Eat Pray Love

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00:00:40 I have a friend, Deborah,
00:00:43 ..who was asked
00:00:45 .,.if she could offer psychological
00:00:49 .. .boat people,
00:00:53 Deborah was daunted by the task.
00:00:56 ...had suffered genocide, starvation,
00:01:01 ...years in refugee camps,
00:01:06 How could she relate
00:01:08 How could she help these people?
00:01:16 So guess what all these people
00:01:18 ...with my friend Deborah,
00:01:23 It was all,
00:01:26 I thought he really loved me,
00:01:29 ...he took up with my cousin.
00:01:32 ...and keeps calling me. They're married now. What should I do?'
00:01:36 This is how we are.
00:01:37 May I help you?
00:01:38 I'm Liz Gilbert. I'm writing
00:01:41 I wanted to meet a medicine man.
00:01:43 Everyone said I should meet
00:01:46 Wait.
00:01:47 I mean, here I am with
00:01:52 ...and what do I wanna
00:01:54 Getting closer to God?
00:01:57 Saving the world's
00:02:01 Happy to see you. I am Ketut Liyer.
00:02:04 Nope. I wanna discuss
00:02:12 You are a world traveler.
00:02:15 You will live a long time...
00:02:17 ...have many friends,
00:02:22 You will have two marriages.
00:02:26 Am I in the long one
00:02:28 Can't tell.
00:02:30 Also you will loss all your money.
00:02:35 I think in next six to 10 months.
00:02:40 Don't worry.
00:02:43 And you will come back to Ball...
00:02:46 ...and live here for three or four
00:02:52 I never had anybody
00:02:57 And then...
00:02:58 ...l will teach you everything I know.
00:03:07 Wait.
00:03:13 I have this for you.
00:03:15 Keep grounded so it's like
00:03:19 That way, you can stay in this world
00:03:21 Also, no looking at world
00:03:26 Look through your heart instead.
00:03:28 That way, you will know God.
00:03:32 Which is why you came here, no?
00:03:35 See you later, alligator.
00:03:53 I proofread all of her manuscripts.
00:03:57 My wife is very, very beautiful, but she can’t spell for anything.
00:04:00 Look at Uncle Stephen.
00:04:04 And Auntie Liz
00:04:06 I'm counting the minutes for this to be
00:04:10 You look fantastic.
00:04:12 Oh, you're lying.
00:04:14 ...I can't keep two thoughts.
00:04:17 Stephen, can you hold Jack?
00:04:18 -I'm gonna introduce you to Walter.
00:04:22 Hey, dude, you wanna grab a beer
00:04:25 My new book comes out in April.
00:04:28 -Great.
00:04:29 May. May.
00:04:31 This is Andre. You two are
00:04:34 -50 glad to finally meet you.
00:04:39 I fed him nachos. Is that bad?
00:04:41 You look comfortable.
00:04:43 -Give him to his dad.
00:04:46 Know what? I'd be asleep too
00:04:48 -We'll give him to his mom.
00:04:53 -Wanna help me change his diaper?
00:04:55 Hey, how's the vintage car
00:04:57 Oh, no, ho, ho. I changed jobs.
00:05:00 -You mean you're a baker
00:05:02 You wanna get baked?
00:05:06 I know, I know.
00:05:09 It's hard, isn't it?
00:05:11 Oh, no. This is so much fun.
00:05:15 Did you know the exact moment
00:05:18 I can't remember, but I've had the box
00:05:23 What box?
00:05:25 It's girly and embarrassing,
00:05:28 I will laugh at you,
00:05:32 Come on.
00:05:34 Under the bed.
00:05:42 I’ve been filling it with baby things...
00:05:45 ...waiting until Andy
00:05:50 So sweet.
00:05:53 Does this come in my size?
00:06:01 I have a box just like this, except
00:06:04 ...and The Times travel section.
00:06:07 All the places I wanna see
00:06:10 Liz, having a baby is like
00:06:16 You kind of wanna be
00:06:22 So my trip to Aruba next week,
00:06:25 ..."where to sleep, swim
00:06:28 I got a new bikini.
00:06:30 And it turns out,
00:06:34 -You know what that means?
00:06:36 You, me...
00:06:38 ...macadamia nuts.
00:06:41 That was cute.
00:06:43 You know who I was talking to
00:06:46 -...was Tara's friend.
00:06:48 Brian. Unbelievable.
00:06:51 He’s a substitute teacher, isn’t he?
00:06:53 Yeah. He was talking about the
00:06:56 There's no money for anything.
00:06:58 There's no music classes
00:07:01 They're volunteering their time
00:07:04 They're educating our kids,
00:07:06 I think you'd make
00:07:09 Thank you,
00:07:13 ...education. Getting my masters,
00:07:16 You know?
00:07:25 I-- You know....
00:07:28 -Going back to school.
00:07:33 I was getting the sinking feeling that
00:07:38 Was I in the shorter marriage?
00:07:42 We’d only bought this house
00:07:46 Hadn't l wanted this?
00:07:50 I had actively participated
00:07:54 ...of this life.
00:07:56 So why didn't I see myself
00:08:05 The only thing more impossible
00:08:09 ...was leaving.
00:08:13 I didn't wanna hurt anybody. I wanted
00:08:17 ...and not stop running
00:08:25 Instead, I made a decision
00:08:28 To pray.
00:08:30 You know, like, to God.
00:08:34 And it was such a foreign concept to
00:08:39 "I'm a big fan of your work. "
00:08:48 Hello, God?
00:08:53 Nice to finally meet you. I....
00:08:57 I am sorry I've never spoken
00:09:04 ...but...
00:09:06 ...I hope I've expressed my...
00:09:10 ...ample gratitude for all
00:09:14 ...to me in my life.
00:09:26 I'm in serious trouble.
00:09:31 I don't know what to do.
00:09:34 I need an answer
00:09:37 Please, tell me what to do.
00:09:43 Oh, God, help me, please.
00:09:52 Tell me what to do and I'll do it.
00:09:58 Go back to bed, Liz.
00:10:22 I don't wanna go to Aruba.
00:10:27 I don't wanna be married
00:10:47 You know, there's a whole
00:11:09 -"Pepper grinder."
00:11:11 -...a nervous breakdown.
00:11:13 -She’s processing.
00:11:16 That's what I would do if you left me.
00:11:18 No, you wouldn't.
00:11:20 -No, I wouldn’t.
00:11:22 They were together eight years.
00:11:33 'Legacy'
00:11:37 Every word in Italian is like a truffle.
00:11:43 Honey, I get it.
00:11:46 When Andy and I broke up
00:11:49 A frigging loom.
00:11:52 I don't know how you guys
00:11:55 Are you kidding me?
00:11:58 It's kind of like having
00:12:00 But you are a writer.
00:12:03 Maybe I could write about a woman
00:12:07 Call it
00:12:11 I'll start looking for a place.
00:12:15 -I'm falling in love with you.
00:12:18 I'm just your fantasy.
00:12:20 No, that's bullshit. You're real.
00:12:25 Your scars, your talent.
00:12:27 The fact that
00:12:29 ...and you accept that
00:12:32 Okay, this sucks.
00:12:33 -I second that.
00:12:43 I love your pain.
00:12:46 And I love that when we're together,
00:12:51 -Oh, he's good'
00:12:53 -He's hot, theres a difference
00:12:56 And when I look into your eyes,
00:13:02 I did not write that line.
00:13:04 Here's what he doesn't know yet
00:13:07 I disappear Into the person I love.
00:13:11 I am the permeable membrane.
00:13:16 My money, my time, my body...
00:13:19 ...my dog, my dog's money.
00:13:23 I will assume your debts
00:13:26 ...all sorts of nifty qualities you've
00:13:31 I will give you all this and more...
00:13:34 ...until I am so exhausted
00:13:37 ...the only way I can recover...
00:13:40 ...is by becoming infatuated
00:13:50 -Elizabeth, hi.
00:13:52 Oh, really?
00:13:57 How you doing?
00:14:30 Cheers.
00:14:34 -Thank you.
00:14:36 -For the walkouts.
00:14:41 I doubt that.
00:14:44 I, on the other hand, was shit.
00:14:46 -Although I was trying very hard.
00:14:52 Thank you.
00:14:53 You seem shorter in person
00:14:56 -Really? I hear that a lot.
00:14:58 It's okay.
00:15:01 It's unnerving when...
00:15:03 ...a total stranger sees you
00:15:07 That's what I mean
00:15:14 Are you hearing dolphins clapping
00:15:18 I took a few liberties
00:15:22 I give you full permission to make
00:15:27 You're far too charming
00:15:34 I'm still hearing them.
00:15:45 Is that your guru?
00:15:49 You're joking, but, yes, it is.
00:15:53 She's beautiful.
00:15:55 Yeah. A friend told me about her.
00:15:59 I was out of work and feeling
00:16:02 Not the last time I was out of work,
00:16:05 And I just had this feeling like
00:16:10 Looking for what?
00:16:12 God.
00:16:14 She has an ashram in India.
00:16:18 ...you know, you have to get, like,
00:16:21 ...and my insurance always runs out.
00:16:25 I'll go when the time's right.
00:16:27 There's a gathering of her students
00:16:31 If you want,
00:16:34 If you're not unnerved by 100
00:16:40 I need to be unnerved.
00:17:13 David. A yogi from Yonkers.
00:17:19 I didn’t exactly fall in love
00:17:23 What happened was
00:17:26 ...and into David's arms...
00:17:28 ...exactly the same way
00:17:31 ...dives off a high platform
00:17:37 .. . vanishing completely.
00:17:47 Your underwear, my queen.
00:17:53 He just folded my delicates.
00:17:56 Oh, my God, baby,
00:18:52 Thirty-six?
00:19:07 My client is simply not interested
00:19:11 Is he serious?
00:19:13 Is he really representing himself?
00:19:15 One semester of law school
00:19:18 Great. Well, what would it take
00:19:21 Okay, so here's the deal.
00:19:24 ...but what I wanna know
00:19:27 ...in our marriage? Why didn't you
00:19:31 -I did. You never listened to me.
00:19:33 "Hey, you know what?
00:19:36 You just took off. You never gave me a chance to address those problems.
00:19:40 That’s not fair. That’s just quitting.
00:19:43 Till death.
00:19:46 I believe this is just a phase
00:19:49 You are always waiting, Stephen.
00:19:51 Waiting for me to come home,
00:19:53 ...to make you dinner.
00:19:56 ...we don't wanna live
00:19:58 I accept the fact that
00:20:01 ...and I often get sidetracked,
00:20:04 I thought it was okay
00:20:07 Have a dream. Stephen, great,
00:20:11 Okay, I pick one. I pick you.
00:20:22 I know this is awful.
00:20:26 But I believe with every molecule of
00:20:31 ...that wants just what you want.
00:20:34 That will give you what you want
00:20:38 Well, you obviously know nothing
00:20:45 My client would like to submit
00:20:47 ...that he believes is relevant to these
00:20:53 Are you kidding?
00:20:58 Quitter, quitter, quitter!
00:21:01 How about I take the blame?
00:21:04 ...with another weekend roaming
00:21:07 ...buying appliances on credit...
00:21:09 ...and pretending to be a couple that
00:21:13 You wanted that toaster
00:21:15 "You like faking it, fine. You're stellar.
00:21:20 -It was not my finest hour.
00:21:23 We're prepared
00:21:26 ...and my client's retirement accounts
00:21:30 Take it all then. Everything.
00:21:33 He still said no.
00:21:35 -He hates me now.
00:21:38 His heart is broken.
00:21:44 I think he hates you.
00:21:46 I'm never letting you
00:21:48 Why don't we talk next week
00:21:51 -Okay.
00:21:53 ...of working themselves out.
00:22:10 So why'd you become a vegetarian?
00:22:11 I saw some cows slaughtered
00:22:14 Barely touched your dinner.
00:22:16 He's 28.
00:22:21 This is hard for him, isn't it'?
00:22:24 The meditations help.
00:22:28 Liz.
00:22:30 You remember a couple of years ago,
00:22:33 ...the renovation of your kitchen?
00:22:36 ...with being the perfect wife and cook.
00:22:38 I was trying to make it work.
00:22:39 Well, I think chanting and meditation
00:22:42 ...in a different costume.
00:22:48 Definitely give me that documentary.
00:22:50 I've been thinking
00:22:52 My triglycerides
00:22:54 Yeah. Thanks for everything.
00:22:55 Great to meet you.
00:23:02 -What?
00:23:06 ...you know,
00:23:08 Now you kind of look like David.
00:23:10 You know?
00:23:13 What I meant was, you know how
00:23:20 Why would he say that,
00:23:23 -He was joking.
00:23:25 Well, he had five Heineken's.
00:23:27 Well, not funny.
00:23:30 We don't look like the same dog.
00:23:33 If anything, you're a collie
00:23:48 Don’t you wanna give me a chance
00:24:13 It begins when
00:24:15 ...bestows upon you
00:24:19 ...of something you've never
00:24:22 ...an emotional speed-ball
00:24:26 Soon you start craving that attention
00:24:30 ...of any junkie.
00:24:32 When it's withheld, you tum sick;
00:24:35 ...of the dealer who encouraged
00:24:39 ...but now refuses to pony up
00:24:41 Just frustrated, I'm concerned.
00:24:44 What don't you get?
00:24:46 What's going on?
00:24:48 -You don'! finish your--
00:24:51 -You don't have sex with me!
00:24:54 Goddamn him, and he used to
00:24:57 Next stage Ends you skinny,
00:25:00 ...certain only that
00:25:02 ...just to have that one thing
00:25:04 Well, then why don't we discuss it?
00:25:07 -Why don't we act like adults?
00:25:10 -How about that?
00:25:12 ...the object of your adoration
00:25:16 -You don't always make me miserable.
00:25:19 I just-- Sometimes I need to
00:25:23 ...and have a little David time.
00:25:25 He looks at you like someone
00:25:28 -Is that okay?
00:25:30 And not have to, like, you know,
00:25:34 The irony is
00:25:37 I mean, check yourself out.
00:25:40 Unrecognizable
00:25:43 You asked me to come here?
00:25:45 And it turned into something else.
00:25:47 -Didn't it'?
00:25:54 -Right. I can't take this anymore.
00:25:57 That's a great response
00:26:01 Goddamn it.
00:26:02 • You have now reached infatuation’s final destination
00:26:08 The complete
00:26:48 You wanna go away for a year?
00:26:50 Do you know what I felt when I woke up, Delia?
00:26:52 Nothing. No passion, no spark,
00:26:57 I've gotten past the point where
00:27:00 • And it just terrifies me. Jesus,1 this is like worse than death to me..i
00:27:04 ...the idea that this is the person
00:27:07 This happens to people.
00:27:08 They fall in love in their 20s,
00:27:10 ...do the granite counter-top,
00:27:13 ...and somewhere they realize,
00:27:16 So they fail and they fall down,
00:27:20 ...and march their asses
00:27:22 -They can’t just check out.
00:27:26 I need to change.
00:27:27 You have a support system
00:27:30 You have friends and family
00:27:32 And do you feel my love for you?
00:27:36 There's, like, nothing. I have no pulse.
00:27:41 -l am going to Italy.
00:27:43 -What did you have for lunch?
00:27:46 Exactly. I used to have this appetite
00:27:51 ...and it is just gone.
00:27:54 I wanna go someplace
00:27:59 Language, gelato,
00:28:02 -You're talking like a college kid.
00:28:05 Since I was 15, I've either been
00:28:09 I have not given myself two weeks of a breather...
00:28:12 ...to just deal with, you know, myself.
00:28:18 What's going on
00:28:28 What, did you fall out?
00:28:30 I don't know how to be here.
00:28:32 You wanna know how to be here'?
00:28:40 I'm going to Italy and then I'm going
00:28:45 ...and I'm going to and the year
00:28:52 That's what I'm gonna do.
00:28:53 That's harder to argue with.
00:28:56 -Ketut told me I would.
00:28:58 When you're desperate...
00:28:59 ...and some guy who,
00:29:02 ...hands you a prophecy,
00:29:05 -Do you need a Xanax?
00:29:09 Okay, I'm just gonna say it.
00:29:12 What if it doesn't work?
00:29:18 My whole life
00:29:22 You know how many times
00:29:25 Most of them never come back
00:29:32 -Hello?
00:29:34 Good news. Stephen just signed
00:29:45 I'll probably be back in a weak,
00:29:50 You're my hero.
00:30:05 Hey.
00:30:08 If you stay,
00:30:13 You never asked me to stay.
00:30:21 Go, go, go.
00:30:43 You know what's funny?
00:30:45 This is the first time in my life
00:30:49 I don't even have a home
00:30:51 Oh, God. You'll make friends.
00:30:52 You'll make friends with a backpack,
00:30:54 It'd be great to get away.
00:30:56 Andy and I were talking about getting
00:31:00 You know, and in 10 years,
00:31:04 What?
00:31:08 You know why I was giving you
00:31:12 I love my job, my guy and my kid,
00:31:17 I wish I could go'
00:31:28 I love you and I'm proud of you.
00:31:31 Now go.
00:31:56 There is a wonderful
00:31:58 .,.about a poor man
00:32:01 ...and prays before the statue
00:32:06 "Dear saint, please, please, please
00:32:12 Finally, the exasperated statue
00:32:15 ...and looks down at the begging man
00:32:18 "My sun, please, please, please
00:32:24 So now I get the joke.
00:32:26 And I've got three tickets.
00:32:49 You heat the water on the stove.
00:32:54 So if I want to bathe".?
00:32:57 You put the water in the tub.
00:33:04 Okay
00:33:06 Yeah. It doesn’t really seem like
00:33:15 Not enough.
00:33:17 Yes, ifs enough.
00:33:19 Fill it up three, four, five times.
00:33:23 Everything that's important
00:33:43 Is this safe? This..'
00:33:46 ...scaffolding? Scaffol...
00:33:49 It holds up the ceiling.
00:33:51 Otherwise it will fall apart.
00:33:55 Everything falls apart, my dear.
00:33:57 The only thing permanent in life
00:34:05 You're not married.
00:34:08 No, divorziata.
00:34:10 Why divorced?
00:34:16 We broke it.
00:34:20 You're more happy now'?
00:34:27 I have one rule.
00:34:29 No strange men spending the night.
00:34:35 You American girls
00:34:37 ...all you want is pasta...
00:34:40 ...and sausage.
00:34:47 I'll take it.
00:34:48 Good. You chose well.
00:35:24 Cappuccino.
00:35:25 -It's a zoo in here.
00:35:28 -How long have you been here?
00:35:31 Six weeks. You'll get better.
00:35:33 Two cappuccinos, please.
00:35:35 And warm the milk this time.
00:35:37 Yesterday it was too hot
00:35:39 -You like Napoleons?
00:35:41 And two Napoleons, please
00:35:45 Your Italian is fantastic.
00:35:47 I have a wonderful tutor.
00:35:50 -He's really good and he needs work.
00:35:53 Are you Dutch? German?
00:35:55 Swedish. Even colder people,
00:35:59 -I'm Liz, by the way.
00:37:28 You can say:
00:37:34 It's past
00:37:47 Too fast, but okay.
00:37:49 You can say:
00:37:53 Yeah.
00:38:02 What a beautiful word
00:38:04 Come on, it's "let's cross over."
00:38:08 No, it's the perfect combination
00:38:13 It's the wistful "ah," the rolling trill,
00:38:17 -That's true.
00:38:19 All right, let me teach you a word.
00:38:26 Therapist.
00:38:30 Therapist.
00:38:32 -Come on.
00:38:34 -It's not.
00:38:44 -Shall we continue Tuesday at 5?
00:38:46 -With another bottle of the therapy?
00:38:49 -You're doing very well, Liz.
00:38:52 And you must be very polite
00:38:54 ...when you learn something new.
00:38:56 Yes. Grazie, I agree.
00:38:58 But your English-- How are you
00:39:01 I think you're gonna teach ma
00:39:04 You have good Italian. Very good.
00:39:06 All right
00:39:52 I am alone.
00:41:53 I feel so guilty.
00:41:56 ...all I've done is learn
00:41:59 You feel guilty
00:42:01 You don't know
00:42:03 -I beg your pardon?
00:42:05 Americans know entertainment,
00:42:09 This is Luca Spaghetti, by the way,
00:42:12 Your name is Luca Spaghetti?
00:42:15 Yes, that's what our family is called.
00:42:17 We invented it.
00:42:20 You want to know your problem?
00:42:22 You work too hard.
00:42:25 Then you come home
00:42:28 ...in your pajamas in front of the TV.
00:42:30 That's not far off, actually.
00:42:32 But you don't know pleasure.
00:42:37 You see a commercial that says,
00:42:40 ...and you say, "That's right.
00:42:44 And drink the whole thing and wake up
00:42:49 But an Italian doesn't need
00:42:52 Ha walks by a sign that says,
00:42:56 ...and he says, "Yeah, I know.
00:42:58 That's why I'm planning on
00:43:02 ...to go over to your house and sleep with your wife.”
00:43:07 We callit "dolce far niente"
00:43:10 It means".
00:43:11 ...the sweetness of doing nothing.
00:43:28 He's right. He says...
00:43:30 ...you can't learn Italian like this.
00:43:32 You don't speak the language just with
00:43:36 Like this?
00:43:41 Okay. ls yelling.
00:43:48 'THAT MEAL WAS EXCELLENT'
00:43:59 'SUCK IT'
00:44:03 All this gives me a stomachache.
00:44:06 'SCREW YOU'
00:44:08 -I think that's my neighbor Lorenzo.
00:44:14 ANOTHER WAY
00:44:28 So anyway, to start off I'd say....
00:44:30 Excuse me.
00:44:32 Come here.
00:44:36 For the table...
00:44:37 ...a big platter
00:44:41 ...prosciutto with melon...
00:44:42 ...and eggplant
00:44:46 Then spaghetti alla carbonara...
00:44:48 ...pappardelle with ragu of rabbit...
00:44:50 ...and Iinguini with clams.
00:44:53 Then trips alla romana...
00:44:55 ...and saltimbocca.
00:44:56 And two more liters
00:44:59 Thank you.
00:45:03 You did it. Yes.
00:45:06 Liz Gilbert,
00:45:08 No, only honorary.
00:45:11 That is a real Roman woman.
00:45:16 Yeah, with a lot
00:45:19 That one, I'd bite.
00:45:22 Maybe you and Rome
00:45:25 -Different words?
00:45:26 Yeah. It's like each city has a word,
00:45:30 Like, what is the word for London?
00:45:33 -I would say "stuffy."
00:45:36 -What's the word for Stockholm?
00:45:39 And New York?
00:45:41 "Ambition" or "soot."
00:45:45 What's the word for Rome?
00:45:47 It's kind of difficult to think about.
00:45:49 It's classic.
00:45:50 'Sex'
00:45:55 Of course.
00:46:23 So, what's your word, Liz?
00:46:26 Well....
00:46:31 It might be....
00:46:34 It started as "daughter."
00:46:39 ..."wife.“ Not so good.
00:46:42 "Girlfriend."
00:46:45 Not so good.
00:46:47 My word's writer."
00:46:48 Yeah, but that's what you do.
00:46:52 Maybe you’re a woman in search of her word.
00:47:08 Hey, Sch, it's Liz. Let's go to Naples.
00:47:27 Listen, lady, I am only 7, but I
00:47:30 ...because I am from Naples.
00:47:33 I love this place,
00:47:36 His cousin got mugged here
00:47:38 -Are you serious?
00:47:55 I'm in love. I'm having
00:47:59 You look like you're breaking up
00:48:02 I can't.
00:48:03 What do you mean, you can't?
00:48:06 It is your moral imperative
00:48:09 I want to,
00:48:13 I mean, I've got this....
00:48:15 Right here. What's it called?
00:48:18 A muffin top.
00:48:21 I have one too.
00:48:23 I unbuttoned my jeans
00:48:25 Let me ask you a question.
00:48:27 In all the years you've ever
00:48:30 -Hasn't been that many.
00:48:34 ...has he ever asked you to leave?
00:48:36 -Has he ever walked out? Left?
00:48:39 Because he doesn't care.
00:48:41 He's in a room with a naked girl.
00:48:44 I'm so tired of saying no
00:48:48 ...and recalling every single thing
00:48:51 Counting every calorie
00:48:53 ...how much self-loathing
00:48:56 I'm going for it.
00:48:58 I have no interest in being obese.
00:49:02 This is what I’m gonna do I’m gonna finish this pizza...
00:49:05 ...and then we're gonna go
00:49:08 And tomorrow we're gonna go
00:49:10 ...and buy ourselves
00:49:15 Giovanni likes a muffin.
00:49:21 Attagirl
00:49:36 He's saying,
00:49:39 Per chi, for whom.
00:49:47 Pull, pull. I'm sucking it in.
00:49:51 Put some Swedish muscle into this.
00:49:57 You think this happened
00:50:00 There it goes. Almost got it.
00:50:03 Go, go, go. You're not trying.
00:50:07 I've almost got it. I've almost got it.
00:50:33 Oh, that's beautiful'
00:50:37 For whom?
00:50:39 For you, Liz. Just for you.
00:50:45 • No, I’m happy just with my big lady pants.
00:51:06 Thanks for the day.
00:51:10 It was fun.
00:51:13 We're gonna go for food.
00:51:15 No. No, I'm
00:52:19 The sweetness of doing nothing
00:52:34 Please. Please get off the Noon
00:52:44 Will you please just".?
00:52:57 What if we just acknowledge that
00:53:02 ...and we stick it out anyway?
00:53:06 We accept that we fight a
00:53:10 ...and we hardly have sex anymore...
00:53:13 ...but that we don't wanna
00:53:17 And that way we can spend
00:53:20 ...miserable...
00:53:24 ...but happy not to be apart.
00:53:34 Dear David:
00:53:36 We haven't had any communication
00:53:39 ...and it’s given me time
00:53:42 Remember when you said we should
00:53:46 ...so we could be happy?
00:53:47 Consider it a testimony to how much I love you...
00:53:49 ...that I spent so long
00:53:52 ...trying to make it work.
00:53:55 But a friend took me to the most
00:53:58 It's called the Augusteum.
00:54:00 Octavian Augustus built it
00:54:04 When the barbarians came, they
00:54:07 The great Augustus,
00:54:11 ...how could he have imagined
00:54:13 ...the whole world, as far as he was
00:54:17 During the Dark Ages, someone came
00:54:21 In the 12th century,
00:54:23 ...than a bullring'
00:54:25 They stored fireworks in here
00:54:28 Nowadays, it's a bathroom
00:54:30 ...so you better watch your step
00:54:36 It’s one of the quietest
00:54:40 The city has grown up
00:54:44 It feels like a precious wound...
00:54:46 ...like a heartbreak you won't let go of
00:54:50 I like it messy.
00:54:53 We all want things
00:54:56 I guess the guy before me
00:54:59 Settle for living in misery...
00:55:00 ...because we're afraid of change,
00:55:03 Than I looked around in this place,
00:55:08 ...the way it’s been adapted,
00:55:11 ...then found a way to build itself
00:55:15 Maybe my life hasn’t been so chaotic.
00:55:19 ...and the only real trap
00:55:24 Ruin is a gift.
00:55:26 Ruin is the road to transformation.
00:55:29 Hey.
00:55:32 You ready?
00:55:34 Yeah.
00:55:43 Even in this eternal city,
00:55:46 ...that we must always be prepared
00:55:55 Both of us deserve better than staying together...
00:55:57 I ...because we’re afraid well be destroyed if we don’t.
00:56:58 My mother's stuffing.
00:57:01 Will you get me
00:57:04 Oh, I'm always getting you
00:57:06 It's my dream,
00:57:10 The perfect way to say goodbye
00:57:14 50...
00:57:17 -...you leave this week, huh?
00:57:20 And where are you going? Iran?
00:57:23 India.
00:57:27 Liz is making us
00:57:29 -You are not married, yeah?
00:57:33 What's wrong with your friend,
00:57:39 No, Mama, she’s not a lesbian And she understands Italian.
00:57:42 How’s she going to find
00:57:45 ...when she's on the other side
00:57:48 If a man said, "I'm going to travel for
00:57:53 But she's not a man.
00:57:55 It’s more difficult for a woman to feel that she has the right to make choices.
00:58:01 -It takes a lot of courage.
00:58:04 You call it courage, I call it stupidity.
00:58:07 Mama, enough.
00:58:10 I know a number of people
00:58:13 Luca?
00:58:15 What time will the turkey be ready?
00:58:18 The turkey....
00:58:19 I haven't defrosted it yet.
00:58:24 Oh, shit.
00:58:27 You only had one thing to do
00:58:29 I was distracted! It can happen!
00:58:33 Too much good food!
00:58:35 Too many women!
00:58:37 And I forgot!
00:58:39 Now, before we eat, everyone...
00:58:41 ...it is Thanksgiving,
00:58:44 -Yeah. Come on, join hands.
00:58:47 So we just say what we....
00:58:50 What we thank God for tonight
00:58:56 I am grateful for you, Liz...
00:59:00 ...for helping me appreciate life...
00:59:04 ...with all that comes with it...
00:59:08 ...muffin tops and bad times.
00:59:11 And for Giovanni...
00:59:13 ...for making me feel...
00:59:16 ...loved and secure.
00:59:20 And Giulia
00:59:21 Me, I'm grateful for
00:59:25 My two little daughters and my wife.
00:59:28 I thank God and the Holy Virgin...
00:59:32 ...for this very, very special day.
00:59:35 And for this beautiful family...
00:59:39 ...that today is so much bigger.
00:59:42 Very much bigger.
00:59:48 I thank you all for this new custom
00:59:52 And Liz's stuffing.
00:59:55 ...and God...
00:59:57 ...for my sexiness.
01:00:03 And you, Ruffina?
01:00:08 I thank God for...
01:00:11 ...my sexiness.
01:00:17 Go ahead. Giovanni.
01:00:19 I thank God for...
01:00:24 ...fear...
01:00:25 ...because for the first time...
01:00:30 ...I'm afraid the person next to me...
01:00:33 ...will be the one who wants to leave.
01:00:41 Liz?
01:00:45 Well, this all makes me so grateful.
01:00:51 Seeing all you happy people...
01:00:53 ...who know how to love each other
01:00:59 I look at the amazing women I've met
01:01:03 ...and the great men,
01:01:08 ...and putting their children to bed.
01:01:12 I just feel happy...
01:01:15 ...to see it and to be part of it
01:01:24 I'm the luckiest girl in the world.
01:02:55 It's a good breakfast, huh?
01:04:22 I will take this to your room.
01:04:30 It has already started.
01:05:17 -I fell asleep.
01:05:21 Probably the only person in the world
01:05:32 -This leads to the meditation garden.
01:05:36 -She's always here.
01:05:40 She's at her ashram in New York
01:05:42 But I came from New York
01:05:45 Sounds like one of her little tricks.
01:05:51 The meditation cave.
01:05:53 It’s open 2417
01:06:06 Corella?
01:06:08 -This is Liz Gilbert.
01:06:16 -Where did you get that button?
01:06:19 That is exactly what I need. I need
01:06:23 I never have. My mom used to
01:06:26 ...because I just ramble.
01:06:28 I am rambling now. I'm sorry.
01:06:32 Silence is a wonderful
01:06:34 ...but if Corella could speak, she'd tell
01:06:38 -Wait till you've been here for a while.
01:06:53 Thank you, Corella.
01:06:56 -What did she say?
01:06:58 Change into your work clothes.
01:07:01 It's a Hindu word
01:07:04 -It's required of everyone who stays.
01:07:35 Is there anything in this world skinnier
01:07:41 -I'm Tulsi.
01:07:43 Where are you from?
01:07:45 The next town. My parents have been devotees of the guru for many years.
01:07:49 We spend a lot of time here.
01:07:50 But...
01:07:52 ...they are trying to marry me off'
01:07:56 -That's not what you want?
01:08:05 I want to study psychology, just as our
01:08:10 I prefer to be with God
01:08:13 No one in my family understands
01:08:17 Do you ever look at them and wonder,
01:08:22 You have no idea.
01:08:50 The Guru Gita is an ancient text
01:08:55 In it, the goddess Parvati
01:08:59 ...for the secrets of fulfillment.
01:09:02 It's said to have
01:09:05 I would just like to take a risk here
01:09:09 Me and Guru Gita,
01:09:14 -What is it you have trouble with?
01:09:16 It’s long, it’s tedious,
01:09:20 ...and I get these insane anxieties
01:09:25 ...and I've lost my place.
01:09:27 Sounds like it has a positive effect...
01:09:29 ...if you're having such strong
01:09:34 You keep trying.
01:09:43 It is most commendable
01:09:46 You seem like such a
01:09:49 I think my ex-husband
01:09:53 You mustn't be angry with yourself
01:09:57 You don't have to make children
01:10:03 Oh, man. They got mosquitoes
01:10:06 ...to stand flat-footed
01:10:10 -I love you.
01:10:12 -..,Richard from Texas?
01:10:14 -Nice to meet you, Groceries.
01:10:17 Yeah. Yeah, I heard you eating
01:10:20 I never seen anybody
01:10:23 You sure do enjoy your groceries.
01:10:26 You know, it’s been a rough day, and if no one takes it personally. J
01:10:30 ...I'm going to take my large meal
01:10:34 Oh, no, stay. I'm done.
01:10:41 Looked like you were
01:10:43 ...pretty rough stuff this morning.
01:10:46 Stuff with your ex-husband?
01:10:49 I got an ex-wife.
01:10:52 She thinks I changed my name
01:10:58 I...
01:11:00 I just spent some time in Rome
01:11:06 And now here I am, at the source...
01:11:09 ...and I feel more disconnected
01:11:13 Why'd you come here?
01:11:16 I just want some peace.
01:11:18 Peace?
01:11:21 You wanna get
01:11:24 ...you got to swim the moat.
01:11:29 Here, you can finish that.
01:11:38 Okay.
01:11:40 Simply empty your mind.
01:11:44 Breathe.
01:11:47 What am I going to do
01:11:51 Where am I going to live?
01:11:53 Well, maybe Chicago.
01:11:55 Oh, my God.
01:11:59 No. Stop thinking.
01:12:09 Screw you, Corella.
01:12:11 She looks like
01:12:16 Oh, my God, kill me.
01:12:22 -Who's in the moat today?
01:12:24 Sounds like you wrestled
01:12:26 You know what? If you're so goddamn
01:12:30 If you're here,
01:12:32 -Do you wanna talk about what--?
01:12:35 I'm the only one here. You're gonna
01:12:38 I cannot focus in there.
01:12:40 All I think about is my meditation room
01:12:46 Are you shitting me?
01:12:48 Are you kidding me?
01:12:49 The meditation room is within,
01:12:53 Do you always talk in bumper sticker?
01:12:54 I do, and here’s another one.
01:12:56 You have to learn to select
01:12:59 ...your clothes every day.
01:13:02 You wanna come here and control
01:13:06 That's the only thing
01:13:08 If you can't master your thoughts,
01:13:10 I am trying.
01:13:12 Yeah, hello, that's the damn problem.
01:13:15 Go out into the garden
01:13:19 ...and you watch what happens.
01:13:20 Why don't you just let it be?
01:13:24 Has anyone ever told you
01:13:31 Every day.
01:13:39 God, he really does.
01:13:47 My prayers were always the same.
01:13:49 "Please, God, please.
01:13:53 ...because we both know
01:13:58 Look at you,
01:14:01 Locks like you had
01:14:04 I probably have malaria now.
01:14:06 The bites will go away.
01:14:08 Eventually everything goes away.
01:14:10 You ever done that, Groceries?
01:14:14 That sounds vaguely familiar.
01:14:16 Be careful what you wish for.
01:14:18 What is your problem?
01:14:20 Did you fall in love
01:14:24 Excuse me, Miss Gilbert.
01:14:26 You have a phone call.
01:14:29 How's the Guru Gita treating you?
01:14:32 Fine. You'd like her.
01:14:37 Did you get my e-mail?
01:14:40 Yeah. I’m sorry I didn’t call sooner.
01:14:44 Why didn't you?
01:14:46 Because if! didn’t respond...
01:14:47 ...we were still having a conversation.
01:14:53 I'm sorry. We were just bad timing.
01:14:59 I just wanted things to be easy.
01:15:04 It's not that I need "easy" right now.
01:15:11 Well, you sound good.
01:15:13 Stronger.
01:15:15 So do you.
01:15:18 Yeah, well, I'm an actor, Liz.
01:15:23 I got a part.
01:15:27 It’s off-Broadway, but it’s pretty cool.
01:15:30 I'm happy for you.
01:15:34 All right
01:15:36 Well, I'll see you around, kid.
01:16:05 Check you out.
01:16:07 I have never seen you so focused.
01:16:22 You need a Thums Up.
01:16:26 No, no. No lips on the bottle.
01:16:30 First rule in India is never
01:16:37 Oh, good God. That's, like,
01:16:45 I think it might have
01:16:49 We can only hope.
01:16:54 I know you feel awful.
01:16:57 But your life's changing.
01:17:00 That's not a bad thing.
01:17:02 And you're in the perfect place for it.
01:17:06 I thought I was over him, but...
01:17:11 ...I love him.
01:17:13 Big deal.
01:17:14 -So you fell in love with someone.
01:17:17 So miss him.
01:17:18 Send him some light and love every
01:17:23 You know, if you could clear out
01:17:27 ...that you're using
01:17:29 ...and your failed marriage,
01:17:33 And you know what the universe
01:17:37 Rush in. God would rush in.
01:17:41 Fill you with more love
01:17:50 Groceries.
01:17:52 I think you have the capacity someday
01:18:02 What do they sell over there?
01:18:09 Ganesh. Remover of obstacles
01:18:16 I'm gonna need a lot of these.
01:18:18 Speaking of elephants, there's a rogue
01:18:22 He was with carnival.
01:18:24 They say he is very,
01:18:28 That just makes him more attractive
01:18:30 How'd you get to be so smart?
01:18:33 Don't change the subject
01:18:35 Well, when is this grieving phase
01:18:39 You want a day on a calendar
01:18:42 -Can you give me one?
01:18:45 Meditate and go to seva..
01:18:48 ...and most important, get your butt
01:18:51 ...and something'il change.
01:18:53 I just cannot get through the Guru Gita.
01:18:57 Okay. Devotion's love. Pick somebody
01:19:01 It doesn’t have to be the guru.
01:19:05 This is about you.
01:19:08 Can I tell you something, Groceries?
01:19:13 Is it obvious?
01:19:15 All right, Richard,
01:19:19 Shut the door.
01:19:23 -That's him?
01:19:26 -He's hideous.
01:19:31 He's a Sagittarius.
01:19:33 He studies computer programming
01:19:35 He has very good grades.
01:19:37 And his family is very, very wealthy
01:19:41 He will be very conceited
01:19:48 My life is over at 17.
01:19:56 Tulsi.
00:00:22 ...for their very first couples dance,
00:00:37 My people.
00:00:40 -Are you ready?
00:00:44 -You look beautiful.
00:00:46 I married a hottie.
00:00:51 -What is that? That's not our song.
00:00:54 Baby, that's not our song.
00:00:56 -Definitely not.
00:00:58 It's okay. I'm gonna go talk to the guy.
00:01:13 -I told you I'd get it.
00:02:13 I owe you a wedding gift.
00:02:20 I wanted to tell you I've bean...
00:02:23 ..dedicating my Guru Gita to you.
00:02:27 Imagining you happy
00:02:34 What did it look like...
00:02:36 ...when I was happy?
00:02:42 I imagine you and Rijul...
00:02:46 ...smiling and looking
00:02:50 ...with love and kindness.
00:02:53 It seemed very real.
00:02:58 Thank you so much, Liz.
00:03:01 That helps me to believe it as well.
00:03:21 Thinking about your own wedding?
00:03:24 Yeah, me too.
00:03:26 The funny thing about weddings,
00:03:31 Did you throw yourself a big shindig?
00:03:36 Yep. I arranged it all.
00:03:42 Yeah. And now
00:03:45 Honestly, I'm waiting for him
00:03:49 To release me.
00:03:51 Waiting for him to forgive you
00:03:54 Forgive yourself.
00:03:57 It's not that easy.
00:04:01 Yeah.
00:04:18 Good night, Richard.
00:04:20 -Follow me.
00:04:22 Get your butt up here.
00:04:51 It's not a pretty story...
00:04:54 ...but it's pretty classic.
00:04:57 Too much alcohol, too many drugs,
00:05:04 Just regret
00:05:09 Ocean of regret.
00:05:13 I lost everything
00:05:16 My pride, my job.
00:05:20 My family.
00:05:24 I lost my family.
00:05:38 One day after work, I stopped off
00:05:43 I was a lot like you, you know.
00:05:46 I was just-- I don't know.
00:05:51 I wanted to feel nothing.
00:05:57 I should've called a cab, but I didn't.
00:05:59 I just got in my car
00:06:06 My little boy....
00:06:13 He was 8 years old at the time.
00:06:20 He was sitting in the driveway with his little I-lot Wheels, waiting for his lost...
00:06:26 ...drunk, miserable dad...
00:06:29 ...to come home and play with him.
00:06:34 I didn't see him.
00:06:36 I didn't. I just roared into that driveway
00:06:43 But he-- No, he
00:06:47 He got out of the way.
00:06:54 He was used to getting out of the way
00:06:58 And I-- You know, I don't--
00:07:00 I don’t know.
00:07:02 Next day, I woke up
00:07:07 My wife had been watching
00:07:12 She just wasn't gonna....
00:07:16 She just wasn't gonna
00:07:20 So....
00:07:26 He's 18 now.
00:07:28 He's in school and,
00:07:37 God, he's so funny and he's
00:07:42 He's so sweet.
00:07:51 I missed it all'
00:07:53 I missed..,
00:07:57 ...my son's growing up. Just missed it.
00:08:13 Okay?
00:08:17 Come here.
00:08:27 Here's the deal.
00:08:29 You're gonna stay here
00:08:32 You hear me?
00:08:35 Everything else
00:08:39 Is this where you forgave yourself?
00:08:45 I'm trying, Elizabeth.
00:08:48 I am trying.
00:09:39 Hey.
00:09:43 I believe this is the song they were
00:10:23 I did love you, Stephen.
00:10:33 I know.
00:10:37 But I still love you.
00:10:49 So love me.
00:10:57 But I miss you.
00:11:02 So miss me.
00:11:06 Send me love and light
00:11:10 ...than drop it.
00:11:30 It won't last forever.
00:11:34 Nothing does.
00:11:56 - Bye-bye.
00:11:58 I'll see you.
00:12:01 Now that you're going,
00:12:04 Oh, I'd stay till a monsoon
00:12:08 But you've got bills to pay
00:12:11 You just keep doing the work
00:12:14 The man is getting on a plane
00:12:17 I've got your whole list: move on,
00:12:22 I don't know. There were some
00:12:30 Go back to Texas, Richard.
00:12:42 Well, I ain't getting
00:12:47 So I'm off.
00:12:58 Hey, Groceries.
00:13:01 Believe in love again.
00:13:26 Liz. Liz, I've just taken
00:13:29 I've done so well.
00:13:32 But it’s like a face lift because your face...
00:13:34 ...you know, just relaxes and your
00:13:39 We've got so much to catch up on.
00:13:44 Oh, golly. Good for you.
00:13:50 And your throat will look amazing
00:13:58 Excuse me, Elizabeth.
00:13:59 They're asking you to report
00:14:02 ...if you don't mind.
00:14:04 We're taking you off
00:14:06 There are about 50 devotees arriving
00:14:10 ...for a 10-day retreat and we'd
00:14:14 We ask that you don't take part
00:14:17 We need you to watch over the flock,
00:14:23 We call the person who does
00:14:27 You need to be social and bubbly
00:14:35 Madam...
00:14:37 ...I'm your girl.
00:14:54 So just End your suitcase,
00:14:57 ...and then head down the path
00:15:01 So the holy truth of the whole
00:15:06 God dwells within you as you.
00:15:10 God’s not interested
00:15:13 .4.of how a spiritual person
00:15:15 The quiet girl who glides silently
00:15:18 With a gentle, ethereal smile,
00:15:22 That’s In grid Bergman
00:15:27 God dwells within me as me.
00:16:40 Child tormented by demon.
00:16:49 It looks like teething.
00:16:51 Same thing.
00:16:57 Your turn.
00:17:04 Hello, Ketut.
00:17:06 I'm very happy to meet you.
00:17:09 You are a world traveler.
00:17:12 No, I came to see yo
00:17:15 -You girl from California?
00:17:19 Don't remember.
00:17:24 Well, you told me
00:17:27 You said I could help you
00:17:29 ...and you would teach me
00:17:35 You gave me this.
00:17:38 Okay
00:17:45 You. You. I remember you.
00:17:48 -Oh, good.
00:17:51 -Yes.
00:17:53 -I came back.
00:17:56 Me, me, me.
00:17:57 So long ago we meet
00:17:59 Last time, you have too much worry,
00:18:04 Last time,
00:18:08 Now you pretty.
00:18:11 -Why so different?
00:18:14 ...a lot of things, really.
00:18:16 But I was in Rome for four months,
00:18:19 ...and than I went to live
00:18:22 Now, we put together.
00:18:25 Exactly. That's why I'm here.
00:18:26 -Ketut good for that.
00:18:32 Do you still want me to help you
00:18:35 English later, Liss.
00:18:37 First, better idea.
00:18:45 How old are these?
00:18:47 From grandfather.
00:18:50 Also mantras, cures.
00:18:52 Thousand years' worth.
00:18:55 All I have, all I know, right here.
00:18:59 You copy for me?
00:19:00 Absolutely. I can go to town
00:19:02 No. You don't take.
00:19:07 You copy here, better, Liss.
00:19:10 I take a nap now. I vary old.
00:19:14 How old are you, Ketut?
00:19:16 One hundred and one...
00:19:18 ...or maybe 64.
00:19:21 Don't remember.
00:19:31 This is gonna take me
00:19:34 He make you pretty, find you husband,
00:19:38 That's exactly opposite
00:19:40 Everybody need husband.
00:19:48 Would you mind getting me water?
00:19:50 No.
00:19:52 Fine. Keep making copies.
00:20:10 So, Liz, the Balinese believe
00:20:14 And here we are
00:20:16 You got the one bedroom,
00:20:18 You got your own meditation temple.
00:20:20 I tell you, since the bombing,
00:20:23 ...so I can give you this place
00:20:27 Paradise.
00:20:31 -I'll take it.
00:20:34 ...in order to stay happy,
00:20:37 ...every moment.
00:20:39 Right here is perfect balance.
00:20:44 Not too much God,
00:20:47 Otherwise, life too crazy.
00:20:51 You lose balance, you lose power.
00:20:54 In morning,
00:20:58 Serious. Very serious.
00:21:00 In day, you enjoy Bali.
00:21:12 Then in afternoon, come see me.
00:21:22 End of day, you do new meditation
00:21:25 Very simple.
00:21:27 Sit in silence and smile.
00:21:31 I feel balanced already.
00:21:33 Not so easy, Liss.
00:21:35 Smile with face. Smile with mind.
00:21:39 Even smile in liver.
00:21:44 See you later, alligator.
00:23:00 Oh, God.
00:23:01 -Are you all right?
00:23:04 -Please, let me take you to a doctor.
00:23:12 It looks bad.
00:23:14 Very bad, Liss.
00:23:16 -What happen?
00:23:19 A man? He rich?
00:23:23 This very hot.
00:23:24 -You need healer.
00:23:28 -No. You need Wayan.
00:23:41 Jamu. Drink this.
00:23:51 She make you drink this?
00:23:53 -My name’s Liz. What’s yours?
00:23:56 Nice to meet you, Tutti.
00:23:58 -Are you married?
00:24:07 You sure? Not even once?
00:24:09 Okay, well,
00:24:11 ...but I find when I tell people in Bali
00:24:15 Me too, divorce.
00:24:18 Divorce make you sad
00:24:24 You have no sex
00:24:27 I can tell by your knee.
00:24:29 The cartilage very dry.
00:24:33 -Okay.
00:24:35 We sisters.
00:24:38 Armenia!
00:24:43 Armenia from Brazil.
00:24:44 Armenia, this is Liz from New York.
00:24:46 -Hi.
00:24:49 Time for a banana root
00:24:51 -Yes, of course.
00:24:54 Like Cher circa 1975.
00:24:59 Do you have a nice dress?
00:25:01 One.
00:25:02 Put it on tonight,
00:25:05 I'll introduce you to everyone.
00:25:08 You'll dance. You will love it.
00:25:10 Oh, no, I don’t think I can dance
00:25:13 Of course you can. Leg no problem.
00:25:16 You see.
00:25:18 Now you have to come.
00:26:13 Hi. Could I get a tequila on the rocks
00:26:17 Coming right up.
00:26:24 Can I buy you a drink?
00:26:26 No, thank you, I'm fine.
00:26:27 I-- I almost killed you.
00:26:30 I am sorry for that, really.
00:26:33 -Hello.
00:26:36 I'm sorry, really.
00:26:40 Yeah.
00:26:53 I'm sorry I'm laughing,
00:26:55 I was actually listening to this song
00:26:59 And I leaned over to fix it
00:27:03 -Did you tell them to play it?
00:27:08 Mostly Brazilian music.
00:27:09 But I'm also very much into
00:27:14 You really shouldn't
00:27:20 Liz!
00:27:22 -Hi.
00:27:27 Oh, of course. Two sad divorces.
00:27:35 I have the perfect man for you
00:27:38 Just a little love affair.
00:27:44 Isn't he charming? Ian.
00:27:47 Doesn't he look like Sting?
00:27:48 Oh, yeah.
00:27:57 You should dance with him.
00:28:45 Got you. Come on, I got you.
00:28:47 That's gonna hurt tomorrow.
00:28:49 All right. You know what?
00:28:52 -That is it. We are going swimming.
00:28:57 You don't have your-- You don't--
00:29:01 You're so naked.
00:29:02 Yeah, I'm naked.
00:29:06 Armenia says everyone
00:29:08 This is Bali. Everyone should have
00:29:12 Yeah, but--
00:29:13 Oh, God. No, no, no.
00:29:16 -Love affairs are awesome, dude.
00:29:18 I dated you 15 years ago.
00:29:20 And I dated you six months ago.
00:29:24 So I'm gonna go.
00:29:26 You're not-- You're really--
00:29:28 But you're cute.
00:29:33 I think I look good.
00:29:38 Wait a minute.
00:29:39 Oh, sorry. Here.
00:29:42 -Thank you.
00:29:45 That way I won't run you over again.
00:29:57 Hello.
00:29:59 -What time is it?
00:30:03 Oh, you party hard.
00:30:05 You really do.
00:30:07 Thank you for....
00:30:11 -The ride?
00:30:12 You're very welcome.
00:30:14 You keep it.
00:30:16 Keep it'? But it has a basket.
00:30:18 It also has a bell.
00:30:40 Good afternoon. How are you?
00:30:43 What are you doing here?
00:30:44 Well, I've brought you
00:30:48 "because you drank
00:30:51 And here it is.
00:30:56 ...and very tasty.
00:30:57 Do you make it a habit of
00:31:00 Do you make it a habit of
00:31:08 It's a call. Moment.
00:31:11 -Hello, darling. How are you?
00:31:14 Okay. I've told you 50 times.
00:31:17 You change the filter,
00:31:19 ...you add water and that's it.
00:31:22 -How do I make it like you?
00:31:25 ...darling, for 40 years, so you have
00:31:29 Okay. So, what's up with you?
00:31:33 -Nothing. I just can’t talk right now.
00:31:36 -I have to go.
00:31:38 -Jesus, she's hot.
00:31:41 ...I'll call back and embarrass you.
00:31:43 Dad, don't--
00:31:46 That's a lot of "darlings," darling.
00:31:49 Yeah. That darling was my son.
00:31:51 I've called all my children "darling"
00:31:54 Then there was a moment that
00:31:57 ...I was confused,
00:32:00 Okay, you need to rest.
00:32:02 Here is my number and my address.
00:32:04 I'm gonna leave it here on the table,
00:32:09 A tour guide.
00:32:11 And please, drink that up, because
00:32:15 Because you really look....
00:32:18 -Ravishing?
00:32:22 -Go away. Please.
00:32:25 It's gonna be helpful'
00:32:33 Hey, Mr. Tour Guide.
00:32:36 Can we start with a coffee?
00:32:41 Okay
00:32:43 What are these?
00:32:44 These are rambutan.
00:32:46 It's like an orange made love
00:32:50 When you put it that way,
00:32:53 Excuse me.
00:32:57 What is that?
00:32:59 No, no, no.
00:33:01 They taste like dirty feet.
00:33:03 -Really'?
00:33:04 They taste like feet.
00:33:06 Lock out. Nice.
00:33:09 I have 46 stamps on my passport.
00:33:14 I happen to have 49 stamps
00:33:18 -Forty-nine? I knew it.
00:33:20 -Knew what?
00:33:23 We are both antevasins, my dear.
00:33:26 What is that?
00:33:27 Antevasin is....
00:33:30 It's an in-between.
00:33:32 It is the one who lives
00:33:34 ...because they renounce
00:33:38 ...in order to seek "enlightment."
00:33:41 I like your word'
00:33:43 And I like the way
00:33:46 "Enlightment." I try.
00:33:47 You're missing a syllable,
00:33:51 It's beautiful, no?
00:33:53 It's Pura Melanting,
00:33:57 -Beautiful.
00:33:59 -50 next attraction of the tour?
00:34:02 -Food from Bali.
00:34:04 -Where should we go?
00:34:07 -Of course.
00:34:12 Subtle.
00:34:14 Did you always live in Brazil before you came to Bali?
00:34:17 No, no. Only for 20 years.
00:34:18 Then I met my wife
00:34:23 She traveled a lot
00:34:26 -And I stayed home with the children.
00:34:29 Yeah. Yeah. Didn't turn out to be
00:34:33 -What happened?
00:34:35 Well, the children were grown.
00:34:36 And I run an import-export jewelry
00:34:42 And Bali seemed like the perfect place
00:34:49 And here I am. Here I am.
00:34:52 -And you?
00:34:54 We were immature and really too
00:35:00 Hearts were broken.
00:35:02 Yes.
00:35:04 Then it's the same.
00:35:12 This is just perfect.
00:35:14 So are you.
00:35:16 You know what you are?
00:35:19 -You know what that is?
00:35:21 You are slender and elegant
00:35:25 ...but up close,
00:35:30 Thank God for Brazilians.
00:35:36 Stop that!
00:35:44 You are a world traveler.
00:35:46 He says that to everyone.
00:35:48 Already make your money.
00:35:51 You don't have young-man ambition.
00:35:54 -He's good.
00:35:59 Two. That's a callous.
00:36:04 And you have divorce.
00:36:06 Very difficult.
00:36:08 You loved her very much.
00:36:12 You haven't healed that wound.
00:36:14 Now you are scared to open your heart.
00:36:19 You are afraid
00:36:23 Only way to heal...
00:36:25 ...is to trust.
00:36:30 This okay. To have broken heart
00:36:38 Is it going to be broken again?
00:36:41 He a good man, Liz.
00:36:46 Thank you.
00:36:48 True. Ketut knows.
00:36:55 I am so sick of people telling me
00:36:58 You don’t need a man, Liz,
00:37:08 -Some spring break, huh?
00:37:11 His enthusiasm is exhausting.
00:37:13 Try being dropped off at school
00:37:16 ...and having your father
00:37:18 He still does it
00:37:20 I'm sure it's all normal in Brazil,
00:37:24 Friends would tease
00:37:26 Why didn't you ask him to stop?
00:37:27 No, I did at first,
00:37:30 ...how happy it made the old guy
00:37:33 You know what? My grandmother
00:37:38 ...but she's already dead.
00:37:41 Get him. Go get him.
00:37:44 How about you carry the packs
00:37:47 Come here. Look at this.
00:37:50 Is it nice?
00:37:52 Baby.
00:37:54 Bringing up the rear.
00:38:06 -50 have you slept with her yet?
00:38:09 Have you slept with her yet?
00:38:11 Crossing the line.
00:38:13 Dad, it's been 10 years. It's time.
00:38:29 Stay away from
00:38:31 They are dangerous.
00:38:39 -A week is too short.
00:38:40 -A week is too short
00:38:44 Listen, I've made you a mix tape.
00:38:48 And I give you a present. For you.
00:38:53 Thank you.
00:38:54 I'm missing you already.
00:39:05 Bye, Liz.
00:39:09 -Be safe.
00:39:14 So don't I get a kiss?
00:39:15 I don't know.
00:39:20 -I love you, Dad.
00:39:37 So stupid, I know.
00:39:40 He's 19 years old
00:39:47 It's sweet.
00:39:49 You're sweet.
00:41:25 Darling...
00:41:27 ...it's time.
00:42:22 -Liz.
00:42:23 Liz. Come here.
00:42:32 No. I should really,
00:42:36 Go, go. Do it.
00:42:45 You know, I have not been
00:42:48 -Really?
00:42:49 -Okay. Go, go.
00:42:55 Oh, gosh. But you are just
00:43:01 No, I have to go. I have to go.
00:43:13 Why?
00:43:27 You have bladder infection.
00:43:29 Common after no sex,
00:43:34 We haven't even been apart
00:43:43 You're afraid now, right?
00:43:46 I understand.
00:43:47 You don't want to lose yourself.
00:43:50 Love is scary, dangerous.
00:43:53 Happen to me.
00:43:56 I pray every day,
00:44:00 I have to get away from him.
00:44:03 This from where he hit me...
00:44:07 ...with motorcycle helmet.
00:44:09 And then my daughter...
00:44:12 ...she begged me to leave him.
00:44:15 Is that right, honey?
00:44:16 I said, "I think you should
00:44:19 She was 4 years old
00:44:28 Don't feel bad about Felipe.
00:44:31 Everybody needs affection, honey.
00:44:34 Make people do funny things.
00:44:36 Everyone gets like that
00:44:40 Want too much happiness
00:44:43 ...until make yourself sick.
00:44:47 Even to Wayan, this happen
00:44:51 I lose myself, Liz.
00:44:56 Dear friends and loved ones:
00:44:58 My birthday's coming up soon.
00:44:59 If I were home, I'd be planning
00:45:02 ...birthday party and you'd all be
00:45:06 A cheapen more lovely way
00:45:09 ...make a donation to help a healer
00:45:12 ...buy a house in Indonesia.
00:45:15 She's a single mother
00:45:18 ...a woman gets nothing,
00:45:21 To gain custody of her daughter, Tutti,
00:45:25 Maven her bath mat,
00:45:29 For years,
00:45:31 Each time, Wayan loses clientele
00:45:35 This little group of people in Bali
00:45:39 And we must take care of our families,
00:45:43 Today I saw Tutti playing with
00:45:47 ...near a hotel construction site.
00:45:49 Maybe if we have
00:45:52 ...it can have a pretty blue floor
00:45:56 When I was in Italy
00:45:58 It's "tutti"with double T.
00:46:00 --which in Italian means "everybody."
00:46:05 When you set out in the world
00:46:08 ...sometimes you end up
00:46:13 -Tell me again.
00:46:17 I brought you the e-mails to look at.
00:46:22 Oh, my God.
00:46:23 We get a house.
00:46:24 It can be the house for everybody!
00:46:30 I can have a pharmacy!
00:46:34 -All right. Oh, God.
00:46:37 Careful. You don't wanna
00:46:40 -Don't worry, but close your eyes.
00:46:43 You will see.
00:46:44 -You helped Wayan to get a
00:46:46 ...and we're going to celebrate
00:46:48 -Here, here, here.
00:46:50 -Turn, turn, turn.
00:46:53 Here you go.
00:46:56 We're going to take a little boat trip.
00:46:59 Where'?
00:47:00 Where? To a little island nearby.
00:47:03 It's my favorite place in the world.
00:47:07 We can stay there until next Tuesday.
00:47:12 Just you and I and 400 parrots.
00:47:19 Do you like it?
00:47:23 I was going to save it for tonight,
00:47:28 I have to be in Bali
00:47:31 ...and you have to be in New York...
00:47:32 ...because that’s
00:47:36 What if we tried to create a life that
00:47:45 Why would you wanna do that?
00:47:47 Because I'm in love with you.
00:47:55 -Let's go. Let's go.
00:47:58 -What?
00:48:01 -I just....
00:48:02 -I'm sorry. I can't
00:48:04 I can't go on a trip right now;
00:48:09 I haven't been home in five days.
00:48:13 -It's just too much.
00:48:18 To go...
00:48:20 ...by ourselves...
00:48:21 ...apart from everything else for
00:48:26 Liz, nao entendo.
00:48:29 I mean, I have the same fears,
00:48:33 ...and I show them to you.
00:48:35 But I guess the only difference
00:48:39 ...you are afraid to love again.
00:48:41 My darling, this is ii.
00:48:43 You have to look me in the eye
00:48:46 Please. Do you love me
00:48:54 Look me in the eyes and tell me...
00:48:56 ...do you love me or don't
00:49:00 I know you feel the same way.
00:49:03 I don't know why.
00:49:07 Why can't I?
00:49:08 Because you’re terrified, my love.
00:49:12 But I still want to get
00:49:15 -No. Okay, look. Look.
00:49:18 I don't know why
00:49:21 I found something
00:49:25 And trust me, if I did,
00:49:29 Okay, the balance thing. You traveled
00:49:33 And the balance that you think
00:49:36 Meditating for 20 minutes and
00:49:40 Listen, balance, my darling, balance
00:49:44 -...less than you love yourself.
00:49:47 Do not tell me what lessons I have
00:49:51 ...and don't tell me how balanced
00:49:53 ...and how I can't express myself.
00:49:56 And do not say "darling" to me again
00:50:00 Listen to me! I do not need to love you
00:50:11 Run away from me?
00:50:14 You are running away from all
00:50:23 I'm getting into that boat.
00:51:53 For you.
00:51:54 A goodbye gift.
00:52:05 Ketut.
00:52:17 Liss...
00:52:19 ...you healed me.
00:52:24 You healed me too, Ketut.
00:52:29 If it wasn't for you,
00:52:32 ...and I wouldn't have come back
00:52:35 You want coffee? Roast pig?
00:52:39 Coffee.
00:52:40 I get you coffee
00:52:42 You fly back to America soon?
00:52:44 In two hours.
00:52:46 Have you ever been on an airplane, Ketut?
00:52:49 Ketut cannot fly on aeroplane.
00:52:53 Ketut have no teethe
00:52:59 You are good friend to me.
00:53:02 You are like daughter.
00:53:05 When I die..I
00:53:07 ...you will come back to Bali?
00:53:12 Balinese cremation ceremony
00:53:15 -You will like it.
00:53:19 You still smile with your liver,
00:53:24 Yes.
00:53:25 You still meditate like your guru
00:53:29 -Yes.
00:53:32 -Yes.
00:53:42 I ended it.
00:53:46 Don't understand.
00:53:52 I couldn't keep my balance.
00:53:56 Liss, listen to Ketut.
00:54:01 Sometimes to lose balance
00:54:05 ...is part of living balanced life.
00:54:23 In the end...
00:54:25 ...I've come to believe in something
00:54:32 A force in nature governed bylaws
00:54:38 The rule of Quest Physics
00:54:41 If you're brave enough to leave behind
00:54:46 ...which can be anything from your
00:54:49 ...and set out
00:54:52 ..either externally or internally..
00:54:55 ...and if you are truly willing
00:54:58 ...that happens to you on that journey
00:55:01 ...and if you accept everyone you
00:55:10 Wand if you are prepared,
00:55:13 ...to face and forgive some
00:55:17 ...then the truth
00:55:20 Felipe?
00:55:34 I can? help but believe it,
00:56:10 I decided on my word.
00:56:21 It means:
00:56:24 "Let's cross over."
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