say these things.
00:51:31 I don't know how to tell your dad and sister.
00:51:34 I was waiting for the day of
00:51:39 But you didn't even go to take it.
00:51:41 Why can't you do the right thing?
00:51:46 I'm so disappointed.
00:51:50 Disappointed...
00:51:52 If you had known,
00:51:53 You could have saved my sister instead.
00:52:36 Dad!
00:52:52 Mom!
00:52:55 I'm Fang Deng!
00:53:09 Ya Ya.
00:53:12 Ya Ya.
00:53:13 You've had another bad dream.
00:53:16 Don't be afraid.
00:53:20 I'll get you some water to drink.
00:53:28 Ya Ya,
00:53:29 Does your head hurt?
00:53:31 Dad will massage your head.
00:53:42 Feel better?
00:53:45 Are you stressed out about
00:53:47 You're too nervous.
00:53:50 Don't worry. So what if you don't get in.
00:53:52 In any case...
00:53:54 Even college graduates...
00:53:55 Can turn out to be worthless.
00:53:58 And you can still succeed if you don't go.
00:54:01 That's enough.
00:54:02 Is this the type of advice you give her?
00:54:04 Ya Ya,
00:54:06 Have some water and go back to sleep.
00:54:15 Wang,
00:54:16 You've said enough.
00:54:19 If you keep talking, then she'll never
00:54:23 Ya Ya,
00:54:24 Drink the water and go back to sleep.
00:54:26 Okay.
00:54:30 She's sleeping.
00:54:34 What a disgrace.
00:54:41 Me?
00:54:45 What have I done?
00:54:47 She's already an adult.
00:54:49 Look at what you're wearing.
00:54:53 I'm just at home.
00:54:54 Should I be dressed like a king?
00:54:57 I can't go into my own child's room?
00:55:00 Don't pretend you don't understand.
00:55:07 You've changed.
00:55:09 It's impossible to get along with you.
00:55:14 Listen to me.
00:55:16 For things like this,
00:55:18 You always have to pick on me.
00:55:19 I keep ignoring it.
00:55:21 Don't mix things up.
00:55:23 Like a thief yelling to catch the thief.
00:55:27 How can you be so stupid?
00:55:34 Dad,
00:55:36 I still have to get ready for the exam.
00:55:38 I'm not in the mood to see a movie.
00:55:39 I'm letting you go see a movie...
00:55:41 Because it will refresh your brain.
00:55:43 Ya Ya,
00:55:44 as for your major...
00:55:45 Have you finally made up your mind?
00:55:48 Mom,
00:55:49 I still want to study medicine.
00:55:54 My health is poor. Dad is too busy.
00:55:57 Why not go to a nearby college?
00:55:58 Then it would be easy to come home.
00:56:00 Wang, what do you think?
00:56:03 I respect her decision.
00:56:06 I'm just thinking of what's best for her.
00:56:09 She has never left me before.
00:56:12 I'm worried about her being so far from home.
00:56:15 But there's no good medical school around here.
00:56:20 Why does she have to study medicine?
00:56:22 Do you know how hard the work is in the hospital?
00:56:25 You never listen...
00:56:26 to what I have to say at all.
00:56:29 Mom is the one who doesn't listen to us.
00:56:34 Stop arguing.
00:56:36 I really don't want to see a movie.
00:56:38 Mom, I'm going home.
00:56:41 See you.
00:56:47 Why are you saying that in front of her?
00:56:53 We didn't give birth to her.
00:56:56 She'll never come back after she leaves.
00:56:59 Why are you saying that again?
00:57:00 Who cares if she's adopted?
00:57:02 In any case...
00:57:04 People do have feelings.
00:57:12 Here, have a chicken leg.
00:57:14 Mom, I don't like chicken.
00:57:15 You still have to eat it.
00:57:17 You need the nutrition.
00:57:19 I'm full.
00:57:23 In two days, I will go to Tangshan for a meeting.
00:57:25 Ya Ya,
00:57:25 Do you want to come with me?
00:57:27 How can she do that?
00:57:28 She's about to take the college entrance exam.
00:57:30 It won't take long.
00:57:31 Only one day.
00:57:33 Even one whole day is too long.
00:57:34 She can't even waste an hour.
00:57:38 I'm driving myself this time.
00:57:41 I want to take Ya Ya to have a look.
00:57:47 Dad,
00:57:48 I don't want to go.
00:57:50 Okay.
00:57:52 Fine.
00:57:56 Mom,
00:57:57 Go on back.
00:57:58 I'll see you.
00:58:01 You don't have to keep studying for the exam.
00:58:03 Don't leave.
00:58:05 Didn't we already talk about this?
00:58:06 I'm not alone.
00:58:08 But who can take care of you like I do?
00:58:11 It's not like our home out there.
00:58:16 I just want to see if I can make it on my own.
00:58:18 Otherwise I'll never know.
00:58:19 Tangshan's not large enough for you.
00:58:22 Tangshan's large?
00:58:23 You didn't learn anything by watching TV?
00:58:25 All the villagers have left for Shenzhen.
00:58:27 I haven't even been to Shijiazhuang.
00:58:29 Go on.
00:58:32 Xiao Long,
00:58:33 Look after him.
00:58:34 Okay.
00:58:37 Mom.
00:58:38 Stay well.
00:58:49 Why are you smoking in front of my mom!
00:59:39 Welcome. Which department?
00:59:40 Basic medicine.
00:59:40 Basic medicine is over here. Please sit.
00:59:42 Thanks.
00:59:46 Here's my acceptance letter.
00:59:49 Wang Deng.
00:59:52 Your dorm room is 206 in building 9.
00:59:55 Who will take her to building 9, room 206?
00:59:58 I'll go.
01:00:02 Thanks, buddy...
01:00:03 For going over there again.
01:00:06 Where's the bathroom?
01:00:07 I'll take your things.
01:00:08 Wang Deng...
01:00:09 Don't forget to get your student lD
01:00:12 Give your stuff to me. Let's go.
01:00:33 There's the bathroom.
01:00:40 Your bag!
01:00:44 Thanks!
01:01:02 Look at you.
01:01:03 You can support yourself and do whatever you want.
01:01:07 Each day when I go home,
01:01:09 I see everyone in my family.
01:01:10 I get agitated,
01:01:12 And can't control my temper.
01:01:14 That's the way I was too
01:01:16 Before whenever Fang Da upset me.
01:01:18 It's just that no one ever knew.
01:01:20 I'm going to lose my mind
01:01:23 That's the way I felt too.
01:01:26 Work at the factory is boring.
01:01:29 At that time...
01:01:30 I wish I had lost my job like you.
01:01:33 You're...
01:01:34 Just never satisfied.
01:01:36 Working at the factory's better than
01:01:40 Yuan Ni...
01:01:41 Phone call.
01:01:42 Wait a moment.
01:01:45 Thanks.
01:01:47 Hello.
01:01:48 Fang Da?
01:01:49 It's been so long. Why haven't you called?
01:01:53 Busy?
01:01:54 You're busier than the Premier.
01:02:07 Officer,
01:02:07 Are you here on business?
01:02:09 Do you want a tour?
01:02:09 A one-day tour of Hangzhou?
01:02:10 No thanks.
01:02:15 Where is the Hangzhou Medical School?
01:02:16 Come with me. I'll take you there.
01:02:17 No, really. Thanks.
01:02:19 I'm an army officer. It's not right.
01:02:20 Officer...
01:02:22 You're an army officer,
01:02:24 I'm disabled.
01:02:27 Please help me.
01:02:30 Are you okay?
01:02:31 Yes.
01:02:31 Though I'm missing an arm, my legs are fine.
01:02:33 I bike over here every day.
01:02:37 What happened to your arm?
01:02:39 It was crushed in the 1976 Tangshan earthquake.
01:02:42 The Tangshan earthquake?
01:02:43 Yes.
01:02:44 Are you from Tangshan?
01:02:45 Why?
01:02:47 In 1976, I was stationed in Tangshan.
01:02:49 We were part of the rescue operation.
01:02:53 Today I'm giving a ride to our hero.
01:02:55 Your ride is free.
01:03:11 Hello, where is building 9?
01:03:13 Right there.
01:03:13 Thanks.
01:03:31 Who is it?
01:03:37 Fang Deng.
01:03:38 Dad.
01:03:39 Why are you here?
01:03:40 Surprised?
01:03:51 Open the curtains.
01:03:53 Okay.
01:03:58 Here, have a seat.
01:04:03 Dad, why didn't you call me first?
01:04:06 I should have picked you up at the train station.
01:04:08 You don't have to do that.
01:04:13 The weather in Hangzhou...
01:04:14 Is so hot.
01:04:17 Yes.
01:04:19 Hangzhou in the summer is very humid.
01:04:28 You two talk. I'll go buy a watermelon.
01:04:38 Fang Deng,
01:04:40 Who's the boy?
01:04:43 He's a graduate student.
01:04:46 He's in residency. He came from Hangzhou.
01:04:49 Dad, drink some water.
01:04:51 Your mom asked me to bring this for you.
01:04:55 Your favorite foods.
01:04:57 Wow, dried haw fruit.
01:04:59 Get your dad a wet towel.
01:05:01 Okay.
01:05:03 How's mom's health?
01:05:12 Not too good.
01:05:17 What do you mean?
01:05:19 She's in the hospital.
01:05:22 What's wrong?
01:05:26 She won't let me tell you.
01:05:28 It's just that...
01:05:29 You haven't been back the last two summer breaks.
01:05:31 She just wanted me to see you.
01:05:32 Why is mom in the hospital?
01:05:42 What's wrong with her?
01:05:50 If you can,
01:05:52 Go back and see your mom.
01:05:59 Come back if there's a problem again.
01:06:00 Thanks, Mr. Niu.
01:06:06 Zhao,
01:06:07 Please keep an eye on things for me.
01:06:13 Here are some magazines...
01:06:16 To keep you entertained.
01:06:17 You shouldn't have.
01:06:25 Fang Da hasn't called for days.
01:06:28 I've been too busy to tell you.
01:06:30 I got a phone at home.
01:06:35 You paid 5000 for it?
01:06:36 Yes.
01:06:41 You wasted the money.
01:06:43 My phone wasn't enough.
01:06:45 During the day it's fine, but what about at night?
01:06:49 What if he needed to call me at night?
01:06:52 I can send a message to you at night too.
01:07:30 I've got a favor to ask you.
01:07:31 What?
01:07:51 There's no sound.
01:08:28 It should be fine.
01:08:30 It's fixed.
01:08:34 I knew that was the problem.
01:08:36 Why didn't you tell me?
01:08:39 Can I have a drink?
01:08:40 Sure.
01:08:41 I'm hungry.
01:08:42 Just a moment.
01:08:49 I never thought you'd be able to drink.
01:08:55 Don't just drink.
01:08:57 Have a bowl of soup.
01:09:02 Before I came to Tangshan to sell fans,
01:09:04 I made some friends here.
01:09:08 I didn't have any plans but...
01:09:11 I just wanted to earn a living.
01:09:14 Half a year later, my wife liked someone else.
01:09:18 This year when I went home,
01:09:20 She wanted to confess everything to me.
01:09:22 I didn't want to listen to her.
01:09:24 We got divorced.
01:09:28 That's all.
01:09:30 I just feel bad for my child.
01:09:41 In the 1976 earthquake,
01:09:44 My family of four became two.
01:09:48 After Fang Da left,
01:09:49 Two became one.
01:09:58 After so many years, you're not lonely?
01:10:02 I fear the holidays.
01:10:05 These years without Fang Da,
01:10:08 I go back home for the New Year.
01:10:13 Drink.
01:10:25 Is this from the earthquake?
01:10:28 Yeah.
01:10:39 Why let yourself suffer?
01:10:41 You're still attractive.
01:10:46 Niu,
01:10:47 Sit back down.
01:10:57 I had too much to drink.
01:10:58 Don't be angry.
01:11:00 It's nothing.
01:11:02 I really apologize. I feel bad.
01:11:05 We're already so old...
01:11:08 It's nothing.
01:11:15 Be with me.
01:11:17 I can't.
01:11:18 Then things will be like they were in the past.
01:11:20 No, that can't happen either.
01:11:38 Hello, director.
01:11:46 Mom, sit up more.
01:11:49 So fast...
01:11:51 Ya Ya,
01:11:54 School started already. You should go.
01:11:59 Don't worry.
01:12:00 I took a vacation.
01:12:01 I work in a hospital this semester.
01:12:03 I don't have any classes.
01:12:07 The nurses say you are very pretty.
01:12:09 They say you look like me.
01:12:13 They just came a few years ago.
01:12:18 There's a lot they don't know.
01:12:21 Mom,
01:12:22 I am like you.
01:12:29 Your temper's like mine.
01:12:31 Stubborn.
01:12:34 You did end up studying medicine.
01:12:37 When I was a child, I loved when you took me
01:12:47 I cared about you two the most in my life.
01:12:52 But you both...
01:12:58 Never wanted to be with me.
01:13:02 Mom...
01:13:09 Don't hate me.
01:13:11 Mom.
01:13:15 Take care of your dad for me.
01:13:19 Dad's always saying good things about you.
01:13:23 He says,
01:13:25 Even children you give birth to...
01:13:29 Leave home when they grow up.
01:13:38 Later,
01:13:40 There won't be anyone to argue with him.
01:13:45 He'll feel so bored.
01:13:55 Mom,
01:13:58 Dad loves you.
01:14:03 I love you too.
01:14:12 Come,
01:14:14 Help me get the things from under my pillow.
01:14:20 This watch...
01:14:22 Is for you to wear.
01:14:25 The savings account...
01:14:27 Is money that we saved for you.
01:14:32 You've grow up.
01:14:34 You can go back to Tangshan
01:14:38 Your father is right.
01:14:40 You must still have some.
01:14:47 Family...
01:14:49 Will always be family.
01:14:59 Come,
01:15:01 Mom will be gone soon.
01:15:04 Let me kiss you.
01:15:33 Dad,
01:15:35 Where should we put Mom?
01:16:43 Didn't we agree?
01:16:44 Why won't you do it?
01:16:47 You'll graduate in a year.
01:16:48 You can't waste four years of college.
01:16:52 I didn't.
01:16:55 I met you.
01:16:57 We are dating. We're not getting married.
01:17:00 How can you have a child?
01:17:02 Wang Deng,
01:17:04 Getting pregnant isn't a big deal.
01:17:07 It's just an accident
01:17:08 And it is easy to fix.
01:17:11 You've gone to the gynecologist's office.
01:17:13 You've seen how many women have
01:17:17 Others can do it.
01:17:20 But I can't.
01:17:23 Why can't you?
01:17:24 Why are you so unreasonable?
01:17:32 Yang Zhi...
01:17:35 I told you before.
01:17:38 I am from Tangshan.
01:17:41 I woke up in a truck filled with dead bodies.
01:17:45 My dad was lying next to me.
01:17:50 You really don't understand.
01:17:53 You can't understand me.
01:17:55 But you can't be too impulsive.
01:17:58 I know you love me.
01:18:00 I love you too.
01:18:02 I cherish you, but you are only 21.
01:18:04 A woman's youth ends when she has a child.
01:18:09 I don't want you to make such a sacrifice.
01:18:21 Wang Deng,
01:18:27 How can you know what sacrifice is?
01:18:39 Yang Zhi!
01:18:40 Yang Zhi,
01:18:42 Come over here.
01:18:46 Someone's looking for you.
01:18:48 Wang Deng's father.
01:18:50 Okay, thanks.
01:18:51 Goodbye.
01:18:54 Sir.
01:18:56 Where's Wang Deng?
01:18:59 She hasn't contacted me for a long time.
01:19:01 Have you looked for her?
01:19:02 Yes.
01:19:03 I've been looking but can't find her.
01:19:05 Did you know she quit school?
01:19:07 I knew.
01:19:10 What happened?
01:19:15 She got pregnant.
01:19:17 Pregnant?
01:19:19 She's pregnant and you're here playing basketball?
01:19:22 She left school to get away from me.
01:19:25 She doesn't want me to find her.
01:19:27 Sir,
01:19:28 I urge you not to look for her.
01:19:29 If she wants to see you, she'll go find you.
01:19:31 If she doesn't want to see you,
01:19:32 You'll never find her.
01:19:38 Sir.
01:19:39 I think...
01:19:40 I don't care!
01:19:42 You should look for her!
01:19:46 Why are you hitting him?
01:19:50 How could you treat her like that?
01:19:54 Get out of here.
01:20:01 Tell me.
01:20:04 I'm sorry.
01:20:05 I'll go look for her.
01:20:07 I will for sure.
01:20:50 "Tangshan 1995"
01:21:07 Try to impress my mom.
01:21:09 If my mom doesn't like you,
01:21:11 Then we'll have to break up.
01:21:13 Am I getting married to you or to your mom?
01:21:17 My mom gave birth to me three times.
01:21:19 What do you mean?
01:21:20 The first time was when I was born.
01:21:22 Soon after,
01:21:23 I got pneumonia and nearly died.
01:21:25 The doctor said not to save me.
01:21:27 But my mom said I must be saved.
01:21:28 That was the second time.
01:21:30 The earthquake.
01:21:30 The third time.
01:21:50 Mom!
01:21:52 Mom!
01:21:54 I'm home.
01:22:01 Mom,
01:22:03 I've brought my girlfriend home.
01:22:09 This is my mom.
01:22:10 Xiao He.
01:22:13 Ms. Li.
01:22:17 This is my dad.
01:22:18 And my sister.
01:22:25 She looks like me when I was a child.
01:22:28 This house is so small.
01:22:30 With more people, there's even less room.
01:22:33 Ms. Li, don't worry.
01:22:35 I'm thin.
01:22:36 I don't take up much space.
01:22:38 Mom,
01:22:39 Why are you still working?
01:22:40 Didn't I give you money?
01:22:42 The clients are friends.
01:22:44 I like to keep busy.
01:22:52 Mom,
01:22:53 The food is all ready.
01:22:55 Let's sit down.
01:23:09 Shall we drink together?
01:23:10 Sure.
01:23:14 You two drink. I'll drive.
01:23:16 Here, hurry and open this.
01:23:18 Is this Tangshan's best restaurant?
01:23:21 I think Tangshan has many good restaurants.
01:23:26 Mom,
01:23:28 I miss you.
01:23:37 Mom,
01:23:39 In Hangzhou, I have my own company,
01:23:41 My own car and house.
01:23:43 I also have Xiao He.
01:23:44 I'm only missing you.
01:23:47 If you miss me, just come back to see me.
01:23:51 But didn't you say you would help look
01:23:54 If you don't come, how could you?
01:23:57 Send the child to live with me.
01:23:59 I'd get rid of the sewing machine right away.
01:24:02 Mom,
01:24:03 Come to Hangzhou with me.
01:24:05 If you don't want to live with me,
01:24:06 I'll buy you a house.
01:24:08 I can't just let you stay here all alone.
01:24:11 Your dad and sister are here.
01:24:13 I can't go anywhere.
01:24:15 When it's time to visit the graves each year,
01:24:17 Xiao He and I will come back with you.
01:24:22 We need a home in Tangshan.
01:24:25 When the spirits of your dad and sister return,
01:24:27 They must have a place to go.
01:24:32 Don't bring this up again.
01:24:34 It's already been so many years.
01:24:38 You can't always be like this.
01:24:42 You don't know what losing something means
01:24:52 Then find a partner to live with.
01:24:57 I could have a long time ago.
01:24:59 It's not that no one wanted me.
01:25:07 Then why?
01:25:07 For your dad.
01:25:10 He traded his life for mine.
01:25:14 If he hadn't stopped me, I would have gone inside.
01:25:18 For the man who can give up his life to love me,
01:25:28 I'll be his wife my whole life.
01:25:31 I don't feel it's unfair.
01:25:35 But you're old now.
01:25:38 You live all alone.
01:25:40 I'm far away and worry about you.
01:25:42 You got what you deserved.
01:25:44 That's the way I felt when you left.
01:25:49 Some people are just lucky.
01:25:52 Others only suffer.
01:25:55 Thanks, mom.
01:25:58 Okay, then.
01:26:00 I'll buy you a house in Tangshan.
01:26:01 First buy a grave site.
01:26:05 Okay.
01:26:06 Let's do as mom says.
01:26:07 First we'll buy a grave.
01:26:08 Cheers.
01:26:22 Mom,
01:26:25 Come and look at the apartments.
01:26:28 Let's not buy one.
01:26:30 Here's the place.
01:26:31 I have to buy one.
01:26:35 Then buy one,
01:26:37 But I won't live there.
01:26:48 Mom,
01:26:49 Are you just being difficult?
01:26:52 You won't go to Hangzhou.
01:26:53 You won't live in a new apartment.
01:26:54 Why do you want to make things hard on yourself?
01:26:57 I don't feel things are tough.
01:27:03 You think things are fine?
01:27:05 What will your neighbors think?
01:27:09 My life's good. You're on your own!
01:27:12 Fang Da,
01:27:13 Don't get upset at your mom.
01:27:14 Be nice to her.
01:27:19 Mom,
01:27:21 Even if I don't take care of you,
01:27:23 I have to think of dad and my sister.
01:27:25 But I'm doing this for both of them.
01:27:29 Last time I moved I had to tell them...
01:27:32 exactly how to get to the new place.
01:27:34 I told them for more than 20 years.
01:27:37 If I move again...
01:27:38 I'll have to tell them the new directions.
01:27:40 I can't keep telling them.
01:27:44 I'm tired of telling them.
01:27:46 That's it. I'm not moving.
01:28:09 Okay, let's review lesson three.
01:28:25 Teacher Wang, excuse me.
01:28:26 Thank you.
01:28:36 Don't touch it.
01:28:37 You'll cut your hand.
01:28:39 You're okay?
01:28:40 Mom, it wasn't me.
01:28:42 She broke it.
01:28:45 Dian Dian,
01:28:46 Didn't I tell you to be careful?
01:28:50 It's not valuable. You can go back to teaching.
01:28:56 Here's the money for today's class.
01:28:59 I can't take it.
01:29:00 I know it's not enough to pay
01:29:03 Take it. Don't worry about it.
01:29:21 I didn't break that plate.
01:29:23 I won't go back to their home.
01:29:49 Be good.
01:29:59 Don't push it.
01:30:01 I'm leaving my mom at home for the New Year...
01:30:02 And going to your family with you.
01:30:03 What else do you want?
01:30:05 I want to take Dian Dian with me.
01:30:07 I don't want to be away from him.
01:30:10 Didn't we already agree?
01:30:11 I wasted all the nice things I said.
01:30:13 Fang Da,
01:30:15 Other than this,
01:30:16 You can have me do whatever you want.
01:30:17 I don't need anything else.
01:30:19 I don't need to go to Europe.
01:30:20 Or shop for Louis Vuitton.
01:30:21 I don't need a new car.
01:30:23 I just want my son. Alright?
01:30:26 Didn't we agree on this before we were married?
01:30:31 Isn't that right?
01:30:34 Answer me!
01:30:39 If I knew you'd be like this,
01:30:41 I wouldn't have married you.
01:30:45 Then who would you have married?
01:30:46 Don't change the subject.
01:30:48 You have to let Dian Dian stay with my mom.
01:30:51 Then what about me?
01:30:53 My parents haven't seen my son.
01:30:55 What will they think if it's only the two of us?
01:30:57 Also,
01:30:59 He's so small,
01:31:00 I want to have him sleep with me.
01:31:03 You'll tear us apart so your mom will be happy?
01:31:05 Other than your mom, who else is in your heart?
01:31:09 There's nothing more to discuss.
01:31:11 Maybe we should just all stay here in Tangshan.
01:31:14 You've got to be kidding.
01:31:16 You've never spent the holidays at my home.
01:31:18 Also,
01:31:19 This house is so small. Where can we stay?
01:31:22 Do you want me to stay in a hotel
01:31:24 Stop arguing.
01:31:26 I said I'd go back home with you.
01:31:32 Don't provoke me, Fang Da.
01:31:34 We'll leave you.
01:31:38 Don't you provoke me!
01:31:39 There are plenty of other women.
01:31:45 If you think...
01:31:46 I love you for your money,
01:31:48 Then you're wrong.
01:31:50 Let me go.
01:31:53 Let me go.
01:31:57 Stop yelling.
01:32:00 Are you awake?
01:32:03 Is he awake?
01:32:04 He just woke up.
01:32:05 Are you awake?
01:32:07 Dian Dian
01:32:10 May darling, Dian Dian.
01:32:13 Mom has to go.
01:32:15 Be good.
01:32:19 Mom,
01:32:20 Sorry to inconvenience you.
01:32:22 No, it's fine.
01:32:24 Mom...
01:32:25 We can't be with you for the New Year.
01:32:27 It's not the first time I've been alone.
01:32:31 We'll keep our cell phones on.
01:32:32 You can call us anytime.
01:32:35 I'll be fine.
01:32:36 Don't worry.
01:32:37 I raised two children.
01:32:53 Xiao He.
01:34:35 Dad,
01:34:37 Why are you smoking?
01:34:39 Just for fun.
01:34:42 Here. Try it on.
01:34:45 A down coat. Just what I needed.
01:34:50 Ya Ya,
01:34:51 Where have you been these last few years?
01:34:56 The sleeves are a bit long.
01:34:57 No, they're fine.
01:35:04 You still remember this home?
01:35:07 Dad.
01:35:11 Have you been to Tangshan to look for your family?
01:35:16 Dad, do you like it?
01:35:18 Yes.
01:35:22 Ya Ya,
01:35:24 Sit down.
01:35:32 In my mind...
01:35:34 You are very tall.
01:35:35 How can the sleeves be too long?
01:35:37 Don't worry about it.
01:35:42 Why...
01:35:44 Didn't you come home?
01:35:52 I was too ashamed.
01:35:57 You could have sent a letter...
01:35:58 Or called me?
01:36:02 I was afraid I'd make you worry.
01:36:05 You didn't want me to be worried?
01:36:11 I worried every day!
01:36:15 Where'd you go?
01:36:18 Dad.
01:36:19 Dad.
01:36:21 I'm sorry.
01:36:47 Look, how high it is.
01:36:49 Dian Dian, can you see it?
01:36:50 Dian Dian, be careful
01:36:59 Dad, are you okay?
01:37:00 I'm fine.
01:37:01 Go and play by yourself.
01:37:04 I need to catch my breath.
01:37:07 Be careful.
01:37:14 I often see this place in my dreams.
01:37:16 When I was a child,
01:37:18 I would chase after you and mom to the mess hall.
01:37:21 It seems like it was only yesterday.
01:37:23 You were only that big back then.
01:37:26 Dian Dian's grandparents in Tangshan
01:37:32 You're her grandfather.
01:37:35 Come on.
01:37:36 Don't change the subject.
01:37:37 You know what I mean.
01:37:44 All these years,
01:37:46 You have asked me many times.
01:37:51 During the earthquake,
01:37:54 My brother and I were both buried
01:37:58 Someone said only one of us could be saved.
01:38:03 My mom said...
01:38:07 Save my son.
01:38:14 These three words...
01:38:18 Keep ringing inside my ears.
01:38:22 Dad,
01:38:25 It's not that I don't remember,
01:38:30 It's that I can never forget.
01:38:38 I understand.
01:38:48 Deng,
01:38:50 But you need to remember...
01:38:53 Your family is always your family.
01:38:56 But I can't get it out of my mind.
01:39:23 Dian Dian,
01:39:24 Offer your grandma a glass of wine.
01:39:39 Dian Dian,
01:39:40 Let's talk to your grandma.
01:39:48 Gui Lan,
01:39:51 Ya Ya has come home.
01:39:54 She brought our granddaughter with her.
01:39:59 Tell grandma your name.
01:40:01 Dian Dian.
01:40:03 Say hi to your grandma.
01:40:04 Hi, grandma.
01:40:06 Grandma can't hear you.
01:40:07 Grandma!
01:40:17 I wish grandma could be here.
01:40:26 Cheers.
01:40:29 Dad...
01:40:30 How's my cooking?
01:40:33 It's strange.
01:40:34 I never saw mom teach you to cook.
01:40:37 But your food tastes...
01:40:38 About the same as what she used to cook.
01:40:44 For so many years,
01:40:46 You've eaten by yourself on New Year's eve.
01:40:50 No.
01:40:52 I have my friends from the army.
01:40:53 I went to their homes.
01:40:56 Why didn't you think of...
01:40:58 Getting remarried?
01:41:00 Your mom is with me every day.
01:41:05 Here, Dian Dian.
01:41:09 Dad,
01:41:11 I'm getting married.
01:41:15 Yeah.
01:41:19 He's a lawyer.
01:41:21 His job is not important.
01:41:24 I just want him to be good to you.
01:41:27 He is.
01:41:28 And to Dian Dian?
01:41:29 He's good to her too.
01:41:30 Then I support you.
01:41:34 Dad,
01:41:36 He's a foreigner.
01:41:40 Foreigner?
01:41:42 Shoot.
01:41:45 I forgot.
01:41:46 I totally forgot.
01:41:49 Lao Feng,
01:41:50 It's all my fault. So sorry.
01:41:53 I was having such a good time,
01:41:55 I forgot all about this.
01:41:57 My daughter came home with my granddaughter.
01:42:02 That's right.
01:42:06 How can l?
01:42:08 I've got my whole family here.
01:42:10 I can't leave.
01:42:12 How about this?
01:42:13 Tomorrow, I'll bring Deng over...
01:42:15 To wish you a happy new year.
01:42:18 How's that?
01:42:20 Okay.
01:42:22 I'll punish myself by drinking three glasses.
01:42:28 "Hangzhou 2008"
01:42:37 Mr. Fang,
01:42:38 As for the tour group to Xinjiang,
01:42:38 Which insurance should we get?
01:42:41 Go with China Life.
01:42:42 It's safe.
01:42:46 Is it an earthquake?
01:42:47 It's an earthquake! Earthquake!
01:42:49 Hurry, run!
01:42:54 Come back!
01:42:57 Tell everyone not to worry.
01:42:59 You don't need to run from a small earthquake.
01:43:01 And you can't escape from a large one.
01:43:02 Tell everyone to get back to work.
01:43:06 Okay.
01:43:08 Come on back. Everything's fine.
01:43:17 Mom.
01:43:18 Are you alright?
01:43:31 "Vancouver, Canada"
01:43:44 Hey, you are back so early
01:43:51 What happened?
01:43:55 Something very bad.
01:44:00 Did anything happen to Dian Dian?
01:44:02 No.
01:44:03 I called and she's coming home now.
01:44:06 Honey, let's go inside.
01:44:12 The force of the earthquake was so powerful...
01:44:14 That many homes didn't simply collapse
01:44:17 They were destroyed, smashed into pieces
01:44:21 Beneath the pile of wood and brick,
01:44:24 are the people who once lived here
01:44:27 The focus say...
01:44:28 the officials are not on finding the dead,
01:44:31 but on trying to save the living.
01:45:06 Oh, my God.
01:45:11 I can't believe it.
01:45:18 It's so terrible.
01:45:19 Look at these poor children.
01:45:25 Mom,
01:45:47 Honey, are you okay?
01:45:56 I have to go back.
01:45:59 It's okay.
01:46:05 I have to go help them.
01:46:08 I understand.
01:46:09 Whatever you want.
01:46:17 Assemble.
01:46:46 Don't unload the items in Chengdu.
01:46:47 Head toward the epicenter.
01:46:48 If the roads are fine, they won't need food
01:46:52 The faster the better.
01:46:53 Tell me as soon as you pass Chengdu.
01:46:56 I'm waiting for you in Han Wang.
01:46:59 Liu Wei.
01:47:02 Liu Wei.
01:47:04 Mr. Fang, I got it.
01:47:06 Did you get in contact with
01:47:08 Yes, we already did.
01:47:09 What do they need?
01:47:11 They need more medics.
01:47:13 I'll think of something.
01:47:45 Thanks, sir.
01:47:51 Is this the medic team?
01:47:52 Yes.
01:47:53 I studied medicine.
01:47:53 Can I join your team?
01:47:54 Sure
01:47:56 Let me help you.
01:47:57 Thanks
01:48:23 Give me the backpack.
01:48:26 Thanks.
01:48:28 Mr. Fang, we're here.
01:48:30 Where are you?
01:48:31 I'm in the town.
01:48:32 I'm with the Tangshan rescue team.
01:48:34 Who should we give the stuff in the vehicle to?
01:48:36 First to the local Red Cross.
01:48:38 Got it.
01:48:39 Are you from Tangshan?
01:48:41 Yes.
01:48:43 I'm also from Tangshan.
01:48:44 I got here late.
01:48:45 Better late than never.
01:48:46 Grab a tool. Help save them.
01:48:51 It's like this. This is your child's leg.
01:48:54 There's a slab on her leg.
01:48:55 On top, a column is holding up a building.
01:48:58 We need to remove the slab in order
01:49:01 But as soon as we remove the slab...
01:49:02 your child and the soldiers will all be in danger.
01:49:05 Calm down. We'll do our best to save your child.
01:49:07 Do something!
01:49:10 I beg you!
01:49:10 Okay!
01:49:15 My daughter!
01:49:16 Is anyone injured?
01:49:17 My daughter!
01:49:19 Is anyone hurt?
01:49:20 The girl's okay.
01:49:20 Who is it?
01:49:21 Li Qing, Li Qing.
01:49:23 Lift him up.
01:49:32 Let us through.
01:49:36 Get an ambulance!
01:50:11 My daughter.
01:50:13 Don't be afraid.
01:50:18 Mom's here with you.
01:50:26 Get the doctor.
01:50:31 Cut off her leg
01:50:34 Ma'am,
01:50:34 That's only a last resort.
01:50:37 Of course I don't want this.
01:50:41 My daughter.
01:50:46 You can't keep digging her out.
01:50:48 The building will collapse.
01:50:53 I can't risk your lives. Your parents
01:50:58 Get the saw.
01:51:01 When the child grows up,
01:51:05 Let her hate me.
01:51:31 My daughter!
01:51:37 My daughter's leg.
01:51:43 My daughter!
01:51:49 I want my daughter's leg.
01:51:52 I want my daughter's leg.
01:51:55 My daughter.
01:52:04 I want my daughter's leg.
01:52:10 Forgive me!
01:52:29 Attention please,
01:52:30 Tangshan rescue team.
01:52:32 It's time to eat.
01:52:34 If you're hungry, go ahead and eat.
01:52:36 If you're not hungry,
01:52:38 Wait a while. Okay?
01:52:50 What do you want?
01:52:52 Sorry,
01:52:53 I'm really hungry.
01:52:54 I don't eat much.
01:52:56 It's too dry. Take a bottle of water.
01:52:57 Thanks.
01:53:00 How many people are with the Tangshan rescue team?
01:53:02 A few days ago there were about 10.
01:53:03 Today you have more than 40.
01:53:06 People see the Tangshan rescue team's banner,
01:53:09 And then they join us.
01:53:17 What happened to your arm?
01:53:21 Were you buried in rubble?
01:53:25 In 1976,
01:53:26 I was two years old.
01:53:27 I don't remember what happened.
01:53:29 I lost my mother.
01:53:32 I'll go through my whole life without a mother.
01:53:38 What about your family?
01:53:41 Only my mom's left.
01:53:43 My sister and father are gone.
01:53:45 My sister and I were twins.
01:53:47 When the earthquake struck,
01:53:48 We were both trapped under a concrete slab.
01:53:52 When my mom called for help,
01:53:54 She was told that by prying the slab
01:53:56 My sister would be crushed.
01:53:58 If the slab was removed from on top of my sister,
01:53:59 I would be crushed.
01:54:02 They asked my mom to choose
01:54:04 How can she decide?
01:54:06 I know
01:54:08 "Both the palm and the back of the hand
01:54:11 My mom didn't say anything.
01:54:12 They got impatient.
01:54:14 If she didn't choose, she'd lose both of her kids.
01:54:18 Your mom saved her son.
01:54:29 The 1976 earthquake...
01:54:31 Destroyed my mom's entire life.
01:54:34 Her heart...
01:54:36 was ripped into pieces.
01:54:41 Do you know what my mom used to always say?
01:54:46 What?
01:54:50 You don't know what losing something means
01:54:55 The homes that were destroyed have been rebuilt.
01:54:58 But my mom's heart...
01:55:00 Can never be put back together.
01:55:05 For 32 years...
01:55:08 My mom's heart...
01:55:10 Has remained in ruins, covered in debris.
01:55:45 Sister.
01:55:47 Fang Deng.
01:55:50 Our home used to be at that intersection up ahead.
01:55:54 Now there's a department store.
01:56:32 Why are you staring at me?
01:56:35 Mom,
01:56:37 Is your blood pressure alright?
01:56:39 I'm fine.
01:56:41 If I can handle a lifetime of grief,
01:56:45 Where does your sister live?
01:56:47 Canada.
01:56:53 She's hiding so far away from me.
01:57:24 This is our home.
01:57:27 I feel as if I've been here before.
01:57:36 Mom,
01:57:37 Your daughter's come back.
01:58:14 This is my wife, Xiao He.
01:58:15 That's my son.
01:58:17 Hurry,
01:58:18 Say hi to your aunt.
01:58:19 Hi, aunt.
01:58:26 Mom,
01:58:27 Your daughter's come back.
01:58:32 First go inside.
01:58:35 Go inside.
01:58:37 Okay.
01:58:38 Sister, let's go inside.
01:58:42 Go on...
01:58:44 Take the backpack inside to your dad.
01:58:55 After the earthquake, we lived in a tent
01:58:57 And then we moved here.
01:58:59 Mom has lived here for 30 years.
01:59:01 I bought a new home for mom.
01:59:02 She won't move.
01:59:11 Why is this picture still hanging here?
01:59:12 Mom must have been so happy...
01:59:13 She forgot about this.
01:59:32 I washed the tomatoes for you.
01:59:37 I didn't lie to you.
01:59:55 Forgive me.
01:59:58 Mom...
01:59:59 What...
02:00:03 How did you suddenly reappear?
02:00:10 So many years...
02:00:11 Why didn't you contact me?
02:00:14 I thought you were with your dad.
02:00:22 Mom, Get up.
02:00:23 I thought about you two all day long.
02:00:29 I thought about you for 32 years.
02:00:33 Why didn't you think of me?
02:00:37 Where'd you go?
02:00:39 - Why didn't you come back? Deng?
02:00:46 Deng...
02:00:58 Mom.
02:00:59 Get up.
02:01:01 Deng...
02:01:29 They are my foster parents.
02:01:32 PLA soldiers.
02:01:35 The soldiers rescued many people in Tangshan.
02:01:40 My foster mother died in 1990.
02:01:44 My foster father...
02:01:46 Is retired.
02:01:48 His health is okay.
02:01:50 I'd like him to come and see me abroad.
02:01:52 He still refuses.
02:01:57 This is my husband.
02:01:59 A foreigner?
02:02:02 How much older is he?
02:02:05 Sixteen years.
02:02:10 This is my daughter.
02:02:12 Her name is Dian Dian.
02:02:16 She's also called Dian Dian?
02:02:25 She's very pretty.
02:02:29 How old is she?
02:02:32 18 years old.
02:02:34 She's in college.
02:02:35 She studies psychology.
02:02:41 You had a child when you were 22?
02:02:45 Yes, with a graduate student.
02:02:49 He wanted me to have an abortion.
02:02:50 I wouldn't do it.
02:02:51 We split up.
02:02:57 And then?
02:03:00 I quit school.
02:03:07 Who took care of you after you gave birth?
02:03:11 What about the child's father?
02:03:15 He left China.
02:03:19 I lost touch with him.
02:03:26 You didn't ask someone to help find him?
02:03:30 He didn't want me.
02:03:32 Why bother?
02:04:25 Da Qiang...
02:04:28 You love me so much.
02:04:30 You sent our daughter back.
02:04:36 I opened it for you.
02:04:38 Mom,
02:04:50 I'll get someone to remove this tomb.
02:04:52 There's no need.
02:04:55 Later, no matter where I'm living,
02:04:57 When I die, I will come back here.
02:04:59 I want to be with my father.
02:05:04 Do as your sister says.
02:05:06 She feels wronged.
02:05:08 Okay.
02:05:32 From elementary school to high school,
02:05:34 Each year mom bought two sets of textbooks.
02:05:38 A set for me,
02:05:39 And a set for you.
02:06:19 Mom,
02:06:22 All these years,
02:06:24 How have you managed?
02:06:29 I've been fine.
02:06:36 In a woman's lifetime,
02:06:39 How many periods of 30 years are there?
02:06:43 Why'd you do that?
02:06:48 Really, I've been fine.
02:06:52 If I lived a carefree life,
02:06:55 I would feel even worse.
02:07:01 Mom,
02:07:03 I'm sorry.
02:07:06 I'm sorry.
02:07:10 From the first time I saw Fang Da,
02:07:14 I started to hate myself.
02:07:19 He is my brother.
02:07:23 For him to live...
02:07:26 It is wonderful.
02:07:30 Mom, I'm sorry.
02:07:35 I tortured you for 32 years.
02:07:38 32 years!
02:07:42 I can't forgive myself.
02:07:43 Mom...
02:07:45 Mom, I'm sorry.
02:07:47 I'm sorry.
02:07:50 I'm sorry.
02:07:52 I'm sorry. Mom.
02:07:53 I'm sorry.
02:07:55 I'm sorry.
02:08:06 "ln 2008, the Tangshan municipal government...
02:08:10 erected a memorial wall to commemorate...
02:08:51 "Song Shoushu, Age 65"
02:08:55 "Retired from the Tangshan Metal Machinery Factory"
02:08:58 "He lost his father, sister,
02:09:02 "His son, Song Yongjie, died at the age of 5."
02:09:17 In two days, I'll see you again.
02:10:06 "This film mourns the 240,000 victims
02:10:16 "Like the phoenix rising from the ashes,"
02:10:18 "this film commemorates the rebirth
02:10:23 "We sincerely thank the many people