Grace Is Gone

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00:00:03 [phone rings]
00:00:08 [ring]
00:00:13 [ring]
00:00:18 [ring]
00:00:21 [Woman on answering machine]
00:00:23 Stanley, Heidi, and Dawn.
00:00:25 We're not home right now,
00:00:27 we'll get back to you
00:00:29 [beep]
00:00:30 Hi, everyone! It's Mom!
00:00:33 I just wanted to call
00:00:34 and tell you how much
00:00:37 Stan, I guess
00:00:40 Have you had a chance
00:00:42 I think it's a great idea.
00:00:46 God, it's hot here.
00:00:49 I'm not sure when I'm going
00:00:52 It might be a few days.
00:00:54 I just wanted to tell you
00:00:57 and I miss you.
00:01:00 Write me.
00:01:01 [beep]
00:01:06 Good morning.
00:01:07 - Good morning.
00:01:08 Let's huddle up.
00:01:14 Put it in.
00:01:16 Come on, Agnes.
00:01:18 All right, now give me an H!
00:01:19 - H!
00:01:20 - O!
00:01:21 - M!
00:01:22 - E!
00:01:23 - S!
00:01:24 - T!
00:01:26 O-R-E!
00:01:27 What's that spell?
00:01:28 Home Store!
00:01:29 - What's that spell?
00:01:30 - Who's number 1?
00:01:31 - Who's number 1?
00:01:33 - Who's number 1?
00:01:35 Hoo! Hoo! Hoo!
00:01:38 Go get 'em.
00:01:52 [Woman]
00:01:54 I don't usually go
00:01:57 But he's telling me
00:01:59 [chuckling]
00:02:03 and, uh, I can--
00:02:07 He's-- I can hear him.
00:02:10 [laughter]
00:02:11 You know, so we both--
00:02:12 we're-- we're both getting into it,
00:02:15 getting really--
00:02:17 muttering and talking,
00:02:19 and I'm just about to scream,
00:02:20 and-- and-- and--
00:02:24 [snicker]
00:02:25 It's pretty romantic, huh?
00:02:27 Oh, honey, don't worry.
00:02:29 Those won't be his last words.
00:02:31 You should consider yourself lucky.
00:02:33 Phone sex is nothing
00:02:34 compared to what Ron did to me
00:02:35 the night before he shipped.
00:02:37 I know, but it would
00:02:38 with a woman.
00:02:39 Oh, I wouldn't say that.
00:02:41 Well, you know, I've never had
00:02:44 Well, why don't we ask Stanley?
00:02:46 His wife did.
00:02:52 Uh, well, Stan?
00:02:59 Grace and I had a nice time.
00:03:02 Well, what did you do?
00:03:04 We put the kids to bed, you know.
00:03:09 Then we watched Leno.
00:03:11 You didn't--
00:03:14 That's really none
00:03:17 I'm sorry. It's--
00:03:19 Uh, I mean, it must
00:03:22 No, no, no.
00:03:23 [snickering]
00:03:25 [muttering]
00:03:32 I was proud to see her go.
00:03:36 Of course you were.
00:03:37 Mm-hmm.
00:03:39 - Of course you were.
00:03:41 [Woman]
00:03:42 I just want them to come home.
00:03:45 When is Ron supposed
00:03:47 January if his tour
00:03:49 Well, don't hold your breath.
00:03:50 They always extend.
00:03:52 Welcome to the Army, honey,
00:03:53 and my prescription medicine cabinet.
00:03:55 [Man on TV]
00:03:57 in the capital today,
00:03:58 killing at least four people,
00:03:59 and there have also been reports
00:04:01 of skirmishes between gunmen--
00:04:02 [TV shuts off]
00:04:12 What was that?
00:04:14 Nothing.
00:04:18 What were you watching?
00:04:21 Nothing.
00:04:22 Turn it back on.
00:04:28 W-What?
00:04:37 Not everyone is pleased
00:04:38 with the new order of things in Baghdad.
00:04:40 Thousands today demonstrated in front--
00:04:42 I'm sorry, Dad.
00:04:44 You better be.
00:04:45 ... the demonstration organized
00:04:46 by anti-occupation Shiites.
00:04:48 In a disturbing development
00:04:51 the Iranians--
00:04:53 ...raising new security concerns--
00:05:00 [clears throat]
00:05:07 What's this I hear about you
00:05:13 You know better than that.
00:05:14 I'm sorry.
00:05:16 We get plenty of sleep
00:05:17 There's no excuse for you
00:05:19 I know.
00:05:21 I'm not going to have
00:05:22 about this again, am l?
00:05:27 I didn't hear you.
00:05:28 No.
00:05:30 Good.
00:05:33 I want you to go
00:05:35 I want you to apologize,
00:05:36 I want you to ask for extra work
00:05:38 - But, Dad--
00:05:40 Dad, she's going to have
00:05:43 Mm-hmm.
00:05:44 And she's really grouchy right now.
00:05:46 Then you'd better ask her really nice.
00:05:48 Dad, l-- I can't just go up to her...
00:05:50 [beeping]
00:05:51 ...and ask her
00:05:53 Shh!
00:06:11 Thank you.
00:06:17 There we go.
00:06:20 [kiss]
00:06:24 All right now.
00:06:26 [kiss]
00:06:27 [Dawn]
00:06:50 [water running]
00:06:53 [doorbell rings]
00:07:00 [sighs]
00:07:04 [zip]
00:07:10 [Man]
00:07:15 Is your wife Grace Ann Phillips?
00:07:22 May we come inside, sir?
00:07:28 No.
00:07:30 Whatever you're gonna say, just say.
00:07:35 Mr. Phillips,
00:07:39 on behalf of
00:07:42 that Sergeant Grace Ann Phillips
00:07:44 was killed at 2100 hours
00:07:54 I was in the shower.
00:08:00 Mr. Phillips,
00:08:27 Mr. Phillips,
00:08:32 He lives on base,
00:08:33 and he'll be available to you
00:08:35 and your children at any time.
00:08:39 Would you like to pray
00:08:43 No.
00:08:47 Mr. Phillips, I'm going to need you
00:08:49 to sign this, please, sir.
00:08:52 It's just a form
00:08:53 stating you'll be at this address
00:08:55 for the next 45 days.
00:09:14 Is there somebody
00:09:16 while we wait here
00:09:19 No. Don't wait.
00:09:21 Don't wait.
00:09:22 Are you sure?
00:09:29 Captain Douglas Tamlin will be
00:09:35 He'll be stopping
00:09:37 with more details
00:09:40 concerning your wife's death.
00:09:42 Mr. Phillips, any man
00:09:45 shares in your grief.
00:09:47 Sergeant Phillips was a brave soldier.
00:09:50 She died serving the country she loved.
00:09:54 [voice fading]
00:10:22 [phone rings]
00:10:25 [ring]
00:10:27 [beep]
00:10:29 [Grace]
00:10:31 Heidi, and Dawn.
00:10:32 We're not home right now,
00:10:33 but if you leave a message,
00:10:35 we'll be back to you
00:10:37 [beep]
00:10:39 Hey, Mr. Phillips. It's Rick.
00:10:41 At the Home Store?
00:10:43 Just wondering if
00:10:46 Okay. Thanks.
00:10:47 [beep]
00:12:17 - Race you!
00:12:23 What's this?
00:12:38 Give me that.
00:12:44 Hi, girls.
00:12:47 What are you doing here?
00:12:48 Where'd you get that?
00:12:51 Someone left a casserole.
00:12:58 You okay?
00:13:05 Don't eat that.
00:13:06 - Why not?
00:13:09 Is something wrong?
00:13:12 Don't. Stop.
00:13:14 Stop. Stop, please.
00:13:25 Okay, girls, let's go
00:13:27 I want to talk to you.
00:13:37 Girls.
00:13:41 Yeah, Dad?
00:13:51 Hey, who's hungry?
00:13:53 - I do.
00:13:55 So what?
00:13:56 Shotgun!
00:13:58 You can't call shotgun
00:14:00 Race you.
00:14:04 Dad?
00:14:05 Go. Go, go, go, both of you.
00:14:07 Go, go, go, go, go.
00:14:27 [car radio]
00:14:28 # Hey, Dad, yeah #
00:14:30 # Hey, Dad, yeah #
00:14:31 # Shake your booty, no way #
00:14:33 # Shake your booty, okay #
00:14:35 # Jump jump #
00:14:40 - You go get a table...
00:14:41 ...and we'll go to the arcade.
00:14:43 - All right.
00:14:48 ## [dance]
00:15:29 ## [dance in distance]
00:15:35 ## [growing louder]
00:15:43 Okay, girls, we're going right now.
00:15:45 - Dad--
00:15:47 We just got here.
00:15:49 We were just getting into it.
00:15:50 I don't care. Just come on.
00:15:53 Heidi, move.
00:15:59 Where are we going?
00:16:00 Where would you like to go?
00:16:01 I don't know.
00:16:02 How about you, Dawn?
00:16:03 Is there any place
00:16:06 Enchanted Gardens.
00:16:07 Don't be a moron, Dawn.
00:16:09 I'm not. Daddy asked
00:16:11 That's not what he meant.
00:16:12 You don't know.
00:16:14 Yes, I do.
00:16:15 I don't care. I want to.
00:16:17 Stop it.
00:16:18 Stop it.
00:16:19 - Seriously.
00:16:20 Stop!
00:16:23 Oh, God.
00:16:26 Aah! Stop!
00:16:28 What if we did?
00:16:29 [groans]
00:16:31 What?
00:16:32 What if we did right now
00:16:33 went to Enchanted Gardens?
00:16:37 What if we did?
00:16:38 What?
00:16:39 Go to Enchanted Gardens
00:16:41 [Dawn]
00:16:43 [excited babbling]
00:16:45 Be quiet, be quiet.
00:16:47 [screaming]
00:16:48 Eww.
00:16:50 Huh? Would you like that?
00:16:51 We can't.
00:16:52 Is that's something
00:16:54 - Sit down, Dawn.
00:16:56 Girls, why not?
00:16:57 Dad-- Dad--
00:16:58 We have school.
00:16:59 You can miss
00:17:01 Yeah, Heidi.
00:17:02 - We can?
00:17:03 Of course we can. Right, Dad?
00:17:05 - Sure. Why not?
00:17:07 What about your job?
00:17:08 Don't worry about my job.
00:17:09 Don't worry about his job.
00:17:10 Dad--
00:17:12 Huh? Well?
00:17:14 What about homework?
00:17:15 Don't worry about your homework.
00:17:17 Don't worry about our homework.
00:17:18 We can do-- We can help you
00:17:21 Dawn and I can
00:17:24 Let's do it. Right now.
00:17:26 - Are you serious?
00:17:27 Of course he's serious.
00:17:28 Yeah. Why not? Let's go.
00:17:31 You got to get some fun
00:17:33 - Aah!
00:17:34 - Let's do it!
00:17:36 Let's do it! Do you guys
00:17:38 I do!
00:17:40 You party pooper!
00:17:42 Yes or no, Heidi, right now.
00:17:44 This is a one-time-only offer.
00:17:45 Enchanted Gardens right now.
00:17:47 - Right now, Heidi.
00:17:49 Do we have an atlas?
00:17:50 Let's do it!
00:17:51 Ahh!
00:17:53 [laughing]
00:19:26 [ringing]
00:19:30 [beep]
00:19:31 Hi. You've reached Grace, Stanley,
00:19:32 Heidi, and Dawn.
00:19:33 We're not home right now,
00:19:35 but if you leave a message,
00:19:36 we'll get back to you
00:19:39 [beep]
00:19:42 Hey.
00:19:46 Just wanted to let you know
00:19:52 We just decided to take a little trip.
00:19:55 We're having a really good time.
00:20:02 [beep]
00:20:09 [closes phone]
00:20:51 [Man on radio]
00:20:53 up to $300 under the new law.
00:20:55 There's a flood watch in
00:20:57 through tomorrow evening.
00:20:58 Tonight should be cloudy
00:21:01 Isolated thunders--
00:21:12 Good morning.
00:21:14 Good morning.
00:21:28 Where are we?
00:21:32 I'm not entirely sure.
00:21:36 We should call school
00:21:37 and tell them we're
00:21:39 Let's think of something
00:21:44 Can you do that?
00:21:47 What's that?
00:21:49 What's that? What is that?
00:21:51 Supposed to be an answer
00:21:53 Huh? Huh? No?
00:21:55 No.
00:21:56 Well, let's try that again.
00:21:58 Come on. Can we think
00:22:00 that we want to do today?
00:22:02 No.
00:22:04 No? Why not?
00:22:07 We've talked about it
00:22:09 So?
00:22:10 So now there's
00:22:13 Too much pressure?
00:22:27 What are you doing?
00:22:29 You cannot just drive into this field.
00:22:31 Oh, yes, I can.
00:22:33 Dad, what
00:22:35 I'm doing doughnuts.
00:22:38 We're going to get in trouble.
00:22:40 - No, no, we're not.
00:22:41 No, the birds fly out of the way.
00:22:44 What the heck are we doing?
00:22:45 Hey! Good morning, Dawn!
00:22:47 Are we on a road?
00:22:49 Nope.
00:22:50 Cool!
00:22:51 Fun, isn't it?
00:22:53 Yeah!
00:22:54 I used to do this all the time
00:22:56 when I was a teenager.
00:22:57 - Why?
00:22:59 Why? I don't know.
00:23:01 Why would you do this?
00:23:03 I don't know. I guess
00:23:06 [Dawn squeals]
00:23:07 I didn't put a ton of thought
00:23:09 when I was a kid, Heidi.
00:23:11 All right. Let's go.
00:23:15 [Dawn]
00:23:16 [Stanley]
00:23:19 Whew!
00:23:23 - [Dawn] Dad?
00:23:25 Are we really going
00:23:27 Of course we are. Why?
00:23:29 I just wanted to make sure.
00:23:30 Okay.
00:23:32 - Dad?
00:23:33 Can we get a monkey?
00:23:34 No.
00:23:35 What if it's really little?
00:23:36 Like littler than a puppy.
00:23:38 Still no.
00:23:40 Can we get a pony?
00:23:41 No.
00:23:42 An iPod?
00:23:43 No.
00:23:45 - Dad?
00:23:46 Can we get our ears pierced?
00:23:48 No. Not till you're 13.
00:23:51 Dad?
00:23:52 [Heidi]
00:23:53 What? Do I hear something?
00:23:54 - Dawn!
00:23:56 Dawn!
00:23:57 ...at all, no, no.
00:23:58 Be quiet!
00:23:59 Girls, come on.
00:24:00 I got a surprise for you.
00:24:02 What is it?
00:24:03 We're going to stop
00:24:17 I can get in around back.
00:24:31 [1930s cartoon music on TV]
00:24:39 [snoring]
00:24:43 My lamp.
00:24:45 [sultan laughs]
00:24:49 So you want to marry
00:24:51 [Aladdin]
00:25:03 Hey.
00:25:04 Hey, Uncle John.
00:25:06 What are you guys doing here?
00:25:09 Oh, hey, don't--
00:25:11 I think I have bad breath.
00:25:18 [villain in cartoon]
00:25:28 Is your dad here?
00:25:36 Can I help you?
00:25:41 John, what are you doing here?
00:25:43 What are you doing here?
00:25:44 Trying to find a way in.
00:25:46 What, the front door
00:25:49 Open the door, man.
00:25:54 Hey, bro.
00:25:55 How are you, man?
00:25:56 I'm good, man.
00:25:57 How you doing?
00:25:59 Come on in.
00:26:02 So what have you
00:26:05 I'm studying to take the GRE.
00:26:08 Good. You going back to school?
00:26:10 I'm thinking about it, yeah.
00:26:12 That's great. What for?
00:26:13 Law. Or medicine.
00:26:17 Oh.
00:26:20 That's great.
00:26:21 What's new with you?
00:26:23 Not much.
00:26:27 You all right?
00:26:29 What do you mean, am l--
00:26:32 You're not upset?
00:26:34 About what?
00:26:36 Uh, I don't know.
00:26:39 The situation's such a mess.
00:26:42 The situation? What situation?
00:26:44 What situation?
00:26:45 I mean, it sounds like
00:26:48 Watch your language.
00:26:49 Sorry. Sorry.
00:26:58 You don't know what
00:27:01 Who does?
00:27:02 I mean, they'll tell you
00:27:05 if it serves their cause.
00:27:07 And how about that monkey boy
00:27:12 He's your president, too.
00:27:14 I didn't vote for him.
00:27:15 You didn't vote at all, did you?
00:27:17 That's-- That's not the point.
00:27:19 Isn't it?
00:27:21 Just...
00:27:23 stop talking.
00:27:25 Let's not have that
00:27:26 You'd like that, wouldn't you?
00:27:28 That's what your side's
00:27:29 Censoring dissent?
00:27:30 Stop.
00:27:32 Why? I mean, we're just talking.
00:27:34 Are you afraid of talking?
00:27:35 No, I'm not afraid of that at all.
00:27:37 I just don't want to confuse the girls.
00:27:39 I'm sure they're already confused.
00:27:40 I mean...
00:27:42 really, what do you
00:27:45 Do you have an opinion?
00:27:51 They think their mom's a hero,
00:27:52 and they think it's easy
00:27:54 when you're sitting
00:27:56 thinking about
00:27:59 maybe law, maybe med--
00:28:00 They think every one
00:28:03 is a freedom that their mother
00:28:05 on your behalf.
00:28:07 That's what they think.
00:28:11 Well, it's-- it's good to see
00:28:13 that you let them
00:28:20 You girls hungry?
00:28:25 You think your dad
00:28:30 It's 4:30, man.
00:28:32 You think your dad
00:28:37 Want to buy Uncle John dinner?
00:28:40 You don't want to come?
00:28:41 No, I think I'm just
00:28:45 take a little cat nap.
00:28:51 You're bigger than
00:28:53 How old are you now?
00:28:54 Dawn's 8. I'm 12 1/2.
00:28:57 Wow.
00:28:58 How old are you?
00:29:00 32.
00:29:02 Bet that sounds
00:29:05 Do you have a job?
00:29:07 Why? Are you hiring?
00:29:09 No.
00:29:16 Hey, how come you kids
00:29:18 Dad's taking us
00:29:20 - Why?
00:29:22 You think that place is fun?
00:29:24 What do you mean?
00:29:25 Nothing.
00:29:29 Uncle John?
00:29:30 Yeah.
00:29:32 Why did Dad quit the Army?
00:29:34 He didn't quit.
00:29:37 What do you mean?
00:29:39 He had to leave
00:29:41 The Army's strict
00:29:42 But weren't his eyes always bad?
00:29:45 Mm, more or less.
00:29:47 Well, if they're so strict,
00:29:48 how'd he get in in the first place?
00:29:54 He didn't tell you?
00:29:58 Oh, Christ.
00:30:02 Ahem.
00:30:03 Well, if he didn't tell you,
00:30:05 he probably wouldn't
00:30:12 All right, you promise not
00:30:19 He cheated.
00:30:27 How?
00:30:28 He had a buddy take a picture
00:30:31 of the physical examiner's eye chart.
00:30:32 Memorized the letters.
00:30:34 What?
00:30:36 Your dad wanted
00:30:39 I mean, he really bought
00:30:42 all that patriotic "l Want You" crap.
00:30:49 Which was a good thing, too,
00:30:51 because he never would have
00:30:56 [Heidi] Well, how'd the Army
00:30:59 Eventually they just gave him
00:31:03 and that was that.
00:31:07 End of the dream.
00:31:35 [sobbing]
00:32:06 Why don't you and Dad
00:32:09 Did your dad tell you that?
00:32:14 Well, we're just--
00:32:18 We have different opinions.
00:32:19 Doesn't mean we don't
00:32:21 I mean, do you agree
00:32:27 You shouldn't.
00:32:29 Why not?
00:32:31 Because it's important
00:32:33 that people have their own views
00:32:35 based on an understanding of facts.
00:32:38 Ahem.
00:32:39 But it's also important
00:32:42 because most of them are lies.
00:32:43 I don't understand.
00:32:45 Well, it basically comes down to a...
00:32:50 gut thing.
00:32:52 You just have to be
00:32:56 for a truth which differs
00:33:00 or else you'll never actually
00:33:04 [beeping]
00:33:14 [whispering]
00:33:15 It's her time of day.
00:33:18 What, it's-- it's her time of day?
00:33:24 Mom and Dawn
00:33:27 at the same time every day.
00:33:29 That way, they know
00:33:31 that they're both
00:33:32 at the same moment.
00:33:52 Girls?
00:33:53 Yeah?
00:33:54 Yeah?
00:33:58 Do you...
00:34:01 want to play tag?
00:34:03 Sure.
00:34:05 That's good because...
00:34:07 you know why?
00:34:09 Why?
00:34:13 Because, uh, you're it.
00:34:14 You're it.
00:34:15 Woo hoo hoo hoo hoo!
00:34:16 You're it. Time out.
00:34:18 What do you mean time out?
00:34:19 You can't call time out.
00:34:22 That is so lame.
00:34:25 All right. I'm just going to read the paper
00:34:27 [Heidi, Dawn]
00:34:36 You know, I mean,
00:34:37 I'm the victim of this kind
00:34:40 and you know why?
00:34:41 It's because
00:34:43 and I have to pay for it.
00:34:44 Mm-hmm.
00:34:56 - Ha!
00:35:03 [phone rings]
00:35:05 [knocking]
00:35:06 Hey, the phone's ringing.
00:35:09 [ring]
00:35:15 [ring]
00:35:17 Hello.
00:35:19 Yeah, this is John.
00:35:22 Oh, hey, Mary.
00:35:45 What the hell
00:35:49 What's wrong?
00:35:51 The girls are fine.
00:35:56 Stan, I just talked to Mary.
00:35:57 I know what's going on.
00:36:13 Do the girls know?
00:36:14 No.
00:36:19 That's good.
00:36:21 We got to go.
00:36:23 We got to go.
00:36:25 Stan, what are you doing to them?
00:36:27 I'm taking them on a trip.
00:36:30 Just stay out of it.
00:36:31 Stay out of it?
00:36:32 You're the one
00:36:34 I didn't bring you into anything.
00:36:35 You were just here. I didn't plan that.
00:36:37 Do you really think
00:36:38 that-- that-- that taking
00:36:41 is going to help them get
00:36:43 - Just stay out of it.
00:36:46 Is that what you want to do?
00:36:47 - Get out of my way.
00:36:48 Get out of my way!
00:36:50 Nobody asked you!
00:37:12 I got to go.
00:37:14 Don't you want to wait for Mom?
00:37:16 No.
00:37:17 We're on a schedule.
00:37:19 Stan...
00:37:20 please stay and wait for Mom
00:37:23 because we can talk
00:37:26 No.
00:37:29 It was nice seeing you
00:37:32 I got to go. Okay?
00:37:34 Girls!
00:37:37 Girls, get your stuff together!
00:37:43 Girls!
00:37:47 - Come on. Get up.
00:37:49 Okay. Come on.
00:37:51 - Why?
00:37:52 - We got to go right now.
00:37:53 I thought we were going
00:37:55 We're going
00:37:56 - Get in the goddamn car.
00:37:59 What about Uncle John?
00:38:01 What about Uncle John?
00:38:02 We didn't get to say good-bye.
00:38:07 You'll see him again.
00:38:24 [Dawn]
00:38:27 No, Dawn. We already did that.
00:38:29 Why not?
00:38:30 Because we already did it.
00:38:31 So?
00:38:32 So we ought to do something else.
00:38:34 Seems like we've been driving forever.
00:38:36 Well, it's going to be forever
00:38:41 You're kind of quiet back there, Heidi.
00:38:43 What are you doing?
00:38:45 Just working on my report.
00:38:49 What's your report about?
00:38:51 Mom.
00:38:53 Whose idea was that?
00:38:55 Mrs. Shimerhorn's.
00:38:56 Mrs. Shimerhorn's.
00:38:59 Why does she think
00:39:01 Because she thought
00:39:03 Help with what?
00:39:05 I don't know. You know how
00:39:08 No. How do they get?
00:39:13 Like serious.
00:39:31 [Dawn]
00:39:32 I call bed.
00:39:33 Not if I get there first!
00:39:37 Oh!
00:39:41 Dad, this is so fun.
00:39:45 I'm going to go get a cot.
00:39:46 Okely-dokely, artichokey.
00:39:54 I have to poop.
00:39:55 You don't have to tell me
00:40:02 There's free shampoo
00:40:06 Hey, what are bath salts?
00:40:08 [Woman]
00:40:09 Mrs. Fissel?
00:40:11 Yes.
00:40:12 Hi. This is Heidi Phillips.
00:40:13 I was calling to tell you
00:40:15 that my sister and l
00:40:17 a couple of school days this week.
00:40:19 Oh, that's okay, Heidi.
00:40:21 We're not sick or anything.
00:40:23 We're just taking a trip.
00:40:26 For fun?
00:40:27 Oh, Heidi, I understand.
00:40:29 I was wondering if you
00:40:32 e-mail our dad our homework.
00:40:34 Of course, sweetheart.
00:40:35 Is Mrs. Shimerhorn there?
00:40:37 Mrs. Shimerhorn is in the hospital.
00:40:39 Why?
00:40:41 She's actually having her baby.
00:40:42 Oh, she is?
00:40:44 Yeah, and Miss Abrams
00:40:46 for the rest of the year.
00:40:48 Oh. Can you ask her
00:40:50 if my report is late?
00:40:52 Mrs. Shimerhorn said
00:40:54 I'm sure it's fine, Heidi, okay?
00:40:56 I'll see you soon.
00:40:57 Okay.
00:40:58 Bye, sweetheart.
00:40:59 Bye.
00:41:02 [Dawn]
00:41:04 Mrs. Fissel.
00:41:06 What did you call her for?
00:41:08 I was trying
00:41:10 Heidi!
00:41:12 She was really nice.
00:41:14 [toilet flushes]
00:41:16 That's cool.
00:41:18 Bang-bang!
00:41:20 Come on, Heidi, do your thing!
00:41:21 Say woo!
00:41:26 What?
00:41:32 [sprays water
00:41:33 Got you.
00:41:39 Marco.
00:41:41 [Dawn]
00:41:42 [Heidi]
00:41:43 Polo.
00:41:44 - Marco.
00:41:45 - Marco.
00:41:47 Count how long
00:41:49 Okay.
00:41:54 Yeah.
00:41:58 Dad, watch this.
00:42:01 That's good.
00:42:07 This is a long time.
00:42:09 It's like five days.
00:42:15 [gasp]
00:42:16 Aah!
00:42:17 That was good.
00:42:18 - Yaah!
00:42:20 - [Stanley] That was about, like,
00:42:22 I don't know, two minutes?
00:42:24 [Dawn]
00:42:25 [Heidi]
00:42:26 [Stanley]
00:42:47 Dad?
00:42:49 Yeah.
00:42:53 What's going on?
00:42:55 What do you mean?
00:42:58 Why are we doing all this?
00:43:03 I just wanted to give you girls
00:43:06 Take you on a trip.
00:43:08 You didn't go to work
00:43:13 No, I didn't go to work.
00:43:18 Were you fired?
00:43:25 You know Mom's
00:43:26 if you lose your job, right?
00:43:29 I didn't lose my job, Heidi.
00:43:32 Okay?
00:43:34 But if you were going to,
00:43:38 Yeah, I would tell you.
00:43:52 I'm going to go to sleep.
00:45:10 What are you doing?
00:45:12 Nothing.
00:45:14 You're not old enough to smoke.
00:45:16 I'm 18.
00:45:17 No, you're not.
00:45:20 Want to bet?
00:45:23 I saw you with your mom at the pool.
00:45:26 That wasn't my mom.
00:45:28 Oh, yeah? Who was it?
00:45:30 It was an autistic woman.
00:45:31 I take care of her for money.
00:45:34 You shouldn't lie.
00:45:36 I'm not lying. It's the truth.
00:45:39 How old are you?
00:45:42 18.
00:45:43 Want one?
00:45:46 Sure.
00:45:54 Heidi?
00:45:59 Heidi?
00:46:08 Heidi!
00:46:17 [cough]
00:46:22 Why are you coughing?
00:46:23 You haven't even smoked it yet.
00:46:32 I knew you'd never smoked before.
00:46:34 [Stanley]
00:46:41 Get your stuff.
00:46:43 - Now?
00:46:45 It's in the middle of the night.
00:46:46 You arguing with me? Move.
00:46:52 Jesus, Heidi,
00:46:53 you can't just walk around
00:46:54 in the middle of the night
00:46:56 You could have been hurt,
00:46:58 I said I was sorry.
00:46:59 All right, but what
00:47:01 what the hell you were doing
00:47:05 Make me leave your sister alone
00:47:06 in...some hotel.
00:47:11 I couldn't sleep.
00:47:13 You couldn't sleep? Why not?
00:47:15 Why do you think?
00:47:22 Is that why you're falling
00:47:29 Oh, boy.
00:47:33 What do you do every night?
00:47:36 I don't know.
00:47:40 Walk around.
00:47:45 I went to a support group
00:47:50 What?
00:47:52 You know, the one they got
00:47:56 For military wives.
00:47:57 I stopped by there the other day.
00:47:59 Isn't that weird?
00:48:03 What did you talk about?
00:48:06 Uh-uh. No.
00:48:07 I didn't.
00:48:13 Did it help?
00:48:16 I don't know.
00:48:17 I don't think it did.
00:48:22 Will you do me a favor
00:48:24 Um, will you wake me up?
00:48:28 Why?
00:48:29 So I can talk to you.
00:48:32 Really?
00:48:33 Yeah.
00:48:36 You'd do that?
00:48:37 Yes, I would do that.
00:48:39 Yes.
00:48:54 [Stanley]
00:48:56 With you?
00:48:58 Yeah. I'd rather
00:48:59 than some punk kid.
00:49:01 Well? What's it going to be?
00:49:03 Sure.
00:49:05 Have you ever done this before?
00:49:08 No comment.
00:49:36 Do you want one,
00:49:39 Let's split one.
00:49:40 Good idea.
00:49:52 [cough]
00:50:08 Good one.
00:50:16 [coughing]
00:50:17 Oh, are you okay?
00:50:19 Yeah.
00:50:20 [coughing]
00:50:21 Are you sure?
00:50:22 [coughing]
00:50:24 Yeah, I'm fine.
00:50:25 Okay.
00:50:26 [coughing]
00:50:27 Maybe we should stop, right?
00:50:33 I'm going to go get some water.
00:50:34 You stay here, okay?
00:50:35 [coughing]
00:50:40 [coughing]
00:50:57 ## [guitar]
00:51:16 # The world could fall apart #
00:51:20 # But you're my heart, my dear #
00:51:28 # I will sing this song #
00:51:31 # Till we are gone, my dear #
00:51:39 # How do I keep you
00:51:44 # Hope you'll go out #
00:51:46 # And you'll come back some day #
00:51:50 # But love is not enough #
00:51:55 # This I know #
00:51:57 Stay together.
00:51:58 - I just got to make a phone call.
00:52:00 I'll meet you by the dresses.
00:52:13 [dialing]
00:52:21 Hey.
00:52:22 Hey, Dad.
00:52:24 What are those?
00:52:25 Earrings.
00:52:27 Oh, no.
00:52:29 You said we could get
00:52:32 You know the rules.
00:52:34 I'm almost 13.
00:52:35 And I'm 8.
00:52:38 This is something
00:52:41 Yes.
00:52:47 All right. Let's do it.
00:52:49 Okay!
00:52:50 Really?
00:52:51 Yeah.
00:52:53 Is it going to hurt?
00:52:54 You won't even feel
00:52:57 - You ready?
00:53:00 Did it hurt?
00:53:02 No.
00:53:03 - Excuse me.
00:53:04 That's okay.
00:53:09 Is that it?
00:53:11 That's it. Want to see?
00:53:18 Looks good, Bear.
00:53:25 - You next?
00:53:36 1, 2, 3.
00:53:43 Is that all right?
00:53:57 [Stanley]
00:54:02 I just got my ears pierced.
00:54:07 That's nice, sweetie.
00:54:15 That looks good.
00:54:17 This one's nice, too.
00:54:22 Did it hurt?
00:54:24 A little.
00:54:25 A little bit?
00:54:26 You did it.
00:54:35 Where's Dawn?
00:54:36 Find her. How much
00:54:38 Oh. 32.50.
00:54:39 - [Heidi] Dawn?
00:54:40 Dawn!
00:54:48 Dawn?
00:54:50 Dawn?
00:54:56 Dawn!
00:54:58 Bear, where are you?
00:55:04 Dawn! Bear!
00:55:06 Dawn Amber Phillips!
00:55:12 See if she's over there.
00:55:17 Bear.
00:55:29 Dawn, honey, what are you
00:55:32 Dawn, are you all right?
00:55:36 Dawn.
00:55:47 Anybody home?
00:55:55 [Dawn]
00:56:10 Hey.
00:56:11 Hey.
00:56:13 [Stanley]
00:56:14 This really is.
00:56:15 You decorate it yourself?
00:56:17 No.
00:56:19 Well, it's really, really nice.
00:56:22 It's a nice little house.
00:56:25 Nice walls, nice-- nice roof.
00:56:30 Phone.
00:56:32 I could see a nice little
00:56:35 Yeah.
00:56:41 You miss home.
00:56:43 Yeah.
00:56:48 I miss Mom, too.
00:56:58 You know, I was thinking.
00:56:59 Maybe this would be a good thing
00:57:01 to get for the house.
00:57:02 You could put it up
00:57:03 in you and your sister's room.
00:57:06 Would you like that?
00:57:08 Mm-hmm.
00:57:17 I love you, Dad.
00:57:19 I love you, too, Bear.
00:57:39 Come here.
00:57:47 [Heidi]
00:57:49 Yeah.
00:57:52 You smell.
00:57:54 I think I like this one.
00:57:56 Try it.
00:58:10 Looks pretty nice.
00:58:19 [Dawn]
00:58:20 Yeah.
00:58:21 What do you do at work all day?
00:58:23 I sell shit.
00:58:25 [Heidi]
00:58:26 I'm sorry.
00:58:27 I sell stuff.
00:58:28 You know what I do.
00:58:29 I sell stuff at Home Store.
00:58:31 Come on. Give me an H.
00:58:33 [Dawn]
00:58:34 Give me an O.
00:58:36 - O.
00:58:37 - Give me an M.
00:58:38 - Give me an E.
00:58:39 Give me an S.
00:58:40 - [Heidi] J.
00:58:41 - Give me a T.
00:58:43 Give me an O-R-E.
00:58:44 O-R-E.
00:58:45 What's that spell?
00:58:47 [Heidi]
00:58:48 You're right about that.
00:58:50 #...hold you in my arms #
00:58:53 # It scares me #
00:58:55 # Just to think that
00:59:00 # Could just come apart in my hands #
00:59:07 # I've always been chasin' rainbows #
00:59:15 How are you feeling, excited?
00:59:16 You getting excited?
00:59:18 Yeah.
00:59:19 Good.
00:59:21 How are you feeling?
00:59:22 I'm good.
00:59:29 Dad?
00:59:30 Hmm?
00:59:33 Do you ever think
00:59:35 that Mom should have stayed home?
00:59:39 All the time.
00:59:43 Why did she have to go?
00:59:49 She was doing her duty,
00:59:52 I know, but what exactly
00:59:54 We've talked about this.
00:59:58 We have people all over the world
00:59:59 Iooking out for our safety.
01:00:01 When they discover a threat,
01:00:03 they have to act on it.
01:00:04 That's the way the world is.
01:00:06 On the news they're saying
01:00:08 that we went to war
01:00:09 that it was all a lie.
01:00:11 Well, you can't always believe
01:00:12 everything you hear
01:00:16 Sometimes you just got to trust
01:00:18 that you're doing the right thing.
01:00:19 We got to believe--
01:00:27 Well, what if you can't?
01:00:33 Then we're all lost.
01:01:34 [ring]
01:01:37 [ring]
01:01:40 [Grace]
01:01:43 Heidi, and Dawn.
01:01:44 We're not home right now,
01:01:45 but if you leave a message,
01:01:47 we'll get back to you
01:01:49 Hey. It's Stanley and the girls.
01:01:52 I just wanted to hear
01:01:54 and tell you that we're all right.
01:01:57 We're in Florida.
01:01:58 I told you we were
01:02:01 Taking the girls on a little trip.
01:02:04 Anyway, do you
01:02:06 I was thinking that when we--
01:02:08 when we came down here
01:02:11 and I just--
01:02:15 because, uh--
01:02:17 because I was so angry back then,
01:02:19 and, uh, I just wanted to let you know
01:02:22 I was thinking that--
01:02:23 that the reason I was so angry
01:02:26 was because I was ashamed...
01:02:30 that it was you
01:02:33 We would have been
01:02:36 The girls would have
01:02:38 And I made such a fucking
01:02:41 Grace, I'm such a mess.
01:02:44 I-- I don't...
01:02:47 know how to talk to these girls.
01:02:51 I haven't even told them.
01:02:55 So you got to tell me
01:03:02 Please, God, tell me what to do.
01:03:04 So how do I say it?
01:03:09 [whispering]
01:03:17 Who were you talking to?
01:03:18 School.
01:03:20 Mrs. Shimerhorn.
01:03:22 Mrs. Shimerhorn?
01:03:24 She said everything's
01:03:25 but we got to get that report in
01:03:27 and do a couple
01:03:30 but, uh, to enjoy the trip.
01:03:31 So let's go.
01:03:32 Come on.
01:03:33 Load up!
01:03:57 - [Dawn] Are we there yet?
01:03:59 - Are we there yet?
01:04:00 - Are we there yet?
01:04:02 - Are we there yet?
01:04:03 - Are we there yet?
01:04:04 - Are we there yet?
01:04:05 Are we there yet?
01:04:06 No.
01:04:07 - Are we there yet?
01:04:09 Are we there yet?
01:04:10 No!
01:04:11 Are we there yet?
01:04:14 How about now?
01:04:18 [gasp]
01:04:19 Oh, it's right there!
01:04:20 It's right there!
01:04:23 Step on it, old man!
01:04:26 There it is, Heidi!
01:04:29 It's right there!
01:04:32 What ride do you
01:04:34 Mission accomplished.
01:04:41 I wonder if they have a TV there.
01:04:43 They probably do.
01:04:56 It's all yours.
01:04:59 Welcome to the Enchanted Hotel.
01:05:05 Enchanted Gardens!
01:05:07 Enchanted Gardens!
01:05:09 Enchanted Gardens!
01:05:11 [squealing]
01:05:27 All right, girls.
01:05:28 Uh, just don't stay up
01:05:31 - Okay, Dad.
01:05:32 We got to get some sleep
01:05:34 because we've got
01:05:35 Okay.
01:05:40 Big day.
01:05:44 [whispering]
01:05:48 Okay.
01:05:56 [TV sound louder]
01:06:01 "We can, we must,
01:06:03 "and we will see it
01:06:06 "the mission for which
01:06:08 "and their families have sacrificed,
01:06:10 "carrying with us the memory
01:06:12 "of those who have lost their lives
01:06:13 "in the battle.
01:06:15 "We ask our commanders
01:06:17 "at every opportunity
01:06:19 "if there's something we ought
01:06:21 "In our 200-plus years,
01:06:25 "America has learned
01:06:29 "and one is that weakness
01:06:32 "It tempts aggression.
01:06:35 That appeasement is--"
01:06:36 [ring]
01:06:41 Hey. It's Stanley and the girls.
01:06:43 I just wanted to hear
01:06:46 and tell you that we're all right.
01:06:48 We're in Florida.
01:06:50 I told you we were
01:06:52 Taking the girls on a little trip.
01:06:55 Anyway, do you remember that, uh--
01:06:58 I was thinking that when we--
01:06:59 when we came down here
01:07:04 and I just thought
01:07:06 because, uh--
01:07:08 because I was so angry back then,
01:07:10 and, uh, I just
01:07:13 I was thinking that--
01:07:14 that the reason
01:07:17 was because I was ashamed...
01:08:15 - Hey.
01:08:30 You look like you're ready to go.
01:08:31 I am.
01:08:33 Oh, that dress looks pretty.
01:08:35 Thanks.
01:08:36 Where's your sister?
01:08:37 Outside.
01:08:39 Outside doing what?
01:08:41 I don't know.
01:08:44 Oh, right.
01:08:46 Ooh.
01:08:51 Okay.
01:08:52 ## [humming]
01:08:57 ## [humming]
01:09:12 What are you doing
01:09:23 You all right, sweetheart?
01:09:26 Yeah. How are you?
01:09:29 Me? I'm just fine.
01:09:33 Just fine.
01:09:34 Slept like a rock,
01:09:37 which is good.
01:09:40 You know your sister's
01:09:43 she's so excited.
01:09:47 What do you think?
01:09:49 Sure. Sure.
01:09:54 Dad?
01:09:55 Yeah.
01:09:59 Nothing.
01:10:22 Have an enchanted day.
01:10:33 This way...
01:10:34 or this way?
01:10:41 [all laughing]
01:10:53 Aah!
01:10:56 Aah!
01:10:58 Aah!
01:11:20 Do you want this balloon?
01:11:21 Yeah. I like blue.
01:11:23 I don't know.
01:11:24 This is a powerful balloon.
01:11:25 I don't know if l
01:11:27 Whoa!
01:11:28 That's a big balloon.
01:11:29 Heidi, Heidi,
01:11:31 Hold your sister down.
01:11:32 Hold her. Hold her.
01:11:33 The wind's going
01:11:37 [no audible dialogue]
01:12:35 What do you want to do now?
01:12:38 Let's go.
01:12:40 Yeah.
01:12:44 You want to leave?
01:12:47 I did everything
01:12:55 Okay.
01:12:59 Come on.
01:14:15 Why aren't we on the highway?
01:14:32 Let's get out of the car.
01:14:53 Sit down.
01:15:14 I need to tell you something...
01:15:19 and it's something I should
01:15:27 You know your mother and l
01:15:30 Dawn.
01:15:33 Yeah.
01:15:34 Nothing's ever
01:15:36 Ever.
01:15:43 Do you remember
01:15:46 that could happen
01:15:53 Well, your mother was hurt.
01:15:57 She was hurt real bad.
01:16:00 [Dawn]
01:16:02 She was hurt so bad,
01:16:06 [Heidi]
01:16:08 Dad.
01:16:09 She's just hurt.
01:16:10 Where is she?
01:16:11 It's okay, Dawn.
01:16:13 We'll take care of her.
01:16:14 Your mom is a soldier,
01:16:16 and soldiers sometimes get hurt,
01:16:18 and sometimes they even...
01:16:21 die in battle.
01:16:23 And that's what happened.
01:16:27 [no audible dialogue]
01:18:04 [Heidi]
01:18:06 was born in Newport, Indiana,
01:18:12 She was a happy child
01:18:13 who loved spending time outdoors.
01:18:16 Once she even spent
01:18:19 sleeping in a refrigerator box
01:18:21 in her mother's backyard.
01:18:23 She waterproofed it
01:18:26 so she could sleep in it
01:18:31 Grace was a brave woman.
01:18:33 She enlisted in the Army
01:18:37 She met my father, Stanley Phillips,
01:18:39 at boot camp
01:18:41 Iater that summer.
01:18:44 They married after training was over.
01:18:48 My father says that, to this day,
01:18:50 he's still surprised Mom said yes,
01:18:53 which is funny
01:18:54 my sister and me
01:18:56 he was never going
01:19:00 Grace and Stanley loved
01:19:03 They were best friends.
01:19:07 Anyone who knew Grace
01:19:08 knows she was a special person.
01:19:12 She was kind, generous, and funny.
01:19:16 She had a loud, silly laugh
01:19:17 you could hear
01:19:19 even when you were
01:19:20 And she could sing
01:19:24 We'll miss her very much,
01:19:26 but we promise
01:19:28 when we laugh, wake up,
01:19:30 fall asleep,
01:19:31 and look at the ocean.
01:19:35 I promise to keep your memory
01:19:41 [stammering]
01:19:43 Not yet.
01:19:47 Okay, get ready.
01:19:58 [beeping]
01:20:03 ## [piano]
01:20:18 # Can't find all the words yet #
01:20:25 # It's still not the time yet #
01:20:29 # And my mind can't think of anything #
01:20:35 # It only sees you #
01:20:42 # You know I am trying #
01:20:49 # God knows I am trying #
01:20:53 # And why does the wind
01:20:58 # It's still not over #
01:21:05 # I keep on trying #
01:21:11 # I think I'm learning #
01:21:18 # To live in hearts #
01:21:22 # You leave behind #
01:21:25 # Is not to die, Grace #
01:21:36 # And find the right place #
01:21:43 # Is there a right place #
01:21:47 # Where I can make it
01:21:52 # And face tomorrow? #
01:21:59 # I keep on trying #
01:22:06 # I think I'm learning #
01:22:12 # To live in hearts #
01:22:16 # You leave behind #
01:22:20 # Is not to die, Grace #
01:22:26 # The world go round some #
01:22:32 # We move along some #
01:22:39 # To live in hearts #
01:22:43 # Of theirs and mine #
01:22:47 # Is not to die #
01:22:51 # Grace #
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